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Try a game--there are automatically breaks while you're spinning, rolling, whatever. If you've got an android device you can try out Mattress Mambo 2
For the dice games, I feel like those are pretty expensive for what they are. There are some apps for android and iOS that would allow the same type of thing--and many of them are customizable. Or heck, get your own dice and assign actions to the numbers. The cards look fun--though I haven't played go fish in a loooonnnng time. I'm assuming the expectation of winning would make the game more enjoyable. If you've got and android device, you could check out Mattress Mambo 2
I need to go look up what a violet wand is, but as far as games to slowly ramp up/have more foreplay: Mattress Mambo 2
Ok...I looked up violet wand. That game might not be quite as risqué as you're looking for...but maybe?
You might check out /r/sexygames. If you have an android device you could try Mattress Mambo 2
If you've got an android device, Mattress Mambo 2 is in the Play store with a free and paid version: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.hiddengnome.mattressmambo2.free
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.hiddengnome.mattressmambo2
Mattress Mambo 2 if you have an Android device.