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You should check out Global Babies. A doula gave me a couple of these books and they were a big hit with the LO.
We have a light switch extender for our kid (2yo). I think this one. https://www.amazon.com/Light-Switch-Extender-Kids-Pack/dp/B01HHQRH96
We put it in her bedroom and bathroom. She loves having that independence.
That being said, we often turn it out of her reach (that is an option) to discourage turning the light on and off and on and off during nap or sleep time.
She happily "reads" in bed with her black out curtains or plays in general in the dark and it's pretty dark in there. Sometimes I even go in to get her and she has totally switched outfits, so I dont think the dark stops her at all!
Toilet Awareness by Sarah Moudry is my go-to book when parents ask about toilet teaching. It's short, to the point, and she is an AIM trained guide and Montessori mom herself.
The kind with cardboard like pages rather than paper because young toddlers love to tear pages, ha!
Something like this https://www.amazon.com/dp/1408359537/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_WRMX4XCH5CB1M9FR5M3V
We use this from 12mo to currently 3yo. The chairs flip from low to high. It’s sturdy and love the look too. My youngest is 11mo and starting to use it. I like how the chairs wrap around to give a little extra safety in the beginning. https://www.amazon.com/ECR4Kids-Multipurpose-Adaptable-Furniture-Certified/dp/B01IR9EDIU
We use the radio flyer walker. It has storage for her stuffed animals and she loves putting things in the basket and taking them out. It's great fun.
(https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KN0LSUI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_PCSRX4H1BTYS980TAYYB)
You mentioned you had a book about body parts. I feel pretty passionate about recommending this one to other parents. I feel like the more a child/person knows about their body the stronger the body image they’ll have for themselves and be there own best advocate. We started reading it to our girls when they were 2ish
Amazing You!: Getting Smart About Your Private Parts https://www.amazon.com/dp/0142410586/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabt1_hfXUFbVBNYVA7
Still a little bit expensive at $40 but we got this acrylic mirror . It's extremely light so we prop it up where ever we want.
She might be into opening Easter eggs. They also make specific ones that have shapes or little pips for counting/matching.
But other options more similar to what she's currently using: magic markers (only draw on specific paper), nail art brushes (as they often have caps), water pens (markers you fill with water that you then use to color on water-activated coloring books).
You might get something like this and it could also be used for a Life Skill practice with the toothbrushes or a color sorting activity if you put pom poms or something of a similar color that can fit in the cases or some such.
A great nook for parents new to Montessori is Babies Build Toddlers. I have the book and I love it and I have recommended it many times and have received positive feedback from parents that have used it. Another book that would be worth checking out is The Montessori Baby It is currently only digital, but the paperback copy should be out very soon. I have preordered it and I am greatly looking forward to it. It is by Simone Davies who wrote The Montessori Toddler which is also amazing.
Both of these books are geared towards parents and written by AMI trained women. They are very approachable books that are easy to read and fun to read with great illustrations!
at my school we are required by the state to secure all taller furniture- we use something like these https://www.amazon.com/Skyla-Homes-Furniture-Adjustable-Earthquake/dp/B06VY8HBPH
We transitioned to a floor bed at 16 months. We got these safety outlet covers that go over things that are plugged in. You can also get cord management covers that cover the cords up the wall from the outlet. We did both for our living room and haven’t had any issues. We put his changing station in front of the primary outlet where things are plugged in (that we covered with the outlet cover) and he doesn’t ever pull the cords, but we will cover it too if/when that starts.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000046S3T?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
So I purchased this sleek socket and it has been working really well.
I don't know if they have them in your country or what the power level output it's rates for, but I can say that it runs my huge Dyson humidifier no problem.
You mentioned that you wanted a solution re heating. I would absolutely recommend the Dyson fans/heaters. One -- they don't have blades or exposed heating elements. Two-- They also have air purifying systems. We put ours on a little Ikea night stand which is screwed into the wall, and then used a cord which is wrapped around the Dyson and also attached to the wall as an extra safety precaution.
CUTE STONE Color Changing Kitchen Sink Toys, Children Heat Sensitive Electric Dishwasher Playing Toy with Running Water, Automatic Water Cycle System Play House Pretend Role Play Toys for Boys Girls https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07MLYQLX1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_RG8X2NN2T83NJ81VF9HW?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
My daughter loves this little sink! It has running water
Hmm, it's a bit subjective...but a few thoughts I had when going through it. Our kid is 27 months old now, but we started this a bit before 2 years old (and could have gone earlier if I'd thought of it before).
First off, the stool that the kid is primarily using is a little wooden two step stool -- https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B086YW31YG -- it's reasonably stable, especially if it's placed directly up against a cabinet. This stool lets our 2 year old stand with shoulders and head above our standard height counter top. Our kid is right on 50th percentile for US heights. We previously used the stool in the bathroom, but it was annoying because it made it harder to open the undersink cabinets. Now, in the bathroom sink, we use a chair from our weaning table (that has since become an art table), the chair is easier to move around (as an adult, I don't need to bend over to pick it up).
From the height of the stool, as long as I make sure there aren't counter tops or sharp things to hit, the kid should be okay falling from it if she did...but I also go under the thought that if the kid can climb up without assistance, then it's safe-ish to fall from (assuming no out of the ordinary obstacles).
