Excuse my french, but what's up with the dick-measuring contest between these shows. You like one, good for you. You like both, good for you. What we like is subjective, and anyone discussing it, is like trying convince someone else of your favorite color.
BH and TaB have an overlapping targeted audience (women who want empowerment, people who suffer a form of mental illness, people who enjoy plots that are filled with emotions, just to name a few), and I believe BH targets guys more. When people that aren't targeted don't like something, there is really nothing to do.
Good post btw. Hope you're doing well!