Bought the supplies on Amazon and made it myself:
Be sure to melt the ends of the elastic with a little heat so they don’t fray
Remote control chastity cage...
Webcam and sharpies...
Clone-a-willy. They make something like clone-a-pussy, or something like that... I think AdamAndEve carries them.
Mail her your keys. Keep a spare for EMERGENCY!... Use https://www.amazon.com/Master-Keyholder-Numbered-Plastic-Chastity/dp/B00M249E2W?ref_=d6k_applink_bb_dls_failed
to make sure you dont tamper.
Custom engraved locks/keys with her initials. And/or matching tattoos.
Chore lists, punishment/rewards... Points system to earn pics/vids/chats with KH. I have a small spiked cage for punishment, a couple of medium-sized ones for comfort every day... And I have some that allow Room to Grow for playtime.
My KH and I are both busy, professional adults with little time. It is a lot like a long distance relationship. These are a few things i can think of off the top. Curious to see what everyone else comes up with.
I got it from Amazon. Brand name: Wildolo
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Yes Vaseline or if you’re not worried about privacy a silicone lube is a popular option (assuming you’re not locked in anything silicone and aren’t going to get the lube on any silicone toys. But I can definitely second a suggestion an earlier commenter made about using a knee pillow. I would also invest in some snug underwear both for bedtime and during the daytime, as it can help with ride-out (there the base ring slips down). Ride-out happens to a degree even if you have a properly sized base ring, but the right underwear can really help. Summer Code Mens Micro Mesh Stretch Bikini Briefs Pouch Underwear https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BZR92L2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_29311XZHVSW8RR6FNXM3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
And there are some people on Etsy making leather “belts” that attach to the base ring, as a fancier option to tying a string around your waist. https://www.etsy.com/listing/1077424334/male-cock-cage-accessoriesprevent
Well a smaller ring definitely helps but so does a smaller space between the cage and ring. Those knock-off cb-6000s on amazon are an easy and cost effective way to play with sizing of both and see what works for you.
Here's a link to the one I got from Amazon
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07SZ2KMVJ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
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This one with a slightly longer cage. I had all 3 size rings and the smallest I still can slip my shaft out
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08291KZGL/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_nLUhFb654ZK5B
And this one
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08743T2D5/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_6LUhFb7QS9B2A
I tried one with a super small ring but that cut off the circulation. I like the cages with the hidden locks