I make sure that the stuff on the counter isn't particularly heavy if the kid pulls it off. I keep away from the hot oven/stove (as a kid, I fell from a rolling stool onto a stove, and landed with my arm in a cooking pancake...so I'm definitely cautious of this).
My kid is pretty stable on 2 feet, if I felt she was likely to randomly fall backwards or sideways, I'd take more care, perhaps. But since she's able to lean against the counter, and grab onto the counter, she's been very stable, even if an adult or a dog accidentally bumps into her on the stool...
Just from your short description it seems like things are going okay. Is she usually able to fall asleep on her own? (Meaning: when you have to go in, is it when she wakes up in the middle of the night and cries out?)
I recommend this book:
https://www.amazon.com/Sleeping-Through-Night-Revised-Toddlers/dp/0060742569
The author seems to be a well-respected clinician and researcher in the field and shares a range of both data and solutions so that parents can find what works best for them.
I use this one Zicac Kids Dining Chair Heightening Cushion Dismountable Adjustable High Chair Booster Seat Pads with Buckle Straps (Gray) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SH7LK1M/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_MJBWD1YEC9ZAX08M2V4R?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
He might be a little small for it. My 18 month old started sitting on it for crafts and snacks, and she still sometimes prefers her high chair for meals.
Comment If you search on Amazon for “National Geographic board books” there’s lots of great options. They have 2 different series, “little kids first board book” and the “look & learn” series. My 2 year old still loves our “first board books” we have since that series is a little more story-like in addition to the pretty pictures.
We especially love National Geographic Kids Little Kids First Board Book: Wild Animal Sounds .
And National Geographic Kids Little Kids First Board Book: Animals On the Go
Here's the webpage from the manufacturer. https://www.wooddesigns.com/wd40400
Looks like Amazon has it for $270, and there are other vendors too. Look around to find free shipping to make sure you're getting the best deal.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07TN3XX5M/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_Z6559PD9ZZ34K0ZFFJBM
This is pretty close to what we did. I did use command strips to attach the cutting board to the counter - the velcro ones that you normally use to hang heavy photos. That way I can remove the board if it needs a deep clean or oiling, but my daughter can't.
I didn't like the glass water jug that Montessori in Real Life uses - it hangs off the back and don't seem to be very secure. But I found a smaller, square one that fits perfectly in the space behind the sink. I also attached it with heavy duty command strips.
Here is an amazon link to the water pitcher: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0764MWJ52/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Sarah Moudry is an AMI trained fir 0-3 and has a wonderful book about the toilet training process - Toilet Awareness I have recommended this book for year to parents and it is widely used by Montessori guides for toilet training. It’s short, step by step and helps with how to set up the area and how to interact with the child during the process!
I looked up Rachel Peachy’s book and it doesn’t have good reviews on Amazon. The reviews say that it’s a self-published book that’s more like a pamphlet.
Can anyone else chime in with recommendations?
Also the full title is “Montessori at Home: Gentle parenting....” for others who are interested.
This bed is about $100 cheaper and has 187 reviews at 4.5 stars. https://www.amazon.com/UHOM-Bedroom-Furniture-Premium-Children/dp/B07F6YJJK4/ref=pd_sbs_196_2/137-4901723-7831724?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B07F6YJJK4&pd_rd_r=cc29e545-df36-45ad-b4f1-091269f62c9c&pd_rd_w=M74GU&pd_rd_wg=2okPt&pf_rd_p=ed1e2146-ecfe-435e-b3b5-d79fa072fd58&pf_rd_r=VH1D9DC3CM6D69RCW65P&refRID=VH1D9DC3CM6D69RCW65P&th=1
Honestly I didn't even know walkers were a thing anymore. That one does look sturdy but for that kinda money I'd buy a learning tower instead. Doesn't help with walking of course, but it's a great purchase for the toddler years.
we’ve had this one a few months and it’s still a big hit with my nine month old. he loves all the different textures, they’re easy for him to hold, easy to rinse off, and the rattle one keeps him occupied forever. we have this wooden stacker and he likes the different shapes, plays with the octagons at least daily, but it’s harder for him to thread so he can’t really do it without help.
Here it is! Except mine didn’t come w the tambourine :/
Hape Pound, Tap, & Shake! Music Set - Award Winning Wooden Pounding Bench, Baby Xylophon... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07NDMCCLW/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_api_i_WfdnFb...
I looked forever for a large, safe mirror for my son’s room. He’s very physical and enthusiastic so I really think he’d easy shatter a regular mirror quite easily. A lot of mirrors are described as acrylic when the actual mirror part is glass and only the frame is acrylic. Glass can shatter and be really unsafe, IMO. Acrylic mirrors can give a sort of funhouse effect, especially from far away and if they aren’t hung completely flat against the wall. That’s just the reality of shatter-proof mirrors.
Anyway, after a lot of hunting I ended up ordering this mirror from Amazon Marketing Holders Mirror Sheet Camping Daycare Gym Restrooms Speech Therapy Jewelry Makeup Mirror (24" x 48") https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001CWAOJW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Y46CFbZPPEXW9. It’s not a Prime item, nor is it sold or fulfilled by amazon. So be aware of that. After reading the reviews I decided to take a shot with it. Unfortunately it arrived broken. However, the company replaced it with no hassle. And, silver lining, I was able to see that the broken “shards” were quite harmless and not sharp at all, so in case the mirror does ever break I feel reassured there won’t be any injuries. Also it came with predrilled holes and wall anchors so it’s ready to be hung up today.
