Another vote for Expecting Better, as the author looks at the actual scientific evidence behind most common pregnancy do's and don'ts.
For example, she says there's no problem with sushi / a moderate amount of caffeine.
Search for family pajamas. We all have blue & green plaid ones from last Christmas.
I don't know which side of this argument you fall under but they actually found the blueprints for the toilet paper roll showing it was designed to go over.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/toilet-paper-actually-goes-over_n_6887724
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