I’m really sorry that you’re in this position. I recently read this book, and it gave me a lot of insight into my own behavior as well as how I want to raise my child.
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Hey there, I strongly recommend this book Amazon link hereabout parenting and alcohol. Please stick to your guns. Underage drinkers are far more likely to develop life changing addition. Alcohol is not okay for teens.