You might find cheaper options out there for special ordering or childproofing acrylic mirrors, but this was simple and easy for us.
Thank you! The tissue box I purchased from Amazon and sanded down all the edges and hole. I had scrap fabric since I'm a quilter so sewed two different fabrics together 8"x 8" squares. I also sewed a small button hole at the bottom to weave the corners together like the lovevery brand had. The purple sticker was just a quick vinyl design I did and cut out on my cricut. Here is the link to tissue box: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CV5TRW1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_bEEqFbMAGEE03
https://www.amazon.com/Kneysan-Dispenser-Charging-Automatic-Universal/dp/B09KGFC6JP/ref=asc_df_B09KGFC6JP/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=563722778557&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=1606789908560127031&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hv... not the same but a similar pump to what we got, super cheap, easy, and rechargeable
My daughter is 10 months old and we've been using a pack and play for overnight sleep since she was about that age (3-4 months). We specifically got the Graco OntheGo with Full Bassinet.
I found it very easy to use, but you are limited in how long you can use the bassinet insert. The weight limit is 15 lbs and you have to stop using it when the baby can sit up because the short walls are a fall risk. My daughter is small so we would have been good on the weight limit for longer, but had to drop her into the bottom around 6 months when she started sitting up.
There was maybe a month or so where it was hard to get her out, but it gets a lot easier when they are able to sit/stand up and "help" you get them. As a short person (I'm 5'3"), I sometimes find it hard to transfer her into the pack and play if she is already asleep, but I can usually manage. I think the height/weight limits are 35"/30lbs so we expect to run into the devlopmental problem of climbing out before she outgrows it physically. I'm hoping we're able to do something like a floor bed before then, but we need to make significant changes to our space for that.
Sarah Moudry is a 0-3 trained Montessori Guide and Mentor and she wrote Toilet Awareness
I always kept several copies on hand to pass out to families when they were ready to get into toileting. I highly recommend it and she does coaching with parent to help them through any troubles they may encounter because every child is unique!
This is from personal experience working with infants, toddlers, and preschoolers, so take it with a grain of salt. My observations of families who do EC/early toilet training vs. waiting until the child is a little older (around 2 or 2.5), is that the older child is going to learn how to use the toilet much, much faster. The families who do EC do it for months or years. From infanthood until toddlerhood. The child who is toilet trained at 2 does it for 1-2 weeks. And you need less tools to accomplish this.
At our school we have one of those toilet seats that has a second, smaller seat that can be put up or down. A smaller child can sit on the smaller seat, and eliminate directly into the toilet. A ergonomic toilet seat that you place on top of a normal toilet seat accomplishes the same thing. I have found the children who use the portable seats need to go through yet another step of learning how to eliminate into the "big toilet" which takes time and effort. As much as possible, have your child eliminate into a regular toilet to reduce anxiety and get them used to the routine.
When you're out and about, again, rather than a portable toilet, I recommend purchasing one of these compact seats that you can fold up and take with you where ever you go. You can even use this at home in lieu of a bulky ergo seat.
Having said all this, if the goal is to reduce the amount of diapers you're going through, I understand wanting to do EC. It's just more effort than I recommend when toilet training young children.
My wife selected it, so I don't know the field, but we got a Kasiden wooden knife from amazon, and it has worked well -- seems safe, 2-handed use, and it cuts surprisingly well.
Pretty easy to generate interest, especially if the kiddo already enjoys other plushies and/or dolls.
Best of luck!
I’m thinking about activities that are portable and quiet, since they’re meant for church. Do you think she might enjoy a coloring book? I would suggest jumbo crayons for toddler-sized fingers that are still learning coordination. Sticker books are also a fun, silent option.
When my kid was a toddler he enjoyed these toys we kept in a pouch that he was only allowed to play with when we were away from home: little magnetic people and geometric stacking rocks
I am on a similar search and this one looks ok: https://www.montessori-n-such.com/products/toddler-puzzle-everyday-items-real-life-photos-garden-item-p10078
I did get this one and find it realistic enough: https://www.amazon.com/Melissa-Doug-Puzzle-Wooden-Effects/dp/B000GKD006
we use this kind of plastic boxes https://www.amazon.com.mx/almacenamiento-contenedores-pl%C3%A1stico-transparente-juguetes/dp/B097GVBR9P/ref=sr_1_58_sspa?keywords=caja+transparente+45l&qid=1665821024&sr=8-58-spons&psc=1
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they are cool to rotate and display also can being apillated .
Not sure you wanna read a whole book about how to approach one group, but this might give some perspective on the difference in the Montessori approach.
https://www.amazon.com/CHECKMATE-Montessori-Chess-Lessons-3-90/dp/1879264188
We got a low bed frame, and a bunk bed mattress as they are shorter than normal mattresses. She was 9 months when she transitioned to it out of our bed. She fell out maybe twice? We did use the pool noodle method of stopping accidental rolls for a bit. We're still using the noodle to stop her accidentally kicking the radiator and waking herself up.
