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If you would be open to using a door lock, I've bought this product 5 times from Amazon. The only thing you'd need to be careful of is putting it up high enough that he can't climb up to unlatch it. But it leaves about a 2" gap in the door open.
I had an older metal gate that required 2 hands to open, but they don't sell it anymore. This gate has the same type of lock, but the wooden version was a piece of crap.
Edited because reading comprehension is hard on the weekends.
I use these. The latches are hidden behind the door so my daughter can't see the mechanism to learn out to open it. The glue is strong but the trade off for that is you need a hair dryer to remove it
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GRNTXJZ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
It is so tough, hubs and I have been at each other’s throats due to sleep deprivation. I’ve been so tired my physical health was starting to decline. Tonight we got to eat a meal together and watched our shows without a peep (unheard of!).
Hang in there! Here’s the link to the one we purchased if you are interested https://www.amazon.co.uk/Silentnight-Rainbows-Mummy-Style-Sleeping/dp/B0933LW8Z7/ref=asc_df_B0933LW8Z7/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=500779883685&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=17301002828840821372&hvpone=&hvptwo=&...
I tried googling the book but what came up is this book - https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Words-Jill-Santopolo/dp/0735218307/ref=asc_df_0735218307_nodl?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=266182330298&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=15651871698182083686&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hv... Which is a novel...
That is so tough. I hear how much it’s taking a toll on you. Have you been able to identify what about the teeth brushing causes the meltdowns/overstimulation? Texture, sound, taste?
I saw something like this: https://www.amazon.com.au/bA1-Sided-Autism-Toothbrush-Kids/dp/B06XFHS5FT
Might be worth a try?
Not a recommendation as it’s not arrived yet but I got this as part of her stocking https://www.amazon.co.uk/Bubble-Gun-Launcher-Colorful-Gatling/dp/B0B568KB9C/ref=asc_df_B0B568KB9C/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=606602667345&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5905481602195265023&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=... . Any one else got one and rates it?
No idea how warm they actually are, but you could try these pants to (hopefully) stop the swish.
Not sure on that, but this looks super fun and great to practice fine motor skills https://www.amazon.com/Dinosaur-Eggs-Dino-Dig-Kit/dp/B07WLLHHZ8/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?adgrpid=106593453003&gclid=Cj0KCQiA4aacBhCUARIsAI55maExZW0sH2x2uGSPXwJzL0ep57pfqU9FTa2BWnL84o1d0T7L4G7ZWH8aAm0mEALw_wcB&hvadid=457365009260&hvdev=m&hvlo...
Hi there! My son was having trouble with his glasses. Here are some things that have helped.
- Morning timer/visual reminder to CLEAN his lenses.
- Glasses holder/stuffed animal that holds the glasses for him.
- Ear grips.
- Extra pairs from a cheap glasses website.
Ultimately, the ear grips and the reminder to clean his glasses are what have really helped.
We got each this LaScoota model that they use without the chair attachments.
If you need more brand recommendations, I personally own a Razor scooter, which is nigh-indestructible because it’s so well-built. Not sure they make any three-wheelers, tho.
Child locks, lol He doesnt know how to get around them yet. NO CLUE what we'll do when he figures it out. Hopefully he'll just stay by then, but who knows.
I think this is the one we have.
Do not use a nail clipper. My son moves and resists a lot. So it led in the past, only once never again, to very painful accident.
Instead of nail clippers... 100% use this: electric nail trimmer/filer. Game changer.
Also, its usually only possible when hes very happily distracted by something else.
We used things like: play dough - which requires kneading and using tools to cut things out or squish into moulds, etc; water table with a variety of water toys, including water sand (I don’t recommend the water sand if your child eats everything, as our daughter did. 😩); counters with tongs (we picked dinosaurs); wooden building blocks and Duplo were amazing as she wanted us to play more together; painting (even finger painting is great practice for dexterity); and playing instruments - noisy, but practical for holding tools like drum sticks or plucking strings, hitting individual keys, etc.
I wish I could offer more advice.
