I wasn't going to respond to you because your comment confirms my theory that you're a troll. But then I saw that you've edited your comment twice, which suggests you might actually care about how people are responding to you and aren't a troll, but really are that ignorant about the BDSM community and kink.
The offense you've induced doesn't have anything to do with the fact that you're a man and we're women - it's that you play the dominant role in a kink context irresponsibly based on the sentiments you've expressed here. In an extreme scenario, half-hearted aftercare can be a form of emotional abuse, and I'm guessing you're offended that I even just said that.
Since you're probably not the only 25yo "dominant" male reading this thread who is woefully ill-informed about BDSM, I strongly recommend any lurkers who are confused check out The Loving Dominant. This guide provides great advice on how to be dominant in the bedroom while also providing the emotional support your partner needs.
Try starting here.
The (New and Improved) Loving Dominant https://www.amazon.com/New-Improved-Loving-Dominant-ebook/dp/B00AY88OJ2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1548576253&sr=8-1&keywords=the+loving+dom
Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/slave Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Paradigms-Power-Styles-Master-Relationships-ebook/dp/B00PG5DZL0/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1548576315&sr=8-1-spell
Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B013CGV7R8/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tkin_p1_i7
Actually check out all of Raven Kaldera's BDSM books. I'm not interested in all his mystic mumbo jumbo titles but the BDSM/Leather books are spot on.
Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive. A Must Read For Any Woman In A BDSM Relationship https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TSLJNTQ/ref=oh_aui_d_asin_title_o07_?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Real Service https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B013PQCT4A/ref=oh_aui_d_asin_title_o01_?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Rules for a Knight https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00UEKBRUI/ref=oh_aui_d_asin_title_o02_?ie=UTF8&psc=1 (From one Dom to another, just read it.)
That should keep you busy for a while. I hope it helps you find what you are looking for. Hit me up if you have questions.
General Domination
The (New and Improved) Loving Dominant https://www.amazon.com/New-Improved-Loving-Dominant-ebook/dp/B00AY88OJ2/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+loving+Dom&qid=1582057578&sr=8-1
This was the first book I read and it heavily influenced my own style which is why it's at the very top of this list.
Dom's Guide To Submissive Training: Step-by-step Blueprint On How To Train Your New Sub. A Must Read For Any Dom/Master In A BDSM Relationship https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00ELXP0J8/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o02?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Vol. 2: 25 Things You Must Know About Your New Sub Before Doing Anything Else. A Must Read For Any Dom/Master In A BDSM Relationship https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00F6LZXKU/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o03?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Vol. 3: How To Use These 31 Everyday Objects To Train Your New Sub For Ultimate Pleasure & Excitement. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00FNALLEG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o04?ie=UTF8&psc=1
The Advanced Dom's Guide To Submissive Training: 42 Must-Know Tips To Make You The Billionaire DOM That No Sub Can Resist. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DFDLPHU/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
The Breast Punishment Primer: Everything You Could Ever Want to Know About Boobs and BDSM https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007S13BL4/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/slave Relationships https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08L34RMQ1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i8
This is pretty much the de facto textbook on the different variants of M/s dynamics.
Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Raven-Joshua-Questions-Relationships-ebook/dp/B08L1DP562/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=Dear+Raven+and+Joshua%3A+Questions+and+Answers+About+Master%2FSlave+Relationships&qid=1617521379&sr=8-1
Mastering Mind: Dominants With Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Mind-Dominants-Neurological-Dysfunction-ebook/dp/B08L1B3F8R/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=mastering+mind+raven+bdsm&qid=1609673809&sr=8-1
Broken Toys: Submissives With Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction https://www.amazon.com/Broken-Toys-Submissives-Neurological-Dysfunction-ebook/dp/B08L38MCB3/ref=mp_s_a_1_10?dchild=1&qid=1609673933&refinements=p_27%3ARaven+Kaldera&s=digital-text&sr=1-10&text=Raven+Kaldera
Hell on Wheels: Disabled Dominants https://www.amazon.com/Hell-Wheels-Dominants-Raven-Kaldera-ebook/dp/B08L32D8YX/ref=pd_sim_1?pd_rd_w=6S2vB&pf_rd_p=dc435707-6f1f-492e-b80d-8408db56abc9&pf_rd_r=TQQR91MJWQHZRFBQ38BP&pd_rd_r=be86de3e-c940-4c14-8071-3d143016b91d&pd_rd_...
Kneeling in Spirit https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08L319RLX/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i5
Frogs into Princes: Neuro Linguistic Programming https://www.amazon.com/Frogs-into-Princes-Linguistic-Programming-dp-0911226192/dp/0911226192/ref=mt_other?_encoding=UTF8&me=&qid=1617149872
Mind Play https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00DTIVTDM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o02?ie=UTF8&psc=1
The Mind Play Study Guide https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00ZDH0C5I/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o03?ie=UTF8&psc=1
How to Hypnotise Anyone - Confessions of a Rogue Hypnotist https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00FFAT7OK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o08?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive. A Must Read For Any Woman In A BDSM Relationship https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00TSLJNTQ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o07?ie=UTF8&psc=1
This first one is an amazing condensed how to on submission.
How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive: A Practical Guide to Making Your Fantasies a Reality https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00NC05X2K/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
From one Dominant to another, just read it.
The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts https://www.amazon.com/Five-Love-Languages-Secret-Lasts/dp/B079B7PJMV/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=love+languages&qid=1617521708&sr=8-1
The Rational Male https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00FK901R8/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o05?ie=UTF8&psc=1
5 Stages of Love : From Personal Development to Deeper and Longer Lasting Relationships https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07FYWBBPT/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Mastery https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007V65PBK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
48 Laws of Power https://www.amazon.com/48-Laws-Power-Robert-Greene-ebook/dp/B0024CEZR6/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1617523196&sr=8-1
http://bestslavetraining.com/ https://thekinkyworldofvile.wordpress.com/ https://submissiveguide.com/ https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/personal-safety/submissive-rights-the-pressure-to-submit-for-novice-subs/ https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/ https://loftnc.com/home/calendar-of-events/18-blog/175-the-endorphin-levels-in-bdsm-a-short-primer-on-sending-a-submissive-into-hyperspace
Your First Munch https://youtu.be/ZIHRDJGTSCo
This is just an extremely helpful video that I used myself before my first munch and has helped many people I've shared it with.
Top Ten Red Flags to Look Out For in BDSM https://youtu.be/HAc_KAOrMPo
If anyone has any questions for me please feel free to ask.
I suggest reading The Loving Dominant.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AY88OJ2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_E7AtCbECJ33K9
I’m a sub and I found that book beyond helpful in figuring out what I was looking for.
Just to confirm here: https://www.amazon.ca/New-Improved-Loving-Dominant-ebook/dp/B00AY88OJ2