TOM V2(the other man) is a great cheap beginner mount. im 5'2 as well and have one. it's got 3 sides and can have weights added to the bottom. if your toy doesn't have a suction cup you can always buy one from Lustarts as well
Thisis pretty helpful! I have also found sticking it on the wall of my bathtub is a new favorite position. I put the dildo in and then bend over to hold on to the edge of the tub, and push back until the suction cup attaches. I like to attach the dildo a little higher on the wall, so it is angled down. This feels great and will have me leaking quickly!
People have positively reviews the The Other Man aka TOMv2 to hold dildos for her to ride. Then there’s some cock rings out there you can use to add a dildo below your junk. TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_a_MQYK0AS3WDB71HXWTGC4
We have this and I believe it checks all your boxes. The older version came with a bottom which held weight inside the base. It's not available anymore but there are some pics online showing how you can make and attach your own base. It doesn't really slide if you put it on a blanket instead of a sheet. Looks like it's currently out of stock but they usually get restocked every month or so. There are numerous real videos available online of it being used.
TBH, I've never used the suction bases. I always either hold it my hands, or my wife is pegging me. There's a lot of threads on /r/cumfromanal and /r/topsandbottoms and some other subs about how to make the dildo work. Basically, you need to find something to stick it to that you can fit your legs behind or beneath- a wall does NOT work. Tubs, seats, doorframes, and table legs have been mentioned. Some guys use a tile or plate on their bed. There's a device specifically designed for the task too. The next level would be to get a fucking machine with a flat plate to which you attach the dildo.
Hope this helps, and have fun!
The main problem with suction cup dildos is the most surface are going to point the toy straight up, or straight out. Both are really not good angles for self use.
Maybe consider one of these https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_5HFV1BD6T0W0Q1WZJRR0 It has other angles so you can find the right angle that works best for your use
It's there - https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
PS: The prudes controlling Amazon just don't want their search results to include anything sex-related. You either have to navigate through categories, or use Google search to look for sex toys on Amazon (ridiculous, but works).
https://www.amazon.ca/TenderBeaver-Other-Man-Suction-Cup/dp/B00A52GCJG
The toy has a suction cup
That's what I stumbled upon, but I'd rather 3D print one as I don't live alone (A "door stop"). The angles seem a bit improvable for butt stuff, but I don't really know which ones I should use in my design. I planned to print it in PLA+ (Easiest plastic to use) and to sand down the surfaces where I plan to stick the toy. I was thinking making one that can fit some weights could be a good idea instead of securing it with my legs
There’s a toy called “the other man” that’s basically a multi sided suction dildo mount. You can use that to d.p. Your wife by yourself. You can even role play while you’re doing it. Pretend you’re guiding another man into her and whatnot before adding yourself to the mix. It’s a pretty nice addition to the toy box.
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
This is a big help and allows a variety of positions and can be used easily in the comfort of your bed or couch.
You can also use plates to get something stable for a toy to stick on.
I like to lay on my side if I'm feeling lazy about it. It allows reach and you can fuck your legs to get good, deep penetration.
Is it made for this purpose, or just happen to work out?
Edit: I think I found it, or something similar. Learn something new everyday.
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
I use a TOM, but its a pretty obvious device. https://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/B00A52GCJG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
But its freaking awesome! positions things correctly and can take a riding!
It's sold out right now but here's the link.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Is the TOM v2 dildo mount what you're looking for?
I'm not sure where to find it in stock, sorry...
It's called a Tom V2 the other man here
I have this and a shower mount. Works pretty well for half the price.
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_G2TsFbTR53H48
The T.O.M. comes to mind. Unfortunately Amazon doesn't sell it where I live and I'm on the fence if I should import it from the U.S.
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Depends on what kind of “sex” you like. I bought https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00A52GCJG/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B00A52GCJG&linkCode=as2&tag=pleasurebet07-20&linkId=bfae987eab4cbc3f74cac14bfbc2be2f my favorite experience was when using something like this https://m.bestvibe.com/wireless-big-black-dildo.html?spm=m.c_6.g with clit stim.
Maybe ask yourself what it is you are trying to replace? Intimacy? Or just orgasm? Those can be achieved in many ways and in fact might be more fun to explore….good luck!
Could definitely work....
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Have you seen the TOM (The Other Man): https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
This may be of interest: https://www.amazon.com.au/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
If it has a suction cup you can use it in the shower or even just stick it to the floor and squat down on it. Another thing that can be really sexy is attaching one dildo to the wall to ride and having another that you suck on.
Would also highly recommend a prostate specific toy. Dildos are great, but are not designed to specifically target your prostate. And that little booger is a LOT of fun once you get familiar with it.
Also check this
It's this!
I want one. . .
Thanks!
The base that I'm bouncing on here is this one.
I do! Here's an Amazon link.
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_5KK01ETQ6RDSYRK4N2WS
Believe there may be weight attachments to go with it to make it really work though.
It’s in stock right now…
So I recently started exploring anal a little more and I tried it on my sex-machine. it's wonderful because you can use it to just hold your toy and move your hips instead. or obviously turn it on and have fun that way.
I have the tabletop version which "can" work for doggy-style but I don't recommend it. For you I'd recommend the Hismith Premium w attachments. That way you can mount any suction cup toys you get, it has an extending attachment, and 2 silicone dildos. Keep in mind it's very pricey, but after I bit the bullet and bought one I can't live without it lol.
Orrrr if you really don't want to shell out so much money- which is completely fair, try out the Tom v2 . I've seen tons of great reviews about it and it's apparently good for doggystyle and light riding.
Suction cup + T.O.M. The Other Man It's as silent as you are and makes getting a comfy position much easier.
Surprised no one has mentioned TOM v2 yet
It's called 'The Other Man' (TOM) dildo mount.
