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KY liquibeads. They’re an ovule that you insert that dissolves and lasts fairly well over time. You’ll get a little bit leaking out maybe but they work well and I’ve used them for situations like you describe. They are silicone based so be careful not to use toys or anything else with silicone in it.
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There's a few things about this. First, a lot of men think that vaginal lubrication works similarly to an erection. In men, typically, arousal leads to an erection within about one minute. In women, arousal generally leads to natural lubrication but it's not quite perfect and not as fast and takes some times and sometimes it just doesn't work and it's usually not enough.
I generally excuse myself to the restroom before anything exciting happens so I can get myself ready with one of these bad boys. I generally put it in like 10 minutes before penetration, which is enough time for it to dissolve enough. It's basically a little pod that dissolves inside the vagina and provides natural lubricant. It works good enough. A lot of clients get a bit offended when they see me using regular lubricant from a bottle. Sometimes they come across as offended that they're not "attractive enough" to make me lubricate on my own. The liquibeads are well-hidden and clients don't see them, and they provide enough lubrication.
Last of all: men can't tell the difference between vaginal discharge (which is... not lubricant) and natural or artificial lubricant. Or in other words, this tweet sums it up pretty well.
I don't really feel any difference in vaginal shape during sex with anyone, so, uh... Idk what to tell you there. I'm sure it happens but it's not a big enough difference for me to really notice so I doubt anyone else notices it either.
Maybe try something like these:
I think the concern from the other readers here isn't that you want to satisfy his sexual wants. I want my husband to be satisfied as well! I think the concern is that there's a balance to both your roles - as a protector and provider, he should be taking care of you as well. Meaning use his strength to protect you from harm (painful intercourse or infidelity) as well as providing (pleasurable intercourse) for you. And with that trust, you'll give the same in return. It is a bit troublesome to see that your opinions of men is that they can't go without sex. I married a man, not an animal.
Kind of like this - you would follow him wherever he may go, but he would never go someplace you wouldn't follow.
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