sure always happy to help!
get something like this one for $10, it's just velcro but it works on me (IDK how much your flare is, I was able to squeeze out over 2 inches in over 1 month, so anything less than 2 inches should be game)
https://www.amazon.com/Broken-Rib-Brace-Men-Women/dp/B07ZZ1TF6P/
unlike your normal binder, you may have to wear it 24/7 to force the lower ribs back into place
It's not real, but there's products like this https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Testosterone-Booster-Organic-Quality/dp/B072Z72YF2
Lots of people who try to diy medicine turn to all sorts of holistic woo and quackery so I wanted to know what exactly OP was talking about
Books like that are hard to find. I paid about $100 for Benjamin's The Transsexual Phenomenon.
I found Musings of Maria on Amazon.
There used to be an e-book as well, but it looks like that's gone now... I found and read it through one night when in absolute despair. The words of the author comforted me.
It's a term that has been proposed by a small number of activists who would like it to be applied to people who fit Harry Benjamin's Type 6 category. https://www.amazon.com/Original-Harry-Benjamin-Syndrome-Book-ebook/dp/B093Z2BGV8/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=harry+benjamin&qid=1636832527&s=books&sr=1-3&asin=B093Z2BGV8&revisionId=e4eef7e8&format=1&depth=1 (Amazon link, but you can read the beginning of the book for free)