I'm going to suggest a book. Felicia day wrote a book You're Never Weird on the Internet (Almost) Its a memoir and it deals a lot with some of the social issues she had and never fitting in. I've am just starting the book, but just the first f.schooled and not finding her group of people, and how she goes about doing that. It might be something that would help her understand she's not the only one out there with those problems.
Amazon link for anyone else looking for it. Definitely buying this for my Kindle!
Did not actually know she had written a book, but I loved her character in The Guild and she seems like such an interesting person. I'm happy to support her even if I don't like the book, but I'm pretty convinced I'm going to like it already!
Edit: Does anyone know if there is any difference between the version published by Touchstone and the one published by Sphere? (The only difference for the e-book versions that I can see is the price and that the Sphere edition allows for text-to-speech.)