For the calligraphy set, and also the water colors -- I got a little squeeze bottle that the kid can self pour some small bit of water, but it prevents too much water from coming out...it gives the kid control while containing the mess.
These are the bottles I used: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B07STMMHSN
And one challenge with the calligraphy and the water colors -- if the same brushes and water get used, they will discolor the calligraphy paper thing...but it does rinse out okay. But for open access, we tend to offer either the water colors OR the calligraphy paper, but not both at the same time.
My son is cut from the same cloth! I’ve purchased this for my son when he was three! They’re still really tools, but they’re kid-sized, so it might be easier for a young child to get the hang of & build hand strength with.
When I bartended, I waited on a super cool mom of a handy high schooler, and she told me when he got to this stage as a kid, she’d buy old toasters and phones at Goodwill and let him take them apart. I haven’t done this yet, but I plan on it in the next few years!
I also have toy tools for pretend play. He will absolutely play “fixing house” or “mechanic” way above his skill level, and I think this is an important outlet for that interest.
https://www.amazon.com/Dripex-Foldable-Pikler-Triangle-Climber/dp/B08XBFQ1KV/
Just bought this Dripex one for my just-turning-3-year-old's birthday and honestly I wish I had gotten it a year ago! It's set up in our living room and she love love loves it. The quality is great and design is very sturdy. It's a bit of a hassle to change the shape, but doable and I don't plan to do it too often. I got that one specifically because it can be configured in a lot of different shapes. Our house is small so having the option for a pretty compact slide is great, and I figure if she gets tired of it we can make it smaller or mix up the shape to keep it interesting.
The book Roadwork by Sally Sutton is pretty cool. It goes through the entire process of making roads and it does it with rhyming and onomatopoeia. So the first page is 'Plan the road, plan the road, mark it on the map, Ping Bang Tap'. Or something, I'm just going from memory. He might like it.
A lot of families use an electric nail file like this one: https://www.amazon.com/Trimmer-Fansidi-Upgraded-Electric-Fingernails/dp/B073VBYNH4
And many cut the nails while the child is sleeping.
Maybe try some meals picnic style on the floor or at a small child-sized table? Biting is pretty common for pre-verbal kids.
I have the same problems.
I would get a meditation cushion or a low step stool. I use the cushion for circle and also have this.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0046QUI3I/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I wouldn't overthink things besides electrocution and furniture falling over. Do you you have a closet in his room? We had no furniture in my daughter's room other than a 4x1 [Ikea Kallax] that we laid flat on the floor so there wasn't really a tipping/falling danger, although we did mount it into the wall just to be safe, and we just put a stackable closet organizer in her room for her clothes/diapers/etc.
We had a couple of lamps on shelves that we mounted into the walls, well above her reach. Mounted the baby monitor camera to the wall as well. Cord covers are helpful here for the wires going to the monitor and to the lamp.
Our daughter is enjoying these. Stories are pretty simple and are based around one phonetic sound (as best that can be done in English!) per book.
https://www.amazon.com/Pete-Childrens-Books-Phonics-Learn/dp/B0768YV2Y7
OT here - they are great, but so are these https://www.amazon.com/Little-Tikes-First-Slide-Blue/dp/B008MH5H4M , especially when combined with novel outdoor play if you have a yard. I like that it still uses a ladder as opposed to steps, so the child still has to work on the climbing skill. Basically find ways with what you have to allow calculated risk, but know that a simple slide can still support gross motor development, sensory play, motor planning, sequencing and more.
Making a book about what the nighttime routine will be without nursing could help, like this idea of social stories.
There are also some books you can by moreso about night weaning, but maybe something similar? (For others looking I'm thinking of this book).
With my first we just made the nursing sessions shorter - like cut a minute or two every couple of days. And for emotional or hurt times offered other ways to comfort. Eventually the distraction won out.
Our kiddo is just a little older, but acts very similar. She helps me around the house a lot, but her absolutely favorite toy is this basket of babies along with various plastic dishes from the kitchen. I know they're not "strict" Montessori, since they're just cloth and not anatomically correct, but she is in love with them. They go on all sorts of adventures with her around the house. Into the kitchen, the laundry, they help her scatter stuff around, they are laid to "sleep" in various places.
I guess my thought is she might be interested in a lovey or puppet or doll - type toy that could join her on her physical romps rather than a toy that you need to stay in place with to "play".
Oh, I actually have plaster walls in my house as well. They can be stubborn, but the way you put screws into plaster is to predrill a hole and then hammer in these plastic wall anchors to hold the screw. Then screw the screw in as normal into that wall anchor. They dont come standard with most safety kits so you have to order them special.
Here is a cheap set from Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/HongWay-Plastic-Drywall-Different-Anchors/dp/B07VS5QKBC/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?keywords=wall+anchor+and+screw+kit+for+plaster&qid=1657594803&sr=8-4
They say they're for drywall but Ive used them in plaster walls. For heavy shelves too and they dont pull out.
We have this one but I don’t actually recommend it, it’s pretty cheaply made. But one LIKE this is great.
Springbird Montessori Multiple... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08M1BNDQP?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
We do have an OP box and my son loves it. It being heavy wood is nice. Can’t speak yet to how long he’ll enjoy it.
