What are /r/GaySex's favorite Products & Services?

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I am by no means a reliable source of info, but it could just be the brand you used.
I bought some water based lube off amazon and it was terrible. And like you said, it was like a burning sensation.
Bought a different water based one and it's fine. I'd say try others until you find one that works.

It will be a much nicer experience if you’re prepared health wise. Wear a condom and consider getting on PrEP. I would also make sure you’re up to date on your vaccines, including Monkey Pox.

I also found this book really helpful.

Good luck 🍀😛

The product photo (and lengthy name) for these shorts got some attention on gaybros recently.

You may say that, but have you ever read The Front Runner, by Patricia Nell Warren? The sex scene in that book made everyone in my gay reading group have hot flushes, just talking about it!
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/343738.The_Front_Runner

I just bought my 1st dildo on Amazon. It arrived discreetly packaged with no indication of what the box contained. I like it, although I think there will be a purchase of a larger one in the not to distant future. It is only just over an inch in diameter and apparently, that's not much of a stretch for me.

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Again, wish I could share a screenshot, but we have the black one of these (they are impossible to find, though the thick head that we have seems to be produced still)

I've never had any luck with prostate massagers.

I like this one for a more normal human sized dildo (I'm not trying to brag but for girth it is the same as my own so I think its a reasonable size). It's definitely too long but that can help with positioning when mounted, that said you may or may not have to avoid sitting all the way down on it depending on where your colon is. It might be too girthy for some people but its not especially fat compared to what you see at local stores.

I like to use Astroglide gel for waterbased lube (the one that comes in a purple tube, not in a clear bottle).

i have one that's 9" and the tip of it is 1-13/16" (almost 2" diameter) with a reasonable girth of 5-3/4" but the shaft is slightly narrower at just under 1-3/4" or 5-1/4" girth.

Not going to lie it was my favorite for a LONG time and is still fun to use to this day. $20 red dong -- https://www.adammale.com/gay-sex-toys/dildo-gay-sex-toys/sp-red-dong-2951.aspx

my next recommendation actually became my favorite toy after the red dong, and is a step up at 7-3/4" insertable and an adequately filling circumference of 6-1/8" which is 1.95". so yeah, it's what you described and what you need!

Unfortunately it's backorded on amazon and i think has been for a while...i am optimistic so you might be able to find it else where. it's manufactured i believe by Tracy's Dog. So here's the "Huge" realistic 10" dildo (remember only ~8" insertable) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06ZZ6HMQY

i'll look for a different source for this for a bit, but i also have to go take care of some stuff and i might forget later and not login to this account for a while. Hopefully that's not the case as I really think you should have it! It's so well made and there are things about it that make it what it is.. the "stiffness" is perfect, the slight angle of the head, etc... just check out the reviews on that amazon link!

All i can say is that i highly recommend them, both, as they've left me satisfied for years and my ass is trained properly and seasoned to accommodate big. :)

It has to do with displacement. The penis entering you causes distention and bloating of the anal cavity which can feel painful. You probably have a shallow internal sphincter. You can try anal dilators which you can buy on Amazon for about $50. HERE is a lick. Maybe cheaper on Ebay. (Or search vaginal dilator, same thing). They get gradually thicker as they get longer and some guys find it easier to get pounded deeper after using them.

If you are going to use long toys or the top is long, I find it helpful. I purchased a lube launcher. https://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AC221-XL-Lubricant-Launcher/dp/B008ASBIU0 and I am pleased. It gets it pretty deep so there seems less pain from the top hitting a dry spot. The downside is it puts a lot of lube inside. Can make things a bit messy.