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Traffic Rush seems to hold that core gameplay but doesn't seem to have any lights, so that's probably a no.
Traffic Lanes has the gameplay and the lights, no explosions afaik. If there is a lite version I didn't see it.
Intersection Control also shares that same basic gameplay mechanic, but is "tap/swipe to stop/start each car" instead of "tap these lights to toggle them."