I really don’t want to dampen your spirits, but I documented things leading up to our first round of IVF and then found it difficult when it didn’t work to hold on to any of those mementos.
Obviously I really hope that it works for you, but I would think ahead so you have a plan of what to do if this round doesn’t pan out as expected.
Our IVF journey was a long one and everyone knows that’s how we conceived so when Philip is old enough to ask we’ll be upfront with him. I also bought him a book before he was born called Wish. It doesn’t deal specifically with IVF, but tells the story of a very longed for child. It makes me cry every time I read it!
Edit: also it might just be my sense of humour, but I can’t wait to tell him he was conceived round the back of a BMW garage when mummy and daddy weren’t even there!
I would buy you this book if I had your address. We didn’t go through nearly as much pain but it was a bumpy road to get to our first. Buy it for your wife. Have tissues ready
Wish (Wish Series, 1) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/148470875X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_2CNR6VYW40KCP6F492PY
Here it is on amazon - the write up is pretty spot on. I've given it as a gift at a couple baby showers for couples I know that have dealt with infertility and its been universally adored.
It's a sweet board book about how a couple wants to start a family but things don't go as planned and they wait and they wait. And eventually they do have a baby. It's not specific about how they get a baby, so it would apply to adoption, infertility, etc. I cried every time I read it. Amazon link to book
I'm not sure how widely it's distributed. I bought it on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/148470875X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_IQFWCb3SE1AFG
Here is the book Wish: https://www.amazon.com/Wish-Matthew-Cordell/dp/148470875X
It's now my standard baby shower purchase for couples who I know have struggled to have a baby. It talks about how a couple wishes for a child and makes plans, but the baby never comes. Then after lots of waiting the baby arrives and how they are so happy. It's really lovely.
Available on Amazon with free same day delivery: Wish https://www.amazon.com/dp/148470875X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_7HkNxb9DGZDJ1