I'm sorry they are doing this to you. Hopefully they will let love trump dogma.
I'd go buy them a big ol' "WWJD" gift and an education.
https://horizon.westmont.edu/1811/oped/the-bible-isnt-anti-gay-and-should-not-be-read-as-such/
https://theconversation.com/using-the-bible-against-lgbtq-people-is-an-abuse-of-scripture-110128
https://www.amazon.com/Sins-Scripture-Exposing-Bibles-Reveal-ebook/dp/B000FCK3E6