While I agree that that is sad it's not like women aren't creating eerily similar apps. Now I know your next reply is going to be how those two things aren't comparable, so don't bother because I disagree. Both are facillitating a sex's specific sexual strategy.
This already exists: http://www.theleague.com/#are-you-in. If that app is doing well, there's probably room for more. Though I believe that app (and maybe yours too) will suffer the fate of its predecessors, which is that not enough of the "desired" people will join while everyone else will try to get on. If the aim is to cater to an elite crowd, then make joining the site a total barrier to everyone except the elite. Charge $500 or $1000 (or some other outrageous price) to join. This is precisely what elite matchmakers are doing when they charge their clients tens of thousands of dollars; they are creating a barrier to entry that only lets through the people they are trying to reach. You need to reach people who would willingly and easily drop that kind of money to find a date.