What are /r/Disabledsex's favorite Products & Services?

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Check out the book by Ben Mattlin, which is all about different types of inter-abled relationships. I found it really validating. (Book on Amazon

I also have cerebral palsy and have been a serious relationship with my boyfriend for a year. My disability plays a role but it isn’t the main focus and we love each other and communicate a lot about our physical and emotional needs.

Not SCI-specific, but this is good:

Enabling Romance: A Guide to Love, Sex, and Relationships for the Disabled (and the People Who Care About Them) https://www.amazon.com/dp/0517575329/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_XK0ECDYGWZBK6YKWCEZ7

To some it may matter, to others it won't matter at all. Just as your disability might put some off, but others won't care at all. Also, there are a multitude of ways to pleasure women that doesn't involve your dick at all. Many women can't orgasm through penetrative sex anyway, so it's not as big a deal as you think.

I recommend you check out this book, I read it when I was younger because I had confidence issues, and it works.

https://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring/dp/0060538260

This is supposed to be really good. They claim the main oscillating section was modeled from a device used to collect sperm from dudes with SCI. https://www.amazon.com/Hot-Octopuss-Essential-Powerful-Vibrating/dp/B0846NQ3TR

My husband is a complete T7 and I can get him to orgasm with this. He went 27 years with no orgasm until I used this on him. Magic Wand Massager https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003BYRTGU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_dLruCbXQAFGQ3

Good luck!