I recently just bought one thru Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00XLWPTWI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_22b5BbAF97V8P And I haven’t gotten to use it on him yet but I tried it on and sent him a video of me playing with it. The vibration felt amazing and I came from just playing with it. So I’m pretty excited to use it on him. It’s jelly feeling while being flexible but firm. Highly suggest it! Have fun 😉
Just a cheaper plastic one from amazon to try out first Male Chastity Cage with 4 Rings, Biosourced Resin Chastity Device for Sex Toy https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08745P624/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_l06zFbC0EFPRM not sure the link will work
It is very intense. All you need is a cheap recipricating saw and an adapter.
edit: and lots of lube! lol
I see this is a webinar, but i felt id post this for other people who are interested in pegging for some tips from experience
My wife and i are on the larger side, a longer toy definitely helps. A textured one feels amazing, again longer is better imo. Softer toys tend to bend easier so it can be helpful with longer toys going deeper, but too flexible and you can have issues with entry as it bends too easily when trying to press inside, but practice makes perfect and even soft toys with large heads can be very pleasing But Wideness is up to you and what you can accommodate,
we personally enjoy this toy linked below as it is firm enough to penetrate with a little effort, yet soft enough to be comfortable when slipping in, and going deep. It is amazing on the prostate. Though if you are a beginner to anal, your miles may vary. (LINK: https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Flexible-Animal-Silicone-Suction/dp/B08GFP2NL7/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?crid=10T5JX974GB6Z&keywords=horse%2Bdildo&qid=1664400305&qu=eyJxc2MiOiI3LjcwIiwicXNhIjoiNi45OSIsInFzcCI6IjUuOTEifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=horse%2Bdil...)
larger isnt always better if you are like us where dont play often enough to comfortably accommodate Girthier toys.
We bought this harness after a few previous harnesses that werent comfortable or great. It fits up to a 60" waist and the fabric is nice and comfortable for her. It can accommodate small and large toys and leaves easy access to please her. It also won't break the bank especially when coupled with adam eves common discounts (link: https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/sp-sportsheets-red-lace-corsette-strap-on-harness-93620.aspx)
Since the prostate is only a few inches in, just about any length is gonna be hitting it. This is the one we started with I think. https://www.amazon.com/Tantus-Bend-Over-Intermediate-Strap/dp/B0037F3GEM/ref=sr_1_1?crid=L6KNKPJYUUQK&
As mentioned though, the spareparts harness is much nicer, so if you want to go all out, I would recommend getting that long with smallish dildo that fits in a strapon along with a bullet vibrator (like the one that comes with the tantus set I linked).
Some other tips:
Take care of everything. Meaning, clean yourself thoroughly with an anal douche.
Help her get the harness on and adjusted.
Lube up the dildo and yourself so she does not have to touch anything.
Doggy style (standing/bent over or both of you on your knees) is the easiest position for beginners (imo).
Don't try to get her to jerk you off while pegging you, just let her focus on the motion involved.
Clean up everything afterwards.
I researched and purchased these.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00AU8HZ0U/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
What I found with standard butt plugs it that the top/head of the plug is large, but the bottom/neck part is still small. You can get past the larger part and then the muscles are relaxed around the smaller part. Good if you want to wear a plug, but not if you are trying to stretch/relax the sphincter muscles. These work because the neck is also larger and actually stretches. Medical advice says that you only need to insert and leave these in for 30-90 sec. to stretch and relax. Like others have suggested, I like to start with #2 (1-5, smallest to largest), leave it in for 5 mins, move up to #3 for another 5 mins. That is enough for me to take a dildo that is just bigger than the #3 plug. I have tried #4, it takes a bit more work but I didn't get much more out of it. #1 is a tiny joke, #5 is for people with serious goals. Personally I could toss 1 and 5 in the trash and not miss them.
Microwaveing has worked well for me but I use a large mixing bowl. With only a small amount in the bottom, it keeps it from boiling over. But it was a pain to transfer to the container we use it out of.
My new method is putting about a foot of stainless steel chain in the container. It makes the shaking more productive. Give it a good shake several times over a day or so and it will be completely mixed. I got my piece of chain at Home Depot. The links are about the size of end of your thumb, 3/4-1 inch.
This is the container we use, works a treat. FIFO Inverted Plastic Squeeze Bottle https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071GQDKM1/
My J-Lube recipe 1 cup of water 1 table spoon of J-Lube 1 and a half teaspoons of methylcellulose (thickener) Couple of squirts of whatever lube I have around (for the preservatives)
Mix the J-Lube and methylcellulose together then add to the water. Then use the chain to get the floating powder into the water so it doesn't stick to the inside of the container. Drop the chain in there and start shaking. I'll usually shake it off and on while watching TV. It's good in a few hours and even better in a day.
Microwaveing has worked well for me but I use a large mixing bowl. With only a small amount in the bottom, it keeps it from boiling over. But it was a pain to transfer to the container we use it out of.
My new method is putting about a foot of stainless steel chain in the container. It makes the shaking more productive. Give it a good shake several times over a day or so and it will be completely mixed. I got my piece of chain at Home Depot. The links are about the size of end of your thumb, 3/4-1 inch.
This is the container we use, works a treat. FIFO Inverted Plastic Squeeze Bottle https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071GQDKM1/
My J-Lube recipe 1 cup of water 1 table spoon of J-Lube 1 and a half teaspoons of methylcellulose (thickener) Couple of squirts of whatever lube I have around (for the preservatives)
Mix the J-Lube and methylcellulose together then add to the water. Then use the chain to get the floating powder into the water so it doesn't stick to the inside of the container. Drop the chain in there and start shaking. I'll usually shake it off and on while watching TV. It's good in a few hours and even better in a day.