Edit: Oh! One other thing we did practice, was eating at the table with utensils. Sometimes it took motivation - like a tea party with her favourite toys - to sit down and “play” while learning to pour juice or milk into a cup. It was fun to count our sandwiches and sticks of carrot. We made games of spreading peanut butter or jam onto toast. We worked through things like stickiness or spills by always trying to make the experience light and enjoyable. Eating is still an overstimulating experience for my kid, so we always follow up with a warm bath and quiet time.
My son has this toy and it makes the schwing sound: https://www.amazon.com/Hasbro-E8352-GIJ-Electronic-Sword/dp/B08P51TJFX/ref=asc_df_B08P51TJFX/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=532502665647&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=12645111587522015045&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvd...
Here is a link on the playstore to one of their apps that my son likes. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.rvappstudios.kids.coloring.book.color.painting
It's from RV AppStudios, they have several free games
Hello!
I use these ones for myself, My kid unfortunately will not wear them yet at 4 years old. I find them comfortable enough.
They are inexpensive which is good, as I assume you will go through several pairs a year due to how our kiddos' are.
My son likes these: Alpine headphones.
They’re cute, they do the job, and if he loses them on the playground, they’re not too expensive.
While working with him like all the other have suggested, Here is an EXTERIOR privacy window film.
https://www.amazon.ca/Exterior-Window-Privacy-Control-Silver/dp/B00VH01KMO
Good luck, I understand the struggle, Mine is still too young for it to be a huge issue, but Im nervous for the future lol.
Oh oh my daughter’s special interest was dinosaurs at that age and at 18 she’s getting ready to start college with the intent of becoming a paleontologist!
She wanted to know if you’ve heard of the How Do Dinosaurs……. book series. It was a favorite at that age for her (and she just said it still is)
It has the scientifically accurate (at the time of publishing) dinosaur names with matching plushies available. Sorry for the segues OP!
We got these ones by 3M and kiddo can still hear me if I use a loud voice. Our little one doesn't seem to need full silence. They work well and are really affordable.
A toy that really helped us was this - https://www.amazon.com/LeapFrog-Fridge-Phonics-Magnetic-Letter/dp/B00JLHVX36
My son would spend an hour at a time putting new letters in and pressing it to hear the sounds and different sentences. For some reason he thought the sentence "B - Backpack, don't forget your backpack" was the funniest joke in the world for a few months...
Anyway - shortly after he did start saying all the letters. He's 4.5 now, not conversational but he does quite a bit of scripting now (and singing!) - he even uses communication purposeful from time to time but not often.
Your son's words may come but they may not. Keep working on how to help him communicate non-verbally while he figures it out.
One book I’ve found incredibly helpful and recommend all the time is Not What I Expected: Help and Hope for Parents of Atypical Parents. It focuses on the parent experience and the (familiar to me) rollercoaster of emotions. Hang in there. Try not to consider other families or what ifs - comparison is the thief of joy and all that. Also, they’re not even three. You got a good early diagnosis, autism acceptance is increasing, and you can’t predict where your kiddos will end up. One of my friends (NT) has an autistic brother. She thought she would be the one to support him in his adulthood. (She’s Yale educated and was a lawyer.) Her insane untreatable migraines put her on disability while her brother holds a job at the library. Life is just unpredictable and beautiful. You got this. ❤️❤️❤️
Here is the book:
The concept of the book is that it helps identify which needs your child may be craving and to help you focus on those needs with examples/methods. Worth a read
I think A LOT of parents are dealing with food aversions, it can be so hard! I try to do blood work once in a while to check his levels but he really hates it so we don’t do it too often. His ped keeps an eye on his weight and height etc.
I hide nutrition everywhere but it mostly has to be liquid.
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Is the powder I use. I buy natural PB and add the powder, some stevia and pink salt and he doesn’t seem to mind! Thank all the gods!!!
His OT is working hard and he can now touch an apple. 😳
My son happens to really like cause and effect toys. I'm not sure if your child will like them. And keep in mind he was 18 months at the time.
He has a toy with a bit more options thanthisbut basically you push a button and something happens. You twist a knob and something happens. You slide something and something happens.
A lot of baby/toddler activity centers are like that. You open a door and something pops out etc.
Are you looking for physical games or board games? We do hi-ho cherry-o, and the (snail game)[https://www.amazon.com/Ravensburger-Snails-Pace-Race-Childrens/dp/B004KZ8P2Q/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1T1B4PZYFGJ8Q&keywords=snail+game&qid=1661191234&sprefix=snail+gam%2Caps%2C168&sr=8-2].
