It's a decal you can buy on amazon, not some one-of-a-kind paint job.
https://www.amazon.com/Coyote-hitting-Sticker-sticker-graphic/dp/B0845YR9RR
Am damage appraiser who also owns a Tesla and who has also been in a wreck with a Model 3.
It doesn't look totaled to me.
Looks like you need a bumper, fender, headlight, signal lamp, and some underside bits. Tesla actually now sells pre-painted versions of both the fender and the bumper, but it's hard for me to imagine that the color match up well on any color other than black (which is a non-tinted color on Teslas). I've yet to see what a pre-painted one looks like on a car.
The end of your right frame rail is directly below where the front tip of the fender is on the inside of the headlight. With the bumper off the car it looks like this.
Per the forums the repair times and parts are a bitch right now, so if you have a sense of humor I'd go get one of those giant band-aid stickers or one of these until you can get it in the shop.
Looks real to me actually. It does have the compression pattern around it, but that's just a result of the poor image quality/high contrast difference. The thing that would be suspicious is if those decals DIDN'T have those pixelated edges and were instead perfectly clear. It's also shaped pretty well to the shape of the dent and the sticker isn't a uniform black. Also, this sticker is an available product (funnily enough, this amazon listing has a very poorly photoshopped image)
https://www.amazon.com/Coyote-hitting-Sticker-sticker-graphic/dp/B0845YR9RR