I created a chart app designed among other things for just this purpose. https://info.weminder.app/home
One of the best punishments-at-distance I know, which I use with LDR littles of mine is a bare bottom timeout on an acupressure mat. Like this one.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N24PK6A/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_t1_VFB.FbKJ1H9DH
I bought a huge pack off Amazon. I like them and they have a crap ton of options.
Tanmit 240 Gel Pens Set 120 Colored Gel Pen plus 120 Refills for Adults Coloring Books Drawing Art Markers (No Duplicates) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N0D2SHX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Dp-1EbW74PVHD
I have LDR’s with two littles of my own and have found bare bottom timeouts on an acupressure mat like this one to be very effective.
ProsourceFit Acupressure Mat and Pillow Set for Back/Neck Pain Relief and Muscle Relaxation https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00I1QCPIK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_l257FbG3BH73Y?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I personally like the more precise coloring books because there's more to work on. If you're looking for something similar, I'd recommend this "A Million Unicorns" book because there's so much to color with lots of details but with cute unicorns and fantasy themes! I bought it for myself for Christmas c:
Link: A Million Unicorns
arebnbYou can get a standard simple one on Amazon Adult Pacifier - Amazon Little For Big
As previously mentioned Etsy is a good place to look around. I also reccomend if you have an instagram to look up adult paci shops and, you'll be able to see more of a variety. Some of the artists don't use etsy, but have their own websites or will send them straight from their store/studio.
An example is (from instagram) Deco Paci Shop - Instagram
Do you have ICEEs/Slurpies where you live? : ) I hear if you mix blue and red it tastes like bubblegum. : ) plus it's cold and in every gas station I have ever been in (the good ones anyway). Or hot chocolate for sad times? Also this is a tool I use:
FRIENDLY CUDDLE Weighted Lap Pad for Kids 5 lbs. - Sensory Weighted Stuffed Animals - Lap Blanket for Toddlers Kids Adults - Perfect for Classroom Travel Home Office. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0826KN6RF/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_FN01R3W9KXDM4FQ6G4SK?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
You can get the idea and there are all sorts of diff versions and they can get super cute and cuddly.
I have this in a bunch of colors , they're awesome Roselux Women's Sexy Deep V Neck Shorts Long Sleeve Knitted One Piece Bodysuit Sexy Pajama Onesie Bodycon Rompers Overall https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078L1BHYX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_7FPET2Q7VK8ZNXVZDD00?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
DD is also the father of our child so it works. Today was a lot of fun. We painted a coffee mug for him and I bought him a book that's a tiny safe. He was so surprised lol! This is what it looks like:
Safe Metal Box with Lock,Hollowed Out Book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08GF5MQF8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_ZP9WQRCZN165J3SM2MHR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/New-Topping-Book-Dossie-Easton/dp/1890159360
I know there are other locations you can find it that are less reputable but felt the authors deserve some credit for this one since it is a helpful book to those of us who fall in this category. Also from the amazon page you can redirect to the bottoming book if you are so inclined.
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.obedience
My daddy and I use this app cuz we have to practice social distancing even tho we live in the same city It helps a daddy/dom give tasks/rewards/punishments To their sub/little