We have all wood floors so we got some snap together foam pads, like these. That being said, my kiddo has slipped a few times but has never actually fallen off. It's been really great for his coordination because he learned how to catch himself. It also gives me a good way to start talking about paying attention to his body. "Where's your foot? Does it feel stable or slippy?" etc. etc.
Theses are the ones I got for my daughter! She pours her own cereal with them. https://smile.amazon.com/Chefs-Path-Airtight-Storage-Container/dp/B07VDLQJQ2/ref=sr_1_5?crid=300JWRCDS7M9Q&keywords=small%2Bcereal%2Bcontainers%2Bflip%2Bhandle&qid=1655437295&refinements=p_85%3A2470955011&rnid=2470954011&rps=1&sprefix=small%2Bcereal%2Bcontainers%2Bflip%2Bhandl%2Caps%2C116&sr=8-5&th=1
Very easy to open, but still air tight.
Early on (pre 1y), we became very consistent with time. Normally as a family, we try to not live with clocks, and really didn't have visible clocks around the house.
But with the kid, when we were going to the park, we'd say "Okay, we're going to the park in 5 minutes." Or "dinner is in 20 minutes". And we'd set a timer.
With a few months of this, it became clear that the kid has an excellent sense of time (and if we forget to set the timer, she will still know internally when the 5 minutes is up.
Around age 3 (but probably should have been earlier), we put a large digital clock in the kid's room, and have been starting to link the times we say to the clock. "Okay, I'm going to go rest in 5 minutes. The last number on the clock will be 8 then. And the clock will read 9-2-8. Nine-twenty-eight." And slowly the kid is starting to build up an understanding of which positions the numbers in the clock signify. At the beginning, we'd call out times that didn't cause a "wrap" (like from 18 to 23)...but now we can start to introduce that, as well, and then we mention the wrap specifically, and that it's changing two digits because it's going from eighteen to twenty-three.
The clock we chose happens to be this because it's simple, and doesn't put out a lot of light when the rest of the room's lights are off. https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B07SPJQ823 (the numbers have a dimmer, and I leave it near the lowest setting).
^(Disclaimer: I don't know if this is in line with Montessori, but it's been working really well -so far - for my son who previously rejected or just was apathetic to every other method.)
I have the boy version of Tot on the Pot. It's a potty learning system that includes an anatomically correct doll (for boys, scrotum, penis, and butt crack - girl is supposed to have a vulva, but I don't really know what that looks like for the doll), a tiny potty for the doll to sit on, a children's book (with cartoon drawings of the Tot doll - so no real pictures) for the kid to read every time they use the potty, YouDidIt! cards with a tiny, short activity to do after the kid goes potty (basically a reward system, but without a tangible or edible prize), and a parents' guide.
My son is three, but we started trying to potty train at 19 mo. ...he would use it to pee on command, but otherwise didn't ever initiate. And then he began hating it and crying, so we paused for a while and really hyped up the idea that 3 year-olds use the potty and that he was going to get an airplane potty when he turned 3. (One of the few styles I could find that would ensure he was sitting in a spread-leg, squat-like position; he has issues with pooping sometimes. It's only been a few days, but he's self-initiated so many times and keeps talking about how much he loves Tot, so much better than it was before.
For shoes, I recommend ones he can get on and off himself with some practice. But they won't go flying and the child won't trip if he's running on the playground. The Carter's washable sneakers with velcro and bungee 'laces' are good. Our daughter also loves this one, because it's so easy to do it herself: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B07D9DSN8C/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
We LOVE this series of books, including Calm Down Time. They have a whole bunch in this series like Hands Are Not for Hitting, Feet Are Not For Kicking, etc.
Costume designer here. Get a wig form/table mount for it and let her pick out a wig or two. Usually the wigs are held in place with t shaped pins which are very sharp. You either have to trust or supervise her with them.
This kit on Amazon includes all of it.
Do NOT get a styrofoam one. Theyre flimsy and will likely frustrate her (they definitely do me).
Then its just a matter of finding a wig or two you like. Id recommend doing a synthetic/plastic wig or two as they are quite cheap. Just dont use heat/curlers on it.
You can put a Tupperware container over the outlet or simply get a box cover for outlets. For the wire, simply use adhesive wire covers from Lowe's or Home Depot, similar to the ones an office would use. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07H9DJPDQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_SHMAW4A1JD4KBE3T9HZ1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Dreambaby Dual Fit Outlet Plug Cover - Model L907 - Electrical Socket Guard for Standard and Decora (2 Pack), White https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CL2Z1XM/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_ZSPGGH5GDZHZ7DQKJEPB
Try something like this
What about something like this? This is just the first one I found, so you can probably hunt and find it cheaper. These aren't as deep as the fabric ones, less than an inch probably. This is the type of shelf we have, except my husband made it.
It’s a little pricey for a step stool, but we got this when my oldest was a year and we still use it now that she’s three:
Toddler Kitchen Stool - Gray Wooden Step Stool Standing Tower for Kids Kitchen Counter Learning https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PRTRVZT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_51YXD4F1T1N9EY5FPDZ7
Also agree that you should get a faucet extender. You may actually find that you don’t need a taller than typical step stool if you get a faucet extender. Good luck!
Ikea used to make a stool called the Bekvam which is perfect for younger toddlers to be able to reach the sink in bathrooms. Its more space efficient too vs regular learning towers.
