{"product":{"product_id":"1591792576","title":"The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire","price":"9.97","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/516yjy1NueL._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/1591792576"},"comments":[{"body":"This book may be right up your alley. Check it out:\r\nThe Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire\r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Superior-Man-Challenges/dp/1591792576\r\n\r\nAs for Porn-Masturbation-Orgasm (PMO), NoFap can definitely help you out with that. But I wouldn't wait around wondering whether you think porn is bad for you or not, all the while you dig yourself deeper and deeper into the drenches of porn. There's only one way this can spiral if you don't stop it - down. So catch yourself now and commit to replacing PMO, or at least porn, with healthier habits. Execise, writing, wood craving, sports.","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"jedimindtrickk"},{"body":"You don't need to suppress it. You can enjoy watching a beautiful woman, you can appreciate the beauty, the feminine energy, this is what we do.  Then we go back to our partner and make her happy the best we can.\r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576","subreddit_name":"AskMen","author":"Micosilver"},{"body":"You might benefit from a read of this book, Way Of The Superior Man by David Deida:\r\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576\r\n\r\nI'm simplifying this, but I find that if you put in work on yourself it acts as a vacuum and attracts people into your life.  There needs to be a reason for people to become curious, to gravitate towards you because they are interested in the life you live.  If you were to go around trying to maintain contacts with people strictly to find out what is going on with them in hopes that they start communicating with you and inviting you to more social events, most likely those people are going to wonder what you have been doing with yourself.  If the answer is \"much of the same\" it doesn't give them incentive to keep in contact.  No amount of social calibration can fix an uninteresting life.\r\n\r\nIn the past, if I had times when this was happening, it was a clear sign to me that I should not be concerned with what other people are doing with their lives, and that I should be paying attention to things that I haven't been doing for myself. ","subreddit_name":"seduction","author":"IntrovertMcGert"},{"body":"First, give yourself some grace. First way to get out of the prison is to be aware of the prison you are in. Thank yourself that you have come this far to be aware. Relax and realize you are on the right path. Even if you have failed, each failure is the product of you progressing towards a goal.\r\n\r\n.\r\n\r\nSecond, have an absolute abundance mentality. Know that your girl is out there and only time is waiting for that moment. Tons of girls are out there. Let women chase you. Let yourself find the good friend group because:\r\n\r\n\u0026gt; \"Waste No More Time Arguing What A Good Man Should Be. Be One.\" -Marcus Aureluis\r\n\r\n\r\nThird: Get the book: [The Way of the Superior Man](https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576) You will thank me later.","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"Feenix_25"},{"body":"This. Going into zen teacher mode when your SO is stressed is just going to come off as annoying. A lot of the time people don't actually want someone to try and fix their problems, but someone who will listen. \r\n\r\nRecommended reading: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Way-Superior-Man-David-Deida/dp/1591792576\r\n\r\nHas some weird parts, but definitely explains the correct way to deal with your partner :)","subreddit_name":"Meditation","author":"Jr0218"},{"body":"Achas? Porquê? Eu achei bastante bom. Não no estilo de aprender a seduzir pessoas ou coisa do gênero, mas pela conclusão da experiência, de que nada daquilo tinha valido a pena, até que ponto é que se tinham deixado de levar, o quão perdida toda a gente estava, etc.\r\n\r\nAcho que é um livro muito interessante para se ler de forma geral e para aprender alguma coisa sobre a vida. Não é um livro sobre sedução ou relações, para isso recomendo [The Way of the Superior Man](https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1479641807\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=the+way+of+the+superior+man) ou a Art of Seduction do Robert Greene, nunca li mas já me disseram que é decentemente bom.\r\n\r\nO Way of the Superior Man não dá nenhuma dica passo-a-passo, mas diz qual é o mindset que deve predominar nas relações ou no inicio das mesmas. Tanto em termos de começar e manter relações como de sensualidade é um dos melhores livros que já li.","subreddit_name":"portugal","author":"Ilostmynewunicorn"},{"body":"I'll get slaughtered for this, but check out /r/theredpill.\r\n\r\nDespite it's awful reputation, it is a philosophy on how a man can be more attractive to women.  