I really love this bracelet. It’s still very feminine but it says what I want it to. I’m in a relationship so not exactly trying to pick up someone but I am very femme/straight passing and I’d like to believe things like this help. I definitely look for clues like this from others when I’m out, especially in my very conservative part of the United States.
I’m femme too, its forced me to think outside the box of short hair and rainbows to communicate my gayness. My black leather jacket helps, even if I’m wearing a cute dress with it. And recently I just got this sapphic bracelet . And this queer t shirt It’s not very subtle, haha but you could find one that isn’t so aggressive.