You could crop it a bit. And we’re just trying to help. Sorry but if I saw that filthy wall in the background it would be a total turn off. Get one of these:
Your mom sounds like a nightmare. I would definitely recommend reading 'Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents.' https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00TZE87S4/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_25KSJRJBF86FXREEDCKE