Hmmm ok no worries let me just drop some basic sources here.
Overall islam book, really great resource for you and your wife and daughter
For you and your wife (eventually ur daughter too): Muhammad, his life based on the earliest sources by Martin Lings
Since you and your wife have a Catholic background here is an interfaith discussion that is a great intro to islam and how we interact with Christianity: First One Second One
For you and your wife (eventually your daughter too): Yaqeen Institute this will give you and your wife a holistic understanding of who we Muslims are and how and why we act the way we do. Anything by Imam Omar Suleiman is especially great.
Finally, another great intro read:A Thinking Person’s Guide to Islam, you and your wife will love this as it will give you the essence of islam in 12 verses of Quran.
Seriously may Allah bless u and ur wife.
I’ll also ask the imam at ISNA Canada what they can help with. I’ll get back to you god willing.