How's your kids receptive language? This book helped my son. He loves it. https://www.amazon.com/Not-Afraid-Dogs-Susanna-Pitzer/dp/0802780679/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=1SEQFJQZV45DO&keywords=afraid+of+dogs&qid=1660851319&sprefix=afraid+of+dogs%2Caps%2C73&sr=8-1
My son is working on his fear right now. He's gotten to the point where given enough time, he will try to pet and even hug a dog. He's self motivated to overcome the fear, though, which has been helpful.
how about these - https://www.amazon.com/BUNMO-Pop-Tubes-Sensory-Toy/dp/B07MBW6JNL
They're kindof loud but my son LOVES them.
Our best bet to keep him occupied while eating is either spinning fidgets or letting him play with his food. However my guy isnt as "bounce off the wall" as yours.
Another idea - my son tends to calm down with compression - so like messaging shoulders with a bit of pressure or compressing his calf or foot (giving them nice steady squeezes) - that type of sensory input tends to make him not want to jump around as much - he seems to prefer it.
60 Minute Visual Analog Desktop... https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07SKNH7Q6?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
He got it right away! I just keep showing him the red going down and remind him when the red is all gone we are leaving/going inside/transitioning to a new activity. Red is his favorite colour so he loves it
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01GAAGCWS/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
these are the blocks we bought - they're unfortunately quite a bit more expensive than when we first bought them, but they've been the one consistent toy that our twins use and twin b's PT loves these things because I can use them to help her with balance and the ABA & OT love them because I can lay her on the angled block and roll the cylinder block along her back like one of those squeezing machine things that are $6000 that we can't afford.
Both my kids (ND and NT) love it when I give them stickers to just stick on a piece of paper. Sometimes I'll draw a road or a tree or a house for them. Keeps them occupied for hours. The 3D type, like these work really well for little fingers.
This looks great! Not to be too forward, but I noticed in your post history you mentioned really struggling with communication. One thing speech and occupational therapists often recommended are AAC's. You could use a paper printable or like an iPad app. They are just gatherings of someone's most commonly needed words or pictures to communicate nonverbally.
You can use it when speaking to her and she will slowly learn how to point at the pictures to share her thoughts/feelings/wants. If you use an iPad it will even read the word when pressed.
Research shows that this helps not only the child's well being but also their ability to develop spoken communication in the future.
Here is a good free app if you're interested: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mycoughdrop.coughdrop
HDE iPad Mini 5 & 4 Case for Kids... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SXD4GXF?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
So far, we have gotten 2 (the little plastics on the inner screen get broken as I take the case apart for cleaning when spills occur and such).
But for the most part, this is solid. I throw a screen protector on the screen and put the iPad in the case. It comes with an additional screen protector.
We have 2 iPads and 2 cases. My sons throws his iPad down (don’t understand why) and the linked one protecc and the other one actually failed so bad the screen is cracked UNDER the protector.
So low to no response to name? Try to setup an appointment with a specialist.
We used this book with my daughter (she’s on the spectrum, what I have heard referred to as low needs). It went very well and she started to read literally within 3 months. The book was great because it had very precise and clear instructions for the parent on exactly what to say to the child. It took us about 20mins a day for 3.5 months. We were very happy with the book and recommended it to all other parents we know as well.
Link to the book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0671631985?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Zip up pj’s worn backwards or onesies (link below) may help. I would also find a cheap video monitor and put it up in her bedroom. That way she can still go to her bedroom but you can keep a close eye on her if she starts smearing.
We are using this one: https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Vitality-Anti-Stress-Magnesium-Supplement/dp/B076414SYD?dplnkId=aa654b24-a405-423e-beee-74a208003c53
I also recommend watching Dr. Berg's videos on YouTube about adhd. Just search dr berg adhd and a few pop up. He talks about how adhd is essentially a nutritional problem and what vitamins/supplements to take.
Shot blocker. Practice desensitization everyday prior to the appointment.
