All of these things are relatable. I have been there. There was a point where I would’ve suggested just to take it slow, so long as you were enjoying day to day life with him and see where you ended up. That is terrible advice. The truth of the matter is that wanting to be married with a child on the way by age 30, doesn’t give you a ton of wiggle room for non-committal men. Now 30 isn’t a magic number and I hate to think of you stressing about a specific age or date, especially since there is still a pandemic likely to hinder wedding plans. BUT we often give women bad advice regarding fertility. “Oh there’s no rush, celebs are having babies at 45.” Never count on this working out.
Either freeze your eggs ASAP and take your time slowly, overturning every rock until you find the perfect specimen of a man. Lol. Or start being very intentional and recognizing the ones who aren’t on the same page and refuse to make excuses for them. This will knock you off track.
Here is a very old, but decent, read that basically says guys know much earlier than we think whether or not they want to marry us and how we can tell. All of this said though, there are only a couple things you can do in a relationship at 27 that you can’t recover from so don’t stress too much! Most importantly, never stay stagnant while you’re waiting to figure him out. Keep improving yourself. 💕
The List: 7 Ways to Tell If He's Going to Marry You--in 30 Days or Less! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001GQ3DVU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_D6KRW2NZRGB23YJSVQTE