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You can wear a white undershirt underneath the polo shirt. My favorite white t shirts are these. With pants, don't pull your pants up all the way. Try lowering them a little, sag them just a bit. Bring your pants down to just above your butt. It gives the illusion you have a dick, thus looking masculine. If your polo shirt is long sleeves, roll up the sleeves. This is to give the illusion and bigger forearms and muscles. I'm not sure if they give you the polo shirt and pants, but if you have a bit of options, then make sure the pants are too tight or too loose. Don't do them overly baggy, and don't get them super skinny. It really depends on your body type. I wear skinny jeans because they look good on me and help me pass in comparison to baggier pants, but that doesn't work for everyone. The perfect pants for me are skinny pants that are a bit lowered, one size up. With polo shirts Dickies have good shirts that are thick in material.

With your hair, depends on your hair type and style. Though with nearly everyone, short on the sides and long on the top is almost always the case. Don't dye your whole head. I think it looks the best when guys only dye the top of their head anyways. Like Markiplier or jacksepticeye. Though with trying to pass, then if you were to dye your hair I recommend doing highlights.

With earrings, if you wear them, I recommend either a very small hoop, small square stud, or a cross. Apparently wearing only one earring in the left ear indicates you're straight, and only one in the right ear means your gay. Stupid ik. But that's just a passing tip, you can do what you want with it.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XR6XW8P/ref=sspa_dk_detail_1?pd_rd_i=B07RJGKJX1p13NParams&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEyR0kyQjI3WVM0NVVFJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwNjM2ODgwMk1SWEQ2TE02STNMRCZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwNDMwOTkzMkxWSloxQ0JEQ1QyNiZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2RldGFpbDImYWN0aW9uPWNsaWNrUmVkaXJlY3QmZG9Ob3RMb2dDbGljaz10cnVl&th=1&psc=1 here's a really nice one i found! they have it in short sleeves and tank top, so you don't have to wear long sleeves in the summer. i'm definitely using this when i go to the beach.

Personally I started out with mr. limpy, it served its purpose as a first packer but I found that it felt too small for my body type (short & stocky). I now use the doc Johnson pack it, the heavy version and I looove it. For me it passed the grab test and though to some it may not be important, but the feel of the packer is phenomenal. And it’s not too expensive.

Ultimately it’s up to your partner’s desire in regard to size and feel. Maybe get a gauge by asking questions, window shopping, or watching packer reviews with him? Watching reviews is how my gf figured out which packer to get me (mr. limpy)!

Doc Johnson - Pack It - Prosthetic Flaccid Penis - Realistic Size and Feel - Heavy (200 g) - Vanilla https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IYRRJGO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_i_Dk7.FbMB1HZPK?psc=1

I never use height inserts but I've seen this one and this one

I know you mentioned you always wear Vans but Nike SP Zoom Blazers or Charges work well for height. Also other sneakers like Air Force ones or Air Max's are great too

Black people are less likely to be truscum because even if they jump through all the medical hoops, their doctors will often make up bullshit reasons to gate keep just because they hate black people. Black folks are often shy of medicine, psychiatry, and medical doctors due to medical racism. I am not black, but I've spent enough time around black folks to notice this.

That could be why you're not noticing a lot of black people in truscum spaces, as truscum tend to adhere to a strict medical standard unaware that medicine often discriminates against black people, forcing black people to purchase mediciations illegally or look for 'holistic' methods.

Again I am not black, I don't know that much about this, you might want to try reading Medical Apartheid by Harriet A. Washington. She is kind of homo/trans phobic due to her religion I think, and there is a lot of stuff about black trans people she specifically didn't mention because of this, but it will still give a general understanding of this topic.

Longer legged boxers are the way to go! Having to deal with thighs on the thicker side, an active job, and hot weather they're life changing. What's worked for me personally are: Calvin Klein briefs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JQSZT3K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_2RFJQJ41M19QF3Z2VRAA

And someone recently put me on to these David Archy boxers with the extra pouch. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071XVVYWT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_TQDHNX1QWYTRPYN7VRAC

I've found these perfect for packing with an stp since there's a hole to separate things.

amazon tablets are pretty cheap that is something I could have saved for when I was a kid, you won't need to wait for your b-day

buy a huge bag of candy bars from Costco or a discount store for like $5 then sell every candy bar at school for $1 that's what the baby queers used to do back in the day

I actually found this on Amazon!

