> Every relationship I cannot stand but to move at a fast pace.
> I am always moving at such a pace my partner becomes overwhelmed.
I would suggest doing some reading about adult attachment styles. This is fairly common of the "anxious preoccupied" and "anxious fearful" states. Especially if you are repeatedly choosing Avoidant or Dismissive attachment style partners
You are using sex and love to bolster your self esteem, and that becomes exhausting and a huge turn off to your partners.
Also, read up on the Pursuer/Distancer dynamic and how it's poisonous to relationships. https://www.gottman.com/blog/how-to-avoid-the-pursuer-distancer-pattern-in-your-relationship/