Dr. Barkley has a couple books on this subject called
Your Defiant Child, Second Edition, 2013: Eight Steps to Better Behavior
Your Defiant Teen, Second Edition, 2013: 10 Steps to Resolve Conflict and Rebuild Your Relationship
Defiant Teens, Second Edition, 2014: A Clinician's Manual for Assessment and Family Intervention
Of course due to your child's age start with the child book and not the teen book.
Dr. William Dodson is another talented ADHD expert, who has written some ADHD books. Instead of doing research like Dr. Barkley he deals with private practice. Here is a 1 hour webinar episode he did on Oppositional Defiant Disorder and its summary or you can watch the same thing via itunes episode 56
Read this book, it is avaliabile for free at most local libraries. What you are talking about is a coexisting condition that occurs in a lot of ADHD kids, especially if they are highly impulsive (which your son is).
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00E3CC29S/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
It is written by one of the leading ADHD authors, who also has good books and videos about ADHD such as the free videos here.
http://adhdlectures.com/lectures.php?catindex=1
Videos 3 4 and 5 are things you should watch.