Unfortunately, they no longer make it. You can still buy it on amazon though - https://www.amazon.com/BEKVAM-Home-Indoor-Solidwood-Stool/dp/B002EGZF8A?th=1. Ikea used to sell them for $20, so paying $40 seems kind of ridiculous.
I did pay the $40 last year though, right around when my daughter turned a year old, and she still uses it. She's about to turn 2 and would definitely still need this type of stool to reach our bathroom sinks. And she's tall for her age!
https://www.amazon.com/My-Felt-Story-Feelings-Emotions/dp/B07TKXKBK4
Something like this.
We have books that describe emotions and j have my child home the dolls that we are discussing about. He will bring out the doll that corresponds with what we are talking about, he will mimic their faces.
I got this one for my hardwood floors cause I got sick of trying to sweep cat hair. The long metal pole comes off and then it's the perfect size for a toddler
I wouldn't get hung up on using a play pen to create your yes space. I had to put up a gate in my son's room, splitting it in half. The closet is a strange set-up with no door and there are also things we needed plugged in where he couldn't reach them.
Does it look like what Instagram says Montessori looks like? No. Does my kid have freedom of movement and access to thoughtfully selected toys and books? Yes!
This is the gate we use.
Not sure if these were the exact ones we got but you will be able to get the idea: ECR4Kids-ELR-12683F SoftZone Climb and Crawl Activity Play Set – Lightweight Foam Shapes for Climbing, Crawling and Sliding for Toddlers and Kids (5-Piece), Contemporary https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077XW5JB3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_EZATRH3164RG6KTVWMF6?psc=1
Also, ball pit. He LOVED it when he was learning to sit up!
If you are trying to save money, you can get a perfectly fine shelf from IKEA or Amazon (or I'm sure elsewhere) for much less money. I know you mentioned you are fine spending money for quality items, personally I think I spent like $60 on a shelf and splurged more on quality toys. Totally up to you of course, just a thought.
I'd also recommend checking out Etsy for toys and activities. I got some really nice kits for 0-3 months, 3-6 months, etc. HeirloomkidsUSA has good quality toys in bundles like that.
I'd get some woven baskets and wooden trays to place activities in and on.
I'd also recommend a mirror (shatterproof) at your baby's level and adjust as needed. We had this pull up bar and mirror set which was great because it grew with him. First as a mirror low to the ground, then he started using the pull up bar and now we just use the mirrors over his toy shelf (he's 19 months).
We have mirror sliding doors! I got this stick on lock: link
I keep all of my son's toys that are out of rotation in his closet and it's not part of his yes space. Also, he loves the mirrors and looking into them, so I'd vote to keep the doors.
I use universal pacifier clips to attach toys to the stroller or highchair straps. Can be creative with it. I've attached her o-ball, winkler toy, chew toys. We like these
As a nanny I use this set! It works great for what we need! The knives aren’t going to cut through a steak but they’re great for chopping in general! My Nanny kids prefer the wooden handheld chopper for most things! I think because it’s a little easier to control.
6 PCS Wooden Kids Kitchen Knife Include Wood Kids Safe Knives for Real Cooking Plastic Potato Slicers Cooking Knives Serrated Edges Toddler Knife Kids Plastic Knives for Kitchen Children (Crocodile) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09JYQVH9J/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_PTNX4VQ6G5QEKQNPEJGM
Looks for the Industructibles brand books. My kiddo was a ripper not a chewer, and we had a few of these and loved them!
I like the idea of this with a hanging bar on the side with the door. Wouldn't fit all the clothes but a smaller selection for kiddo to pick from. More standard clothes storage in the closet.
This is going to be an unpopular opinion, but not everything has to be super expensive wood toys for your child to get enrichment from them. I've actually had a terrible time with expensive magnetic wood blocks (Tegu Blocks) not holding up well. The same goes for fancy wood rainbows and other similar toys. Think paint flacking off, accidental injury when playing with them, etc.
My now 21-month-old LOVES magnatiles (tons of excellent imaginative play, plastic and magnets), mega building blocks (plastic), her dolly, the stroller for her dolly (not wood, from target), a tea set (plastic) that came with a stuffed animal, crayons, her kitchen equipment (she helps cook with us), and her books.
As for wood toys, I've had great luck with the Melissa and Doug line (she loves the puzzles), Amazon basics has a line too, and keeping an eye out for sales at the local expensive baby store.
When she was your little's age, her favorite was an obnoxious plastic ring set (sassy rings I believe) that was gifted from her grandma, Fisher-Price wooden/plastic toys (this line may be defunct now, but they hold up amazingly well if you can find them, I found them at Ollie's Bargain Outlet and on Amazon really cheap), a cheap large mirror I set up for her (think back to school sales), and random household objects (spoons, kleenex boxes, amazon/shoe boxes, hats, scarfs, tennis balls...random stuff).
I really think the magic of Montessori is giving your child space to be creative and explore their world without overwhelming them with flashy, light-up noisy things. Additionally, our world in 2022 includes lots of bright colors and plastic. I get that Montessori is a whole aesthetic, but I truly believe if you're giving your child the freedom to grow and explore their world at their pace, you're on the right track.
You can limit the books available!!
