There's a chapter on this exact subject in a book I recently wrote: When Dad Isn't Walking you Down the Aisle. You can find it here (and much more advice as it pertains to your wedding photography) at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09JXZTHV7.
Actually, there is a podcast here: https://completeweddingphotography.com/the-podcast/, and a Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/completeweddingphotography. Hope you find what you're looking for.
Good luck! Just remember, you CAN'T please everyone ELSE for you wedding day, but you CAN please YOURSELF!!