That’s strange. I just got mine today and can connect wirelessly and with a wire.
This is the one I ordered:
It's the 'red go' one. here is the link via Amazon.ca.
It just works out of the box. Does your video card bind to video0 ?
This card binds video0 to the composite video in and video1 is the svideo input. OAP by default uses video0 for the rear view camera but can be changed by editing the openauto-system.ini file.