Yes!! Came to recommend this, too! I love how it’s filled with lists and questionnaires to help you really create a vision and narrow down what you want. I’m the kind of person who really had 0 idea where to start and this has helped me so much!! It’s even on a little sale on amazon right now!
The Budget-Savvy Wedding Planner & Organizer: Checklists, Worksheets, and Essential Tools to Plan the Perfect Wedding on a Small Budget https://www.amazon.com/dp/1623159857/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_oEOdCb022VQ12
Hey girl. I also never spent my whole life dreaming of this elaborate wedding I would one day have, quite honestly I never thought I’d find a man I’d love and to love me enough to marry… so I get it. What I did after we got engaged was enjoy the moment.. after a few months I got a wedding planning book off Amazon. I sat down with my fiancé and went through the first few chapters, it had a bunch of check lists to get the ball rolling. Checklists included our budget, vision, what was important to us, what vendors we would need, it helped so much! After we went through those check lists together and highlighted the important stuff we wanted, it made it sooo much easier. Put together a vision board on Pinterest. What are your favorite colors, what flowers do you like, what type of centerpieces catch your eye? I saved everything I liked to a board and then after I combed through it and edited it to make a cohesive vision. I hope this helps!!!! this is the book I ordered!
I bought The Budget-Savvy Wedding Planner & Organizer as a Christmas gift for my fiancée this year. It walks you through the thought process pretty well and it's got a bunch of tips and tricks to save money on pretty much everything you could think of for a wedding, and it's laid out in a really nice and organized manner. We haven't started going through it yet because she hasn't received it, but I'm excited to!
I’m sure you could get a lot of help here, but my friend bought me this book when I got engaged as a broke grad student and I found it had a lot of helpful info: here ya go
I used The Budget-Savvy Wedding Planner... https://www.amazon.com/dp/1623159857?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share