From what I know Apples iOS has no support for Bluetooth in web applications which is required for Shibbydex to communicate with the toy.
The best way might be to get a cheap Bluetooth 4.0 Adapter from Amazon like the TP-Link Nano which got recommended in another comment: https://www.amazon.com/TP-Link-Bluetooth-Receiver-Controllers-UB400/dp/B07V1SZCY6
Do not use the Lovense dongle as it is a special dongle that only works with the Lovense App and a few applications that specifically added support for it, and it won't work with Shibbydex.
Assuming you have a Windows pc any Bluetooth usb dongle will do the trick. Here is an example of what should be a solid option https://www.amazon.co.uk/TP-LINK-UB4A-Bluetooth-Computer-Receiver/dp/B07YLDVM6B/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=3K4OTTP2MODVU&keywords=bluetooth+dongle+for+pc&qid=1649800911&sprefix=bluetooth+d%2Caps%2C189&sr=8-3
Tp link is a good network brand
This should do, it works for me. It has a lot of additional functionalities :
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.sentryapplications.alarmclock&hl=fr&gl=US
It is not so easy to find a convenient app, because sometimes, the file extension .m4a is not covered...
I find a blindfold with integrated headphones like this increases immersion in hypno sessions
This is the toy we brought Prostate Massager, it's function is perfect. Let partner power you to climax.