I got it on amazon its called TOM v2
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_a_5RJM7Z44SZFA9R9XFG0K
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Thank you.
I think I found it. https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_8TAFWZY27T42F6GJJMBG
Those fascist little poopoo pants can't handle a healthy discussion.
They get triggered at the slightest little comment that doesn't align with their idea of utopia, because it's their freedom to not get their feefees hurt. Meanwhile they completely trample anyone else's freedom, banning left, right, fucking up, down all-around. .
I don't necessarily agree with everyone here, which I like, but we all get to have a conversation and it's good and healthy.
Now when those little battle-trolls come rolling in, I have nothing good to say to or about them, other than I'm guessing they just seethe in their bedrooms at night, thinking about punching Nazis and cry themselves to sleep with their waifu pillows, or fall asleep with Tom tucked neatly into them while sucking their thumbs.
But if anyone wants to have a good, healthy discussion about something that I'm willing to engage in I will, and I may learn a thing or two at the same time.
I recently picked this up. Kind of expensive but works like a charm. The different angles are a bonus over using a square shaped object.
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
Currently unavailable. :-/ TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount
The closest I have gotten to this, has been:
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
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So previously it just said out of stock. I click on your link and it says it cant be shipped to my location. I'm so confused.
As to why. Maybe because I'm in the states and I assume you aren't. Idk but it looks like they are back in business. So even if I have to wait for I will. Good luck!!!
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
Looks like they are on backorder but at least they have a date. This thing is AWESOME!!!
Imma leave this here for, y’know, science…
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
You can also google it and use the link provided in one of the sex toy rating websites if the link doesnt work. I had a hard time finding it in amazon as well.
T.O.M Though it seems to be out of stock atm maybe they are coming out with a v3
https://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/B00A52GCJG/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
And the suction cups came from Lust arts
The "traffic cone" thing you described seeing once was probably the TOM Mount.
One simple way to DIY your own toy mount though is to buy a thigh harness and just wrap it around a pillow.
Try "The Other Man" https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
Unfortunately it's currently unavailable but this is where I got it. here
You could use pice of chipboard or some similar material place it on bed and stick dildo on it.
Or you could buy dildo mount like this one https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
It is called a tom. Here's the amazon link. I dont have any extra weight bags with mine, have not needed them.
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_vb3XDbE77V2P2
As long as your dildo has a suction cup, this thing is a godsend https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
I found it on Amazon here
I think it's this one, it's very popular in this sub.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_53RHFb9YYC6N6
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
TomV2 dildo mount. Very helpful tool. I got mine a year ago price was around 30 then.
Its called TOM (the other man). It's great for my wife to ride a dildo while she sucks me.
Not Sure If You Know But, They Are Available On Prime Again...
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_8AuxFb5HAZV36
Oh, thats Tom.
Likely you are searching on mobile, you have to go to the adult section first under Health and Household and then search for adult stuff or they just hide everything.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_p3upFbG77JEJQ
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_R2SoFbE1680B3
Get a T.O.M.
Put sandbags in the base.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_pYvgHeKAfEdkK
Not currently available, got mine a couple years ago. If you can find one, highly recommend getting the bottom that lets you add weights.
Happy hunting
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share its been unavailable for awhile 😢
I think this is it
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=36513
like this? no prostate stim, but it does do dp.
there’s also this:
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_otIpGIECAuUDf
The T.O.M. dildo mount is designed for DP. Whether or not you'll be able to make it work well for you and your partner depends: my ex and I didn't have a lot of luck with it, when we were new to DP. We are both pretty awkward people, though, so YMMV ☺
You need one of these, got one for the wife, and shes in love.
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_WGTdDbRSYYM50
I have an overview of best body-safe toys by category here.
If you're looking for something to imitate another person penetrating you, then thrusting dildos are the solution. The most realistic toy is the Velvet Thruster Mini plus VixSkin realistic sheath, ideally Holster, which can be mounted on a dildo mount too to make it hands-free.
For a slimmer, less-realistic toy, the Maia Max/Monroe is nice because it vibrates as well as thrusts plus includes an adjustable suction cup and remote control.
Looks like you need one of these.
They're awesome.
Looks like you need one of these.
The VixSkin Mustang is a very good toy, but I agree about the suction cup base not being the strongest. Also, as far as positioning, you'll probably need something to mount the suction cup dildo on so she can ride it comfortably: there are a couple options for that, the TOM (The Other Man) being the cheaper one and the Liberator mounts being the more comfortable ones, IMO.
SheVibe is extremely discreet. The vast majority of online sex shops are. The BonBon (which you linked) is three inches taller than the Wing, so I agree about the height. I have a short section to my hands-free dildo guide here that gives the dimensions of each, and also discusses the advantages and disadvantages of the TOM dildo mount, which I reviewed in more detail here.
Very sexy! Also you may like this mount.. TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_yfhDAb7KTDAWM
I have a list of suction cup dildo positions that gives some ideas (full disclosure: I don't have a prostate). Some people find that flat surfaces like tile or a wooden chair (or even a toilet seat) work fine for them. Personally, for more comfort, I'd recommend the Liberator Wing, but I just got a T.O.M. mount too, and I need to test it to see if it moves around too much without the weight attachment system.
Check out this page on Amazon. There are a few other options listed on the bottom. https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8
what about this: https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
It's called "TOMS" other man, got it from amazon.
TOM v2 "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_QvVOxbA7DJTR3
TOM "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awd_dYi2wbAQ41BBJ
TOM "The Other Man" Suction Dildo Mount https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A52GCJG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awd_dYi2wbAQ41BBJ
I was going to get this for my girl and for myself.
And
try those, two options to go with and i think they both work great for what you're talking about
BTW check this out might make it a little easier http://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG