Like in hockey you never make a goal if you don't shoot. Go out four nights a week, play the game with four sets an hour for five hours a night. Its easy! Read the books. So quit moping around on the internet, read a book and get out there. You can do it, and you'll feel like the man when people start telling you they are amazed by how confident and out going you are. Fake it till you make it. http://www.venusianarts.com/ http://www.amazon.com/The-Pickup-Artist-ebook/dp/B002Z0QV9M/ref=tmm_kin_title_0?ie=UTF8&m=AG56TWVU5XWC2
Reading in public on the kindle is nice and discrete too. ;) Good luck, have fun and play safe.