Like these https://www.amazon.com/Stirrers-Reusable-Disposable-Beverage-Cocktail/dp/B07T7M1B47/ref=sr_1_8?crid=W0CKQUOJQWG9&keywords=disposable+cocktail+stirrer&qid=1656325971&sprefix=disposible+cocktail+%2Caps%2C62&sr=8-8
Dye and Thunder's <em>Beginner's Guide to Bobbin Lace</em> is good, and it's been around a while, so used copies are out there.
Jo Edkins' Bobbin Lace School has a lot of info and a lot of free patterns.