{"product":{"product_id":"099316160X","title":"Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction","price":"14.99","image_url":"https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41tnMsf+yfL._SL500_.jpg","url":"https://www.amazon.com/dp/099316160X"},"comments":[{"body":"They brought it back, but I feel your pain.\r\n\r\nEdit: all I know is that I went on after I got the news late as usual, and they had seemingly masked all the vids, pics, dicks 'n' chicks with NSFW overlays. \r\n\r\nAlso, y'all should read [this](https://www.amazon.com/dp/099316160X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_GxMYCb1XYWTTS). I haven't, but it's a step in the right direction judging by some of your pm's.","subreddit_name":"KidsAreFuckingStupid","author":"Lucky_Number_3"},{"body":"Yes. \r\n\r\nPorn takes your neural circuitry that usually lights up with sex, and burns it out. That’s the long and short of it. Check out “supernormal stimulus.” \r\n\r\nAlso, [this](https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=pd_aw_fbt_img_2/137-7244636-6878236?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;pd_rd_i=099316160X\u0026amp;pd_rd_r=9a46418e-8abb-4330-9229-7c0c56e0753c\u0026amp;pd_rd_w=SD3PE\u0026amp;pd_rd_wg=Z107n\u0026amp;pf_rd_p=e5143995-bc4c-4e22-9b66-79eb4d8ad240\u0026amp;pf_rd_r=TDMMTGJPHKQP8QS4FPFW\u0026amp;psc=1\u0026amp;refRID=TDMMTGJPHKQP8QS4FPFW) book helped me a TON. It’s got a lot of science in it.","subreddit_name":"pornfree","author":"ghosts_and_machines"},{"body":"Personally? No. I had an ex husband like this and he cheated on every one after me as well. It’s not really about you as much as it is about him. Most people who do this would do it to anyone.\r\n\r\nSex addiction uses the same neural pathways in the brain as drugs to chase that new relationship “high” he will always be seeking that feeling and there is a 0% chance you can continue to be his “drug” so to speak. \r\n\r\nNo matter how amazing, sexy and beautiful you are as a person you can’t be new for 50+ years. That’s why some of the most beautiful people still get cheated on. \r\n\r\nPartners with healthy relationships and boundaries understand this and work together to overcome the issues that come up when the newness fades. \r\n\r\nI was sexually abused and that has ZERO to do with his ability to be faithful. \r\n\r\nIt would be a BS excuse if he ever uses that as a reason and as someone who was also assaulted at a young age I would call him out on that as a shameful POS to say that’s the reason.\r\n\r\nThis book is really great for understanding how this cycle is working for him. Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction https://www.amazon.com/dp/099316160X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ypXkFbK063VN4","subreddit_name":"Marriage","author":"happypath8"},{"body":"Is it [this](https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=38L42O9ZJI02T\u0026amp;keywords=your+brain+on+porn\u0026amp;qid=1671617523\u0026amp;refinements=p_n_feature_browse-bin%3A2656022011\u0026amp;rnid=618072011\u0026amp;s=books\u0026amp;sprefix=your+brain+on+porn%2Caps%2C170\u0026amp;sr=1-1)?","subreddit_name":"pornfree","author":"paremiamoutza"},{"body":"I caught my nephew looking at the same thing. It’s inevitable. \r\n\r\nBut, it’s not just the issue of portraying women badly. It messes with their head. Anyone’s really, but much more younger people. \r\n\r\nI recommend reading a book called, “[Your brain on Porn](https://www.amazon.com/dp/099316160X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_PEC511X9EVPQ1ZSS5Z18)”\r\n\r\nBasically, it creates issues ranging from, ED with a real woman, depression,ADHD, this is much more prevalent in younger people too and takes longer to fix in someone that grew up watching porn. Highly recommend for parents. \r\n\r\nSecondly, I’m not sure the age of your son. But, I recommend NextDNS. I used that to block as much as possible. Obviously even they are of age they can do whatever. But, I caught my nephew looking when he was 13. He’s 15 now, and he still finds stuff. But it’s way less because I can see the websites he goes to on next DNS. In two years he’s only found 1 porn site that wasn’t on the block list.","subreddit_name":"Parenting","author":"dude___abides"},{"body":"I'm sorry for the whole situation, but I want to offer a recommendation for [\"Your Brain on Porn\"](https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1640661092\u0026amp;sr=8-1) by Gary Wilson to you. It's a secular look at the dangers of porn and the neuroscience involved. Although I don't think this situation is ideal, I think porn is a lot more dangerous and harmful than most people realize. I'm speaking from a place of experience and sympathy here. I'm not here to accuse you, but to warn you that these things can be more harmful than is obvious.","subreddit_name":"Christianity","author":"thicccccccccccboii"},{"body":"A [book](https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=\u0026amp;sr=) about the effects of pornography on one's brain. An essential read.\r\n\r\nAnd I don't mean this flippantly but if you're serious about fighting this addiction you have to get serious and take responsibility for your own education and really and truly care about it. This community doesn't take it seriously enough; guys have said that recovering from alcohol, heroin, and crack addiction has been easier than recovering from porn addiction.","subreddit_name":"AskReddit","author":"lukeman3000"},{"body":"I was reading \"[Your Brain on Porn](https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1\u0026amp;keywords=Your+Brain+on+Porn\u0026amp;qid=1603658057\u0026amp;sr=8-2)\" (An excellent book by the way) that goes into detail about abusing porn and the negative side effects on your life. It talks about how  people would slowly start to develop these violent fetishes when the hardcore man on woman sex become \"boring\" (vanilla). Also you begin to think all women should be super thin and blond vixens instead of just dating a real, down to earth woman. One of the few books on the market that is telling the truth about porn.","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"sagatwarrior2010"},{"body":"Why don't you actually do the research?\r\n\r\nMost of the credited studies are secular and focus on issues of addiction and neurology and how it causes depression, anxiety, etc etc. \r\n\r\nHere's a place to start. \r\n\r\nhttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books\u0026amp;ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1497270519\u0026amp;sr=1-1\u0026amp;keywords=your+brain+on+porn","subreddit_name":"DebateCommunism","author":"Claudius_Caesar"},{"body":"Actually, what you probably need is more connection with real people. That's what your brain evolved to seek and find soothing. \r\n\r\nAnd \"on line\" may not always be so treacherous for you. Just give your brain time to get back in balance. Watch the vids at www.yourbrainonporn.com, or read this: http://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"clickyclacky"},{"body":"[https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=tmm\\_pap\\_swatch\\_0?\\_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1626673618\u0026amp;sr=8-1](https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1626673618\u0026amp;sr=8-1)\r\n\r\nOrder this and read it at least 3 times. This book will change your life. I have personally seen the benefits in my life.","subreddit_name":"pornfree","author":"nabsrocks"},{"body":"Here a [link to the book on Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8\u0026amp;qid=1468686147\u0026amp;sr=8-1\u0026amp;keywords=Gary+Wilson).\r\n\r\nThanks for sharing!","subreddit_name":"NoFap","author":"PunkSmell"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X","subreddit_name":"moviescirclejerk","author":"SteveHarrington2025"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X","subreddit_name":"moviescirclejerk","author":"SteveHarrington2025"},{"body":"https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction/dp/099316160X","subreddit_name":"moviescirclejerk","author":"SteveHarrington2025"}]}