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> After the dinner date we went back to his place. We were on the couch. Nothing had happened yet, he just had his arm around me. I was a little buzzed off the wine, and he said "I want to show you something."

So he didn't talk to you about hypnotizing you, and get your consent? Did you have a talk about limits and what's okay, and how much control he should have?

> He told me a little more about how he likes to use hypnosis to enhance the bedroom. So as we would text, he would send me images about erotic hypnosis all day. When I wasn't at work, he would send me videos, audios, or we would have hypnotic phone sex.

It sounds like you got into a steady relationship, but he sounds like he likes to push past your limits and uses hypnosis to do so, and is isolating your from your friends, family and work. These are all classic abuser techniques. Do you feel safe in your relationship? Are you able to say no and have him respect that? Does he try to control you or speak for you outside of your sexual relationship?

It's similar to tinder, where you swipe left to pass on someone's profile and swipe right to like someone's profile. The difference is that with bumble, the girl has to message the guy first once the two are matched.

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Apple link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/bumble-find-a-date-meet-friends-network/id930441707?mt=8

Stupid comments in here. From someone who has gone through 4 years of narcissistic abuse: you do not need a sadistic dom, you need a warm hearted, empathetic person and a good trauma therapist. You can do a lot of the necessary healing work by yourself, starting with your inner child. A really good start is the book “The Child in You: The Breakthrough Method for Bringing Out Your Authentic Self“ of therapist Stefanie Stahl. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0143135937/

Wow, this is some awesome information, thank you!

You're right, I think I definitely need to look into that type of hotpants and the scrunched-butt leggings, especially if they really are as comfy as normal leggings. Wetlook and laced leggings are intriguing. The fact the wetlook ones are made of vinyl makes me suspect they'll be less comfy, but maybe I can find somewhere to give them a try. And I don't know how the laces would work for me either. Though on a related note, I've been seeing standard cloth+spandex leggings recently that have cut-outs or mesh in the sides or front which could maybe work well for me.

As far as the tops go, the tube-top-but-with-arms does seem like a good idea! I actually found a different sort of tube top on Amazon, which doesn't grip too hard at the sides because it's held up by a neck collar. Incidentally, that started me off down a rabbithole of looking at goth stuff, and then I discovered I look badass in black lipstick, and suddenly I have a new and very interesting aesthetic to explore and play with. Works well because I've always had a preference for black clothes anyway.

I have tried micro-skirts, but I think I need to work up to wearing them in public. They are pretty incredibly revealing. And, yeah, sadly they don't work too well for sitting on things. Unless I wear the ever-so-comfy leggings underneath, but that does rather defeat the purpose. I've never actually worn a skirt that conforms to the legs like those slit ones, but it does seem like it'd be worth trying.

I've thought about nipple piercings, but some girls have told me they killed their nipple sensation. Idk if this is like a scientific fact, but it seems unfortunate if true. I really enjoy my nipple play.

Hi! I just posted a story about mine on SSC :).

https://www.amazon.com/CalExotics-Lock-N-Play-Function-Rechargeable-Vibrating/dp/B06XB1MMF6 I use this one, because I've had bad luck with the bluetooth ones. I like the magnetic flaps, but they're definitely not one-size-fits-all... It fits some of my panties, but not others.

While I love love love love love the idea of being controlled remotely by a variety of dirty-minded pervs, the vibes themselves can be pretty glitchy. It always has to be within range of your phone, for instance, and if it gets disconnected it will default to either the most recent setting, or in the case of my old We Vibe, it would default to full blast. Either way, you don't really know it's disconnected. (It was a much older model, so maybe the new one is better, but the reviews don't give me high hopes)

That Lovense one looks good if you like g-spot stimulation, but I'm way more about the clit. I don't think it would make me cum, but I'd love to hear what other people have to say about it.

https://www.amazon.com/CalExotics-Lock-N-Play-Function-Rechargeable-Vibrating/dp/B06XB1MMF6

It's not perfect... I'm very much on the market for a better one. If anyone has any favorites, I'm all ears!!

Second ed. Hardy https://www.amazon.ca/Ethical-Slut-Second-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379

There is also another that works well for established couples called, "Opening Up" that I would recommend. https://www.amazon.ca/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X

Hmmm if sexy isn't exciting anymore, how about something a little cuter for a change?

https://www.amazon.com/Urban-CoCo-Womens-Elastic-Pleated/dp/B010WJVMWS/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1526060166&sr=1-1&nodeID=1040660&psd=1&keywords=suspender+skirt

I'll suggest a tube top+jewel plug with nothing else beneath, but I'm sure you have plenty of ideas