Looks like Liam Harkmoore. Haven't seen this before though, guess I have to do some research.
You can get something like this which you can add to your setup to allow you to control the water flow. its what i do and works great.
I’m away from home 2 weeks at a time for work so I get a lot of solo play time. I’ve tried lots(like lots and lots) of toys over the years and can honestly say this is the best purchase I’ve made in some time.
I have enough toys for the roller kind but I just pick a few and bring those in this thing.
and, I did not think about anal pump it may help a lot. At first I found it not easy to use, but now it’s very enjoyable for warming up, exciting the hole and get lips, then a rosebud
Not sure on the exact size you're using but here's a link they are very similar to square peg toys being made of silicone
I'm a fan of x lube. It slides real nice and easy to clean.
As for the getting in, it can be difficult. But the bones do adjust. You just gotta keep at it and eventually you can slide in. Guys can't take 4.5 in diameter dildos at first go, but your body adapts.
If you don’t already have one, but a thong!
I usually masturbate before going to sleep and keep the plug in overnight.
Now, this might be completely different for you but for me I haven’t really had any worries about my plug popping out when I sleep with it in, but when I started sleeping with plugs I always wore a thong over it so it kept it in place.
I’d also recommend getting a plug with a narrower shaft so it stays in place.
I don’t know what size you’re working with but my plug is only like 1.7 inches in diameter and made out of glass. (pipedream icicles plug no 25)
Could probably add some activated charcoal powder to any lube and get it black. Definitely safe to have in your body. Looks like it's gonna stain like crazy but washes off with soap.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B076TFQM2Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_1WA0JJA284TSR8FBQZKF
Try this bud. I know you mix up a big batch but this bottle makes it really easy to shake it up into a smooth consistency right away :)
Under Armour Undeniable 32 Ounce Squeeze Bottle with Quick Shot Lid https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005LR3R8O/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_F1NWWMPQ1EJDHGP77FVS?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Lately I’m doing the same with warming my bottle in a large bowl of hot water
I’ve thought about making a big batch but I have to clean the bottle I use every time regardless. Spooning lube into the bottle and shaking it up isn’t such a big deal. If you do get that bottle make sure it’s fully sealed when you shake it lol
No problem! I’m big into toys, if you need advice I can always help.
Ps: use plenty of lube! X-Lube is definitely a great choice!
I’m using the Doc Johnson Rockeye Dildo, which gradually gets girthier up to the point where you should easily be able to take a fist.
It’s not my favorite sensation-wise, but it’s great for stretching :)
Good dildos are very expensive, and by good I mean Mr Hankey and Bad Dragon type toys (damn these toys feel amazing). But, I've also got a much cheaper one that I love and you might want to look at it - Doc Johnson "The Fist". It used to be called Fist of Adonis. NOT the Belladona, or the Bitch Fist, they are much smaller. Doc Johnson Fist Dildo at Amazon
Definitely use J lube and just buy a few cheap plugs on amazon to work your way up. Buy this first.
The shower head part screws on top of the douche nozzle, so that it's hidden. So you simply take off the shower head, then douche.
Mine came with a hose. If that specific one doesn't, they're cheap on Amazon or at your local hardware store.
https://www.amazon.com/Purelux-Shower-Handheld-Fittings-Stainless/dp/B012OJEPNC
So unfortunately this is the closest thing I could find to these fetish pads AmazonBasics Extra-Large Carbon Pet Dog and Puppy Training Pads - Pack of 50, 28 x 34 Inches https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071VTGDPQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_BC4uDbT0YBAB7 I’ve ordered them and will see how effective they are runner up in next comment