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I bought this one based on a great recommendation from someone on here.
I’ll say this was wayyy bigger than I expected and I was super intimidated. I also bought some lube and basically used a vibrator by myself until I was really turned on then used a ton of lube and slowly put it in just the tip at first and then slowly more. It prob took me a good 5 minutes after starting to get about half of it inside of me and just got used to the size. I was able to cum just from this but then did manage to get a bit more in. I did this at first by myself to take off the pressure doing it with him not knowing if I’d enjoy
I ended up loving it by myself and that made the transition to him really easy as I was then looking forward to it.
Now we use it multiple times a week and I can handle the size of it much better. I’ll be honest the last few inches are mostly a waste but the width is what feels best.
We did get a harness thing for him to wear it and the length is much more useful with him doing different positions. For example, he can kinda cuddle me and still hit really deep with this toy where as if it were smaller probably not.
Hope that helps!
A book is exactly what she needs. I wrote down my experiences, I'm sure it'll help her. The first 60 percent is free on Amazon. Please let me know how it goes. I'd love to know it had helped. Danielle xx
https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Valentine-stunning-exploration-thrilling-ebook/dp/B07KGHXFYF/
It helped me so much. It made me feel more sexy, and confident. I wrote it all down, it's on Amazon. First 60 percent is free (only 99c if you like it and want to read the rest). I hope you read it and it helps. Please let me know. Danielle x
https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Valentine-stunning-exploration-thrilling-ebook/dp/B07KGHXFYF/
Not sure about movies, but I wrote down my experiences as a hotwife, and it helps a lot of couples who are starting out. It doesn't look like a hotwife book, so it'll be a subtle approach. Rhe first 60% is free. Thats all she'll need. You will definitely enjoy it.Good luck, Danielle xx
https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Valentine-stunning-exploration-thrilling-ebook/dp/B07KGHXFYF/
That's exactly what my book is. It doesn't even look like a hotwife book. It'll really help you get started, having a woman's perspective will help her (and you). Good luck, Danielle xx
https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Valentine-stunning-exploration-thrilling-ebook/dp/B07KGHXFYF/
I always send my husband lots of messages. She'll be fine, don't worry. I wrote my experiences down, it might help. The first 60 percent is free on Amazon. Good luck, Danielle x
https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Valentine-stunning-exploration-thrilling-ebook/dp/B07KGHXFYF/
I wrote my experiences down, what I worried about, what I enjoyed, conversations that I had with my husband. It has definitely made us closer. My book might really help you guys. Only 99c, it won't make me rich, just happy to share my good experiences x
https://www.amazon.com/Sophie-Valentine-stunning-exploration-thrilling-ebook/dp/B07KGHXFYF/
USB external encrypted hard drive. No worry about internet host privacy, virtually no worry about falling into the wrong hands due to encryption.
https://www.amazon.com/DataLocker-IronKey-Encrypted-External-Drive/dp/B00NG1I3OU
I just started reading David Ley's book Insatiable Wives which is about the Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyles. One of the people interviewed made an interesting point. He considered their marriage to be monogamous because neither he nor his wife are seeking a romantic relationship with anyone else. They are committed to their married life together and don't see that being incompatible with having other sexual partners.
I guess I agree, Monogamy can be about romantic exclusivity, but not sexual exclusivity as long as the couple agrees to that exception.
We're very much one of those couples that found Hotwifing brought us closer together and is very healthy to our marriage. It requires a lot of honesty and trust, and that's the foundation of any good relationship.
It's really worked for us, hands free, only downside is longest recording time we could find is like 30 or 40 min so I miss out on drinks, conversation, flirting etc...heres what we bought Camera Glasses 1080P Miota Mini Video Glasses Wearable Camera for Office/Outdoor/Training/Teaching/Kids/Pets https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07MQ57KKL/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_YTN9H1NG5Z9QK74XG4R6?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Check this out on Amazon Pineapple AnkletsSterling Silver Adjustable Pineapples Chain Link Ankle Bracelets Beach Anklet Jewelry for Women Teens https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CRCW3JB/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_3HSA47ADJVBDGBW9C8Y2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Go slow, continue to talk about this maybe lightly referring to that other dick being connected to a real person. But watch and listen to what she says in reply carefully. Some folks will be game for all kinds of toys and role play but not be interested in taking into real life. So listen and she'll let you know where she is on this. Talk, suggest, but DON'T push. Always respect her boundaries.