This Binder has worked very well for me and I'm a D cup plus it's pretty cheap when it comes to binders

im 34D and personally i use this (4"x16.4 ft) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09HNBL14K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_9N4CX8VP96NCXFSPJWPG?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1. when i apply it i press my chest tissue downwards like i would with a cloth binder, then tape in the direction of my sternum to my armpit. note with this tape is that you MUST use isopropyl alcohol to remove it. oil or soap removes the tape but leaves a sticky residue on the skin

I found some really cheap sports bras that are decent and give my ribs a break, lemme dig up the link...the exact ones are out of stock/removed but these are pretty close

Women's 3-Pack Seamless Wire-Free Bra Low-Impact Sport Bra Yoga Sleep Daily Bras with Removable Pads https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08NXGVLB4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_KJXM11VB5Q78EDA8YWFP

I have two standard earlobe piercings, and I got a cartilage piercing back when I was in 8th grade, I still have it now and have a horseshoe spike earring. I’m not on T yet but it doesn’t make a difference in passing for me. Its more the kind of earring that you have in it that matters, honestly just google mens earring and they’re all the same and pretty basic.

Try this bro. I love it! EAST MOUNT Twister Arm Exerciser - Adjustable 22-440lbs Hydraulic Power, Home Chest Expander, Shoulder Muscle Training Fitness Equipment, Arm Enhanced Exercise Strengthener. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0871NV2SG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_X9KQ7FP05YJFTMVPA6BJ

You're young so you'll grow faster than I did pre-T at age 18, that's for sure! Do 5 more reps every day than before. Once you reach 100-200, increase the amount of weight.

While you do, wear this:

LMCOB Sauna Sweat Short Pants for Men Hot Thermo Leggings Sauna Tight Pants Compression Hight Waist for Gym Polymer Pants Workout Fitness Exercise Body Shaper Sauna Suit https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0972DTT64/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_Q75AZ4QNPQT57A6A95XK

Use gold bond firming lotion mixed with aloe vera gel and lavender on your chest, thighs and hips to slow down the process of that other puberty. Persistence is the key, man! Good luck!

Look into growth pills. Garden of Life Bone Growth stacked with a hefty protein diet enriched with veggies and fruit, good hydration, and Bio Worx Stem Cell spray work wonders for getting you even taller. Since you're young, I'd take half a serving of the stem cells and Garden of Life, and let my doctor know I am taking it. Ask in advance, since it would suck if they said you can't. A number supplements are recommended for over age 18, so it's always better to be safe than sorry.

Personally longer legged boxers are the way to go! Having to deal with thighs on the thicker side, an active job, and hot weather they're life changing. What's worked for me personally are: Calvin Klein briefs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JQSZT3K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_2RFJQJ41M19QF3Z2VRAA

Those have been pretty great for daily use. And idk if you plan on packing but I recommend some of these David Archy boxers with the extra pouch. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071XVVYWT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_TQDHNX1QWYTRPYN7VRAC

I've found these perfect for packing with an stp since there's a hole to separate things.

I got this one on Amazon and it is legit one of the best binders! Super comfortable and no problems breathing in it. I’m a 40 D and it flattens me out significantly. I got an XL.

XUJI Women Tomboy Transgender FTM... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RD85J5X?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I get all of my binders from amazon, lol

I actually really like this one:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CTXVTF2?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

It’s not too expensive and it’s pretty comfy for summer. I’m 5’8 ~160 pounds and I got the XL.

There’s one on Amazon, I’ll link it here. It’s got a flex rod, not super realistic but usable for sex and can be packed with if you pack up. The dick

Next time don't dye your hair. Trim the front and sides a little shorter and square out your hairline. Try and get pants that are a little looser around your hips or go for joggers. As for packing try and get some safety pins and use the socks again. You can also get some boxer briefs with a zipper in them to make it a little easier these are the ones I bought maybe with the fall and winter coming up, wear more beanies and hats. That's what I did when I went to school and it worked I passed. Also I saw your fingernails in the the last pic. Cut em lol guys usually don't have long fingernails

i have this phone case for my Samsung: www.amazon.com/dp/B07PJ9MVPR/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_awdb_t1_On1iFbPS398K2 and its pretty masculine, i have the black one bc my actual phone color is a rose(ish) color. the black kinda makes the rose seem white bc of how much of a dark black it is. i have the nintendo switch instead of the switch lite and use the hori split pad pro (bc i broke my black joysticks LMAO). if i were to have the switch lite tho, i'd prolly go with the yellow. the black is okay, but honestly i need some color in my life. i normally dont go for blue, pink, or purple things just out of personal preference. my favorite color is orange, and i love the combination of white and black on a electronic. i like red when its paired with black tho, but with white and red it might seem like its a tad pink, so i usually avoid it all together. white and orange are my favorite combo by far, it reminds me of sherbet and looks pretty masculine.

Slim fit dickies:

Dickies Slim Fit Work Pant Pantaloni Uomo https://www.amazon.it/dp/B00TTT17WI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_U8FdFb0D1J5DA

Dickies Slim Fit Pantaloni da Lavoro Uomo https://www.amazon.it/dp/B079GFDZX1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_9.FdFb8QD2TM5

the 872 are the ‘slim fit’ style which I like better because i’m small they fit well on me, the original 874 dickies are just too baggy for my liking since i’m pretty skinny. Anyway I get mine on ebay second hand which were only about £25 (uk) way cheaper and last for ages:)