What are /r/gaytransguys' favorite Products & Services?

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Is the best harness I've ever used. Highly recommend it. Sorry not clear if you're looking for the harness or the cock. Good luck with the search.

YES, I still sometimes do this too, at age 44! You are not alone. I second therapy and anything from Pete Walker - this book in particular was very helpful to me:

https://www.amazon.com/Complex-PTSD-Surviving-RECOVERING-CHILDHOOD/dp/1492871842

I work in the very cis/straight male-dominated field of firefighting and I have to remind myself CONSTANTLY to not fawn. I forget most often when I am stressed or on the spot. It is a very purposeful thing that I have to concentrate on. That said, I have wanted to be careful not to go too far the other way; I am not and will never be a straight or cis dude and I don’t want to go around parroting behaviors that are not actually me, if that makes any sense. So lately I’m striving to find an in between that feels genuine, where I’m not falling all over myself apologizing but also not dude-bruh-ing everywhere I go.

This one is great

https://www.amazon.ca/ANUN-Mens-Low-rise-Strap-Black/dp/B01HR6BW1U/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?dchild=1&keywords=mens+jockstrap&qid=1610668720&sr=8-4

I also like DJX, the ones I have fit well and don’t have extra material in the front.

If you’re interested in self pub books there’s this book, kinky queer story with cisxtrans man relationship

https://www.amazon.com/Orchid-Lion-Gabriel-Hargrave-ebook/dp/B09HPZMGWF/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=OCPSDEAXE3V&keywords=orchid+and+the+lion&qid=1668814797&sprefix=orchid+and+the+lion%2Caps%2C197&sr=8-1

I've picked up a few items recently but the best thing has to be the ring light w phone holder. My partner and I are LDR, so lots of video calls, and *other* videos. So the ring light has been huge! No its not technically a sex toy but it has boosted our sex life a lot! Its like $25 on amazon.

This is my favorite anal trainer kit - it's a lot softer than a lot of trainers so it works well in tandem with the things others have suggested, giving you the opportunity to vary textures and still practice even on days when you don't feel up to a harder toy.

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Wahl Beard and Mustache Trimmer, Cordless Rechargeable Facial Hair Trimmer with 5 Length Settings - Model 9916-4301V https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00006WNSM/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_F1HEPNG8KSZ4Z1VWNNC0

i BELEIVE this is the model I use, i bought them two years ago at target. It's small enough that you can get into your nooks and crannies without fearing you'll cut anything.

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Hey I know I'm a day late, but I still wanted to add something. Something that helped me a lot personally was reading about Lou Sullivan, a gay trans man who lives from 1951-91. He wrote in his diary a lot and most of it was about having sex with/lusting after other gay men. His dairies are published now and you can buy them off Amazon, but if you're not a reader you can just read his Wikipedia article lmao.

I don't know why but knowing that gay trans men existed pre Internet and had relationships with other men really helped solidify the idea that I'm not fetishizing gay men in my head, that I'm actually attracted to them because I'm gay.

So far I’ve found this

Freebily Men Boxer Brief Trunks Buckled Shorts Bulge Pouch Jockstrap Underwear https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0791TSQCV/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_S92GPKBZ4ACCT23TJ47Q?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

I have a gendercat packer with a fascination sleeve but I also have one of these for harness wear and it is really good to grind up against:

This company also makes stand alone bases for dildos that give feedback and cushion.

Whoa. That could change up my situation for real!

So my inspiration was something like this because it didn't have the metal belts/girdles that are all up in women's styles. I just want metal hardware over my dick and then be able to ignore the rest as much as possible.

Looking at your PDF, because of the way the loops work...the elastic seems to go on either side of underparts, so you can pee without taking it off! (That's seriously what I want so much.) Would have to get creative with the kind of cup so everything else falls in line, but I can figure that out.

My original: [removed because I'm not sure this sub's rules on NSFW images, will DM this part]. I only worked with random shit found in my house at the time. So that is...wait for it...a pair of suspenders, and some metal rings held together with hot glue. I also had to hot glue some soft vinyl pieces 'behind the scenes' so the other clasps & shit wouldn't cut into my other parts. And the hot glue is already starting to come apart, probably due to sweat/wetness. It's also hard to clean, I'd like something more sanity for longer periods.

Anyway, thanks so much for that idea! I don't mind investing a little bit of money to make a more permanent/professional one, I just didn't have $112 bucks to blow on some hardcore g-string on amazon.