Three To Get Married by Ven. Fulton J Sheen. It's Catholic, but would probably be suitable for any Christian as it focuses on having a Christ-centred marriage.
I'd recommend "Three to Get Married" by Ven. Fulton J. Sheen for request #2.
Congratulations! If I could recommend a book Three to Get Married https://www.amazon.com/dp/0933932871/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_9DDCFJB2CC4GDTQ02NJT Very spiritually beneficial to understanding marriage!
My ex-husband once bought me this very misleadingly titled book, Three to Get Married, as a "gift". Needless to say, he's now One to Get Married.
Around the same time he also got me one called "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands", so there were obviously some serious control issues there, which seems to be a theme ubiquitous in Christianity.
From the Amazon description:
>"Every woman can achieve a deeply satisfying marriage if she adheres to certain fundamentals men require. Preparing dinner, caring for the children without complaint, greeting her husband with a kiss and engaging in sexual intimacy instead of "tearing down a husband's necessary sense of strength and importance"
I remember ACTUALLY reading it at the time, and it boiled down to "He treats you that way because you deserve it. Also, there's no such thing as sexual consent in marriage."
I just went out to check my garage book storage for them because I'm sure there were other hilarious tidbits in each of them, but I must have thrown them out in a fit of rage. The husband, however, I threw out with cold, calculating litigation. Too bad I can't also get alimony from God, I hear he's loaded.
I recommend reading Three to get Married.