For what it is worth, my son is 45 pounds and this thing literally saved our beach vacation: Dream On Me Coast Stroller Rider,... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S97MWYM?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share If you scroll through the pictures, it converts to a rider mode where it is just a seat with handle (no back or straps). My son loves it so much, and I can't imagine if we had had to get him to walk all over the airport, to the beach, etc...
Following this as I’m currently going through similar. What were kind of having success with is a sistema drink bottle with the pop up top. We make it fun and try him with a few sips throughout the day. He likes it but doesn’t full on drink from it. Hoping to gradually move him onto that when he gets the hang of it but for now he’s still using his baby bottle and that’s ok. All at his own pace and when he’s ready. We try not to force it or he will completely shut down on us so it’s a work in progress. We’ve tried all sorts of sippy cups, straw cups, everything. It’s hard but you’ll find something that kind of works eventually and can go from there.
Linked bottle for reference > https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sistema-Twist-Free-Water-Bottle/dp/B002NPC0WQ/ref=asc_df_B002NPC0WQ/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=210180686366&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=1284790241296197419&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&...
This is the set my daughter uses. She's had them for nearly 2 years and they've held up lole a champ. They're more flexible than durable, but so cheap that if she ever broke them I'd just order another set (I already have a back up set ready to go) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XTQCTWZ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_VKTQ2GNW4SNQMCAPQRHV?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
That's the link to the workbook. You have to self study, read the workbook, listen to the videos on the workbook and listen to as much as videos as you can from her from her YouTube account. I usually hear them at work, while working :P. So my husband and I get the ideas and each of us do 2 activities with the kid per day and as much a Language Facilitation as we can. So basically, is that you involve your child with you on as many activities as you can (regular chores and play time), but also, she talks a lot of your mindset as a parent (which has helped me a lot). I relate her to respectful parenting, but in late talking. She also has a live Q&A on Thursdays and you can ask specific questions from your child, she do answer.
My son rubs everything on his face. One thing he loves is when we use an electric massager something like this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07MKNK6BD/
Not sure if it’ll help stop - but giving him acceptable ways to get that sensory input is worth a try
This works for my 3yr old when she feels like wearing it
Dr.meter Kids Noise Reduction Earmuffs with 27 NRR Hearing Protection Earmuffs (Pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071XHRR54/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_7S7XY86A5JH80302B4FG?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
We got these ones and my 5 yo likes them. Kids Ear Protection Earmuffs - Kids Noise Cancelling Headphones for Autism - Sound Blocking Kids Hearing Protection Earmuffs - Toddlers & Children Age 3-16 Years - 20dB NNR https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Q3WTNJK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_J170MX4M5F1HBSKD6CTZ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
We got these after trying a BUNCH of cheaper throwaway cans / earbuds / ear clips… our son is 3.5 now and has been using them for music and occasional videos for about a year now and doesn’t seem to have an issue.
PuroBasic Volume Limiting Wired... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Z8HNKKT
You could get a footless one piece and turn it backwards. May have to alter the neckline because the back usually goes a little higher. So maybe just cut a v in the neck?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QW41XMC/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_C5HJBJGRMKBQ602VE34X?psc=1
Try unflavoured toothpaste on a brush. Oranurse 50ml Unflavoured Toothpaste (Pack of 6) by Oranurse https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B01CZ641OC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apan_i_06ZZ4P96ENJ2ER3F1QXA?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Give them a bowl of water and the brush in front of their screen and let them take as long as they want to chew on the brush and scrub at their teeth while they watch.
Let them have control of the process.
It's not perfect, but it has worked out ok for my kids.
My 2.5yo son loves this game, as we can link it back to numbers - counting the fish in and out, or by color. Fast and slow, getting fake upset when he cheats (uses his fingers on the magnet) etc. I even set up an obstacle course for him to run the fish from one side to the other Montessori Magnetic Wooden Fishing Game for Toddlers 3 4 5 Years Old, Preschool Fine Motor Skill Learning Hand Eye Coordination Fishing Toy, Great Gifts for Children Boys and Girls https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0942V7KN9/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_PEYNYXC3DAB7G3V2YV40?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
So many great ideas already shared.
I'm not sure if they will still be scared of these, but they are fake. Good luck and hope your kiddos have a wonderful birthday.
I came up with something similar for my child’s bedroom door to notify us if she gets out of bed at night. I used an Aqara M1S and one of their door sensors