Yes, she will still ask about her other books. Your response can be something like "oh yes you're right we do have that book, but its not available right now. Next time I rotate your books, I'll bring it out." She may have some feelings about this boundary, but she will soon figure it out.
Also, you can be flexible. If there's a special reason for a specific book, go ahead and go get it out of storage.
For the stepping obsession - why not let her as long as she's not actively damaging things? Yes, she could fall. She's ~2 feet from the ground, she'll be fine. No better way to learn than through experience. Also though, if you're down to shell out some cash, I got these for my best friend's daughter who is 3 weeks older than my daughter (they are both 20 months right now), and they both LOVE them: https://www.amazon.com/Rainbow-Massage-Game-Mats-Kids/dp/B07L54NRSW/ref=sr\_1\_4?crid=2SOSCOKWZC4W1&keywords=sensory+steps&qid=1643991313&sprefix=sensory+step%2Caps%2C271&sr=8-4.
We used a high chair at that age, and now that she's older we have a booster seat in one of our regular chairs that has arms for most meals. I like all of us eating together at the table. For snacks and sometimes when she asks to we have a lap tray and let her sit on a cushion on the ground to eat. The tray is like this one, but I got ours at Target for like $3: https://www.amazon.com/QI003253P-Kids-Portable-Activity-Table/dp/B075F9PSKT/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=19SAC6ZY5QYG1&keywords=lap+tray+plastic+cup+holder&qid=1641867234&sprefix=lap+tray+plast%2Caps%2C135&sr=8-3
I used a tension rod so I could adjust it over time. When we moved to this house (maybe kindergarten?) I used this hanging clothes bar and kept shifting it upwards every year or two. https://www.amazon.com/SimpleHouseware-Adjustable-Closet-Hanging-Chrome/dp/B01K07MY1K/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3T31C3ZV3F5XB&keywords=hanging+clothes+bar&qid=1641743223&sprefix=hanging+clothes+bar%2Caps%2C65&sr=8-1
We got a manual push vacuum:
The handle is comprised of several pieces that screw together, so we just left one piece out and it’s the perfect height for toddlers. Bonus is that it’s not noisy!
Yep! Rumor is it’s a good snow suit too… especially if you rarely get snow.. and it would cost way more to buy a separate outfit “in case of snow” just layer them up with warm clothes underneath!
We started with a standard mini potty. We recently bought this so he can climb up to the toilet himself. I’m not sure if it’s actually Montessori aligned, but my boy loves it and can easily put it on the toilet by himself when he needs to go. I typically leave it on the toilet because no one else uses his bathroom but him.
Potty Training Seat Boys Girls,Toddlers Potty Training Toilet Seat,Kids Potty Seat Potty Chair with Step Stool Ladder（Gray/Orange） https://www.amazon.com/dp/B094QKJ5DZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_0QAKR3KM2ET6ZC15JZGQ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Oh! Haha!!
Well for my LO I use painters tape and tape toys to a backing sheet and she will sit in front of it for a while trying to untape her toys. I call that toy rescue.
I also stuff scarves into a toy for sorting different shape blocks and she will work on pulling those out of the box!
She will also sit and play with her Melissa and Doug toy house that’s the four sides and has the keys. Right now she likes when I have the doors unlocked for her, so she can put toys in and out of the doors and push the doorbells. Here it is!
Are you talking about adding something like this inside one of the cubbies? I have this on top of our ikea cube shelf to display a couple books in addition to our book basket. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BMRG3WQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_VGHC9ZK5ZHMT112FVM4X?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
If you’re looking for her to learn new skills while also fostering her love for books then you can easily find books geared towards different things. If my son really loves an activity, I try to foster the love for that activity while sprinkling in maybe “bonuses” of additional sensory aspects or new skills, etc.
So for example, when my son was learning the pincer grasp, he really took to the Poke-A-Dot books. It was a book and he loves flipping through them, but it was also challenging him to work on using his fingers for things versus his entire palm. So little things like that can help you maybe feel better because she’s getting a little “added benefit” while doing what she already wants to do! But I agree with everyone else, you should just continue fostering her love for reading!! That’s awesome that she’s so interested in books!!!
They also do sell anti tipping kits on Amazon as well. These are what we have: Furniture Straps (10 Pack) Baby Proofing Anti Tip Furniture Anchors Kit, Cabinet Wall Anchors Protect Toddler and Pet from Falling Furniture, Adjustable Child Safety Straps Earthquake Resistant https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07R8HY6HR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_9DTS19KQQ2DS9WFJ0TB2
This is the one we got. I love that the table can be a table, a desk, or a bench and the chairs can have a low seat, a higher seat, or be flipped on their side and serve as side tables.
ECR4Kids - ELR-22202 Natural Bentwood Multipurpose Kids Wooden Chair Set (3-Piece) TABLE, Small https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01IR9EDIU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_1CS3DK9K0E31HMNY0GZB
My son also loved peeling since around 22 months ..
We use a similar peeler to this.. Limited-time deal: Amazon Brand - Solimo Plastic Kitchen Peeler - Green https://www.amazon.in/dp/B07BPXMG9T/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_dl_VGD4KMQSTM0KEHP77NNS
But what has been great is a tip I read somewhere on Insta: stick a children fork on one end and make them hold the handle with one hand and peel with the other.. That ways you minimise any accidents
What about something like this ?