The basic premise is that society doesn't teach men how to be attractive to women, and there ARE things we can do to \"up our game.\"\r\n\r\nand for the haters: it is not a dogma aimed at picking girls up, or being a player.  It's meant to teach men how to be MEN, in an increasingly feminine society.  It taught me to be a better partner, boyfriend, and lover.\r\ndownvote away\r\n\r\nedit: slightly less controversial: I recommend reading \"the Way of the Superior Man\"  http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Superior-Man-Challenges/dp/1591792576","subreddit_name":"dating_advice","author":"Dishmayhem"},{"body":"Read [The Way of the Superior Man](http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Superior-Man-Challenges/dp/1591792576). I recommend it for all men, especially married men, particularly men in your situation. \r\n\r\nI was in your situation and it has totally turned around. My relationship with my wife has never been better and sex is frequent and satisfying. It went from once a month to 6-7 times a week. \r\n\r\nIn short, focus on yourself. Make yourself better. Get in shape, eat better, quit bad habits, start good habits. Move up the chain in your job. Try to make yourself a better man. You will find that she will start to respect you more and treat you better. \r\n\r\nIt takes work, it takes time, but it works and it's worth it. ","subreddit_name":"Marriage","author":"Gizmo-Duck"},{"body":"I cant offer you any real advice on your situation as I haven't experienced this for myself but I can recommend a book. What you are explaining, David talks about a lot in the book and I feel you both would really benefit from this.\r\n\r\nThe way of the superior man by David Deida\r\n\r\nhttp://www.amazon.co.uk/Way-Superior-Man-David-Deida/dp/1591792576\r\n\r\nJust don't give up and don't ever stop showing that you love her.","subreddit_name":"TwoXChromosomes","author":"Distracteddaydreamer"},{"body":"Understood. Also check out [The Way of the Superior Man](http://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1301709979\u0026amp;sr=8-1). The book's a little hokey and somewhat dubious in places, but it's worth reading for the good advice in there. There's stuff in there I wish I'd learned years ago, and my relationship with my SO has benefited immensely, especially in regard to sex frequency.","subreddit_name":"sex","author":"nacreous"},{"body":"hey, you sound like a really nice guy. but it also sounds like you like your wife a lot (when she is not blowing up at you)\r\n\r\ncheck out this book, its really really good (its not for men in particular, but its about the issues a man faces) \r\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-David-Deida/dp/1591792576\r\n","subreddit_name":"AskReddit","author":"BreweryBaron"},{"body":"You sound like you are throwing in the towel, which I did for two years after 22 years of no action and much, much frustration. So I'm just gonna recommend three books that helped me out. I highly, highly recommend the first. The second is what got me out of my funk. These two books helped me understand women where before I frankly didn't know shit. The third one is great for confidence/self esteem, which can help anyone. \r\n\r\n[The Way of the Superior Man](https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576)\r\n\r\n[How to be a 3% Man](https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Man-Corey-Wayne/dp/1411673360) \r\n\r\n[6 Pillars of Self Esteem](https://www.amazon.com/Six-Pillars-Self-Esteem-Definitive-Leading/dp/0553374397)\r\n\r\nI am aware of how cringey/snake oil'sy some of these books come off as(especially How to be a 3% Man), but they are good. \r\n\r\nEdit: And if you aren't going to read any of this stuff, at least do yourself a favor and work on improving your posture. It makes a huge difference in how people respond to you. ","subreddit_name":"dating","author":"Frandaman760"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1473186180\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=the+way+of+the+superior+man\r\n\r\n","subreddit_name":"seduction","author":"aswjacob"},{"body":"For more info see https://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576","subreddit_name":"TheRedPill","author":"Kolantah"},{"body":"Here are some books I like on general life advice:\r\n\r\n[The Way of the Superior Man](http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Superior-Man-Challenges/dp/1591792576)\r\n\r\n[How to Win Friends and Influence People](http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671027034/ref=sr_1_1?s=books\u0026amp;ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1457795544\u0026amp;sr=1-1\u0026amp;keywords=how+to+win+friends+and+influence+people)\r\n\r\n[The Enchiridion - how a Roman slave overcame disability and used philosophy to survive harsh times, it's a short but challenging read](http://www.amazon.com/Enchiridion-Dover-Thrift-Editions-Epictetus/dp/0486433595/ref=sr_1_1?s=books\u0026amp;ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1457795597\u0026amp;sr=1-1\u0026amp;keywords=enchiridion)","subreddit_name":"gay","author":"GoHiroki"}]}