{"product":{"product_id":"B00B07O4YA","title":"The Ironwood Collection Of Alpha Moves","price":"2.99","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51TX4IrUpqL._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00B07O4YA"},"comments":[{"body":"Different strokes I guess. For me the actual actions are easy, once I wrap my mind around \"there is no alpha with a side of beta\". Helps me out of the \"sprinkle some alpha on it\"-LARP thing I can be prone to do.\r\n\r\n\\\u0026gt; Time to value myself and focus on doing what I want. I need to remove \"she\" from my priorities list.\r\n\r\nExactly what I define alpha as. Just do what you feel like and DGAF. I somtimes try to [channel Corey.](https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/)\r\n\r\nIn case you want to get specific:\r\n\r\nAs for alpha traits, you can do worse than to check out [Rians video based on the  MMSLP chapter.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMMzbNdxJ-4\u0026amp;list=PLXmCJkDEG4Io9e0oqg96jyb4T9Me1sWRW\u0026amp;index=42) \r\n\r\nAs for concrete play-by-play some people recommend the [Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves](https://www.amazon.com/Ironwood-Collection-Alpha-Moves-ebook/dp/B00B07O4YA) \\- when I read it I couldn't fit in my \"frame\" or whatever, but I will revisit as this was a while ago when I was even more retarded. Maybe it'll work for you. \r\n\r\nGeneral Game concepts apply too. Negs, rapport-break, disqualification etc. It takes some tweaking though, as your wife knows you and thus any incongruence will be noticed. Hard Mode. :)","subreddit_name":"marriedredpill","author":"ImpatientZen"},{"body":"Read Ian ironwood's book \"the ironwood collection of alpha moves\" https://www.amazon.com/Ironwood-Collection-Alpha-Moves-ebook/dp/B00B07O4YA","subreddit_name":"askseddit","author":"JacksonMRP"}]}