Kids Knifes Set,Nylon Knives Safe Baking Cutting Cooking Children's Beginners Cut Fruits Salad Veggies CakeFun Firm Grip Serrated Edges Friendly Childrens Knife With Cutting Board Peeler 5Pack (pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B096SPKR5D/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_a_VENB5DBSSKG4QR6C6SGM
I bought the knives for my toddler for Christmas, but not the peeler.
We did no night light at the beginning and that was fine. When we started potty training, kid needed a light.
We use a “nite ize disc-o-select spot lit usb rechargeable” dog collar light. It lasts 12+hours, is rechargeable, and durable. We have several because we also use them for the dogs on walks at night.
This link might not go to the specific option, select rechargeable. https://smile.amazon.com/Nite-Ize-SGS-07S-R6-SpotLit-Carabiner/dp/B07MBPBV94
Hi there! Thanks for your comment. I check YouTube more so next time you can leave a comment there as it helps my channel. I got the shelves from Amazon Kings Brand Furniture White Wood 4 Cube Organizer Storage Bookcase https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MTKYMWX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_4TN07ZWDY24219X3QXD9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
The rocker we had for my daughter was gifted but it’s falling apart so I just use the couch. I’m thinking I’m eventually going to need to move it, but he’s not sleeping through the night yet, so I’m not about to move it out. Plus, it’s a nice place to sit with him and my daughter and read books. For now it works. I have a changing table in my sons closet where I change him and keep his diapers. In a couple months I’m going to move all his diaper changes to the bathroom to teach him potty things happen in the bathroom. I’ll probably do it standing up for pee snd have a small foldout changing table for bigger business.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082PV5XKW?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details
This ball track is awesome and I recommend the boon pipes and gears.
Here is something similar to the big farm animals I have. 6 Piece Farm Animal Models Toy Set, Realistic Animals Action Figure Model, Educational Learn Cognitive Toys https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0784R8DW8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VQV4K3X4DKPZDS2E1EWF
Maybe look into getting some wall mounted baby gates (there are some where they are anchored to the walls, and much more stable). If you get some of those, is there an area of the main room or kitchen or something else that you could cordon off as a "yes" area?
I know nothing about this product, but am posting because of the mounting option: https://smile.amazon.com/North-States-Superyard-6-Panel-Barrier/dp/B07JGDGG23 -- free standing baby pen style gates, I found our kid would just push them around. But I'm pretty sure if it were anchored to the wall, then this would have lasted much longer.
Re: the not walking, our kid started walking at 12mo, but was climbing much earlier than that -- she flipped her pack n play over before she could walk.
I will say, at least based on my kid, the gate/fence/safety area solution will not last much beyond 2yrs age, so it's probably also worth really working on reinforcing what the kid can and can't play with as much and as early as possible.
We have a similar situation and were gifted this playpenplaypen. His floor bed is in the playpen, which is zipped up at night and open during the day.
I will warn you that it’s a bit large but for now it works really well!
I'm in a classroom, so I do need a workhorse printer. This is the one I'm currently using:
HP Color LaserJet Pro Multifunction M479fdw Wireless Laser Printer
It's expensive, but I do a lot of material making, scanning, copying, etc.. And I like the color laser printers because they use toner and not ink. The print quality is much better, and clearer imo.
The heat vent isn't definitely a no-go for a yes room -- it shouldn't get hot enough to scald (at least in the ones I've used before). You may be able to put a grate on the top that isn't as conducive to tiny fingers getting stuck inside, I guess. Also, a mesh to keep crayons or whatever from being dropped in would probably be good.
Secondly, in our case, for the first few months of conversion, I actually left the crib upside down in the room, and that could totally be used to block off the floor heater. You'd still have the same equivalent amount of space, as you did when using the crib, though you may need to pick up the mattress for space I guess.
Third, There are electric radiant heaters you can mount to the wall...we didn't use for our kid's room, but I've used them in the past. I've used one of these: https://smile.amazon.com/DeLonghi-HMP1500-Mica-Panel-Heater/dp/B005MMN75G -- they actually don't even get too hot for the kid to touch, though it'd be best if it's in a spot where the kid can't toss blankets on top of it, etc.
At 17 months, it should be totally fine to use a bed. In our home we prefer mattress on floor for simplicity, and I think a bed likely would make it too high in the 6 month floor bed moves...but after the kid can walk and climb, a bed would totally be fine.
I've had this bath toy since my daughter was about 10 months. She had to just splash with them, fill them up and dump them. How at 16 months she's figuring out how to stack them properly. Solid plastic, no hidden peices so mold resistant. :)
Boon FLEET Toddler Bath Tub Water Stacking Boat Toy Set for Kids Aged 9 Months and Up, Multicolor (Pack of 5) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082YS7DDS/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_FTCFTGP8HBB1FVD79VPT?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm really glad it was helpful! Here's a link to Jane Nelson's website... she's the author of Positive Discipline. I've found copies of her books used on alibris.com. It is my favorite gift for new parents.
These are board books and I love them.... though the images are still graphically illustrated and not photographed. 🤷🏽♀️ https://b6900.myubam.com/p/6974/199-zoo-animals
I also love these: https://www.amazon.com/National-Geographic-Kids-Look-Learn/dp/1426314825/ref=nodl_