As to size, you might want to work up to find her limits rather than start huge and possibly turn her off. This isn't a "go big or go home" type of situation. You might look for something around 8" with girth that has something of a realistic feel rather than being hard. All silicon dildos often are too flexible, so you're looking for a sweet spot between stiff as a stick and floppy. Check out this link: https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Vac-U-Lock-Realistic-Compatible/dp/B008RBKNB0/ref=sr_1_3?gclid=Cj0KCQiAqbyNBhC2ARIsALDwAsAZ-_3rOBgDptP8VOHivXXbl3V-ilDQkwAQFd6WvsK7gdg4DALpessaAo5lEALw_wcB&hvadid=283106225432&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9014978&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=16952630680028411387&hvtargid=kwd-485844039109&hydadcr=15717_9864924&keywords=ultraskyn%2Bvac-u-lock&qid=1638889713&s=hpc&sr=1-3&th=1
Max Sebastian, Jason Lenov, Karly Violet, Arnica Butler, Carter Saint.
There's a series that has stories by several of these (plus Kenny Wright mentioned above). This is Vol 1 of the series. It gives you a good idea of theirs styles.
https://www.amazon.com/Best-Hotwife-Erotica-Summer-Confessions-ebook/dp/B01ETVXN36
Gopro or any action cam on one of those bendy tripods is probably the easiest.
A small drone in hover mode would be great but probably distracting.
Thank you for this advice! I have been trying to reign myself in more, but we have tried some swingers apps and not gotten any bites (that we were looking for at least), so I think for us going out and trying this is exciting and fun even if nothing sexual happens at all between her and any other guys.
I do have photos, but she is not comfortable sharing them publicly, so for the moment they're just for me. But here is a link to the dress in question on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/SheIn-Womens-Sleeveless-Bodycon-Overlay/dp/B07VVPVGPK/ref=sr_1_7?dchild=1&keywords=mesh+dress&qid=1635966251&sr=8-7
Got it. It's not at all uncommon for a guy to have erection "issues" when another guy is part of the action. If you read on this sub some you'll find that one disappointment is that a couple gets a guy and the deal is that the husband will be present which then causes the new guy to have erection or other performance difficulties. Chances are that if you two continue to play around with this you'll get more comfortable. I might also suggest that you try an erection constriction loop (https://www.amazon.com/VenoSeal-Adjustable-Constriction-Loop-1/dp/B00GP2WHL2) positioned behind the scrotum. The price is good on Amazon and don't be put off by the mediocre review by nine people. The thing works well if used correctly. Also know that medically you can cut off all blood supply to a limb for four hours or more with no physiological damage using a tourniquet, so you dick won't fall off from using this. :-) Blood still flows in even when tightened, it's just keeps what's in there from leaking out. Maybe with a little help from your wife as part of the play you can get an erection and if so, tightening this will help keep it. Also, if you have access to Cialis 20mg or the generic equivalent that also could be helpful in addition. If you don't overthink it and start to worry, this can be worked out and your dear wife will no doubt have a really interesting DP experience.
We're on the couple end, but the same precautions would seem to apply to you. Even with someone or a couple seemingly trustworthy, I always have a knife with a quick-deploy blade and this very concealable but very effective pepper spray: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001AQTKUO/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
In some arrangements, I carry a well-concealed auto pistol in my cargo pants (yes, I have a permit and train at least twice a month with my cop friends). Even with my psych/counseling background, I can't be certain of the motives people bring to the meeting or, particularly for the single male, how they will react if my wife requests that they back off something he wants. In a sense this is unfortunate, but I always believe it's better to be prepared for the worst case rather than being put into a difficult situation absent preparation. I'm a bit older and honestly wouldn't trust my hand skills against a fit guy 25 years my junior.
GorillaPod for the win; very versatile.
Can mount a normal camera with the standard screw mount.
If you wan to use your phone, there are camera phone tripod mounts that can grip the phone and attach it to the gorillapod.
Try looking at the size matters line. You can get the mamba, and get a lebron sleeve to go over that. Thick as hell. Get a blindfold and make sure the lube an sleeve’s are warm to the touch. Start in doggy and let her go back on it, so she can adjust to the size. Oh and make sure you go down on her and finger bang her. Slowly add more fingers. You’ll see her cream all over and possibly squirt and the sounds she will make will be amazing. You might record it for you 2 to watch later on. She’ll be amazed at what she took and will thank you.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00HFBWHDK/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8
If you're having full blown panic attacks when your wife is just browsing swingers sites then I think you should really reconsider your current timeline. You should stick with roleplay scenarios and dirty talk for now - and to be clear these can be amazingly hot. Roleplay and dirty talk allow you to indulge your kinks without risking damage to your relationship. I would not do anything more than that so long as you are consistently (or even occasionally!) experiencing panic attacks.
And, at the risk of talking outside my area of expertise, if you are experiencing the effects of unprocessed trauma - and especially if it is impacting your personal life - I really hope you have a trusted trauma counsellor that you can see regularly. Lastly if you haven't read it already, I cannot recommend the book The Body Keeps the Score enough. It is an extraordinary resource to understand the effects of trauma on the human body and mind.
Download the app 3fun hands down the best app we found
I haven't read it, but it's been in my reading list for a while now. it's not specifically about hotwifing, but will probably have some things to say that are relevant to us
also look up "sperm competition" for some other thoughts on the matter.