https://ikeymonitor.com/android-keylogger/amp has a free trial share on twitter get 3 more days free . Make sure you walk through the wizard to get full access. Saved my sanity though he still denied everything under surround you can record in real time good luck
Dr. Ramani. She is on YouTube. She has a book also. https://www.amazon.com/Should-Stay-Surviving-Narcissistic-Relationship/dp/1618688782. She works on California, where many people economically can’t separate. Sometimes you have to stay. Many people stay because they are waiting for the kids to get out of the house. But listening to her may help you feel better about your decision with wise advice t help you walk the tightrope you are on.
Admittedly you will get a lot of advice to leave in places like this, but don’t feel bad and ignore it if you know it does not apply to your situation. Forums like this cannot get into details enough to make perfect decisions and you can never tell what is care and concern vs. bitterness lashing out.
But here is a little 💕💕💕 Just because. 😘
The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists by Eleanor Payson. I read the book and swore the author was spying on my life. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.amazon.com/Wizard-Oz-Other-Narcissists-Relationship/dp/0972072837&ved=2ahUKEwjdmYzqs-rwAhXYgf0HHdlHClwQFjAIegQIHRAC&usg=AOvVaw0DNYaIz0NA9G_pXJsJzOWc