Ooh it is amazing. 🤩 so realistic and soft
Realistischer Dildo mit starkem Saugnapf Weiches Silikon XXL Dildo Dual Density 10" Monster Dildo Big Horse G-Punkt Giant Dildo Sexspielzeug für Frauen1 https://www.amazon.de/dp/B08QZKDFQ6/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_180AR1741FXT3RTVDGA5
Ooh it is amazing. 🤩 so realistic and soft
Realistischer Dildo mit starkem Saugnapf Weiches Silikon XXL Dildo Dual Density 10" Monster Dildo Big Horse G-Punkt Giant Dildo Sexspielzeug für Frauen1 https://www.amazon.de/dp/B08QZKDFQ6/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_180AR1741FXT3RTVDGA5
So, my husband had to kind of make it. He loves his Njoy wand, and got this one because it seemed similar. It worked great with me holding it, so he bought another and a suction cup base. He drilled out the penis shaped end and epoxied in the suction cup base. His new favorite toy!
If anyone knows of a similarly shaped dildo, we’d love to know!
Bathroom Handheld Inches Shower Hose with Enema Showerhead Cleaning Kit Colonic System Cleaner https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077RXHSC9/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_Q83Z89ZCSDZKP65NGG1A
Comes with the hoses and everything, but I found out it fit perfectly on my existing shower head hose
That's the original one. It seems to be a trend now
Silicone Penis Ring, Adorime 3 in 1 Ultra Soft Cock Ring for Erection Enhancing Sex Toy for Men Couple … https://www.amazon.com/dp/B083Z4ZM9P/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_B3J33TXW8ZHK9VY9RTG8?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I really need to setup a affiliate link haha
Evolved Novelties | Big Shot Ejaculating Squirting 8" Beige Dildo,Assorted https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HYGVQ7Y/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_EXBHJ6XWCXTDD07ES6ST?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
name of the dildo: Pipedream Basix 12
Link to amazon hope thats fine for mods https://www.amazon.com/Pipedream-Basix-Dong-suction-Clear/dp/B005C3W0NA
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07DGM7QBZ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
My husband and I love this one. Super slick, like so slick it is hard to keep a hold of toys if it is on your hand, has a decent, non chemically taste, lasts for a long time, and gets crazily more slippery with spit. Price is good too!
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DGM7QBZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_pvH0FbYPZ9Z84
This is the one we used. It is my favorite so far. Haven't used it for normal anal yet, so not sure how well it works for that, but for pegging it was unbelievable. So slick that it made everything easier and he was able to take larger toys faster.
Do you clean with a bulb beforehand? Sometimes water from the cleansing can hang around inside, which will break down water-based lube relatively quickly. As recommended already, try using more and more lube. I prefer more straight and squishy dildos than what you are showing, but not sure if that would help. The anfei line on amazon are relatively cheap and fit the bill (for me). https://www.amazon.com/Realistic-Anfei-Slightly-Bendable-Masturbation/dp/B07C97X4KH/?th=1
Man that looks like fun.
I currently use this
/u/kinky-la-belle I would suggest that toy for his.... training.. :)
A good place to find the rubber o-rings you would be looking for is a local hardware store (home depot / lowes). Check out their website first so you aren't spending so much time in the store (or just order from online). Also keep in mind that rubber o-rings may not be compatible with certain silicone toys (but if needs be a soft cloth barrier can be used to eliminate contact between the two (a soft felt strip wrapped around the base of the toy where the o-ring would contact). Try to find the thicker o-rings if going this route such as: 2.5" o-ring
https://www.amazon.com/Lifelike-Texture-Massager-Beginners-Suction/dp/B0895X75ZP
My partner and I got this so that she could also receive physical stimulation during pegging sessions and I highly recommend it, you guys have good couple energy!
I can advise to use camera stabilization like this https://www.amazon.com/Hohem-Smartphone-Stabilizer-iSteady-Mobile/dp/B07GDBT8GN/ref=zg_bs_196573011_10?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=Y8X9YRXW2N14NHATJF5A It gives more professional look to the video.
That is... Pipedream Products Dillio 7 Inches Strap On Suspender Harness Set, Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XF761C1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_.tcyCb0D4BVCN
Different harness in use... https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=37885
Blush is my new fav brand! Can’t believe I didn’t know about them until recently.
These are amazingly colorful, ball-free, and affordable:
https://www.amazon.com/Blush-Novelties-Avant-Dildo-Summer/dp/B078SWKT62
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B078SWSNKZ/ref=oh_aui_i_d_old_o0_img?ie=UTF8&psc=1&th=1
This. For all your undercarriage needs. Nothing easier or cheaper. Apply, leave on for about 8 min and rinse off. Repeat roughly monthly. I never had the courage to wax or shave the back door. Found this in a reddit thread and it saved my bald behind.
This is a great starter kit: Tantus Bend Over Intermediate The smaller size dildo is perfect for a beginner, and the larger size is something you can move up to after some warmup, or later down the road. The harness is good quality, and can be used with other dildos when/if you decide to buy others.
Don't bother with your 3rd link. Those are not really "beginner" dildos, and they still require a harness.
we use this one, and have had no problems. its on sale right now as well for about $30.
Get something like this, or they make vibrating ones also --
The tantus acute dildo is amazing. It is curved a certain way and it feels fantastic. I've used dildos that are too big, and some that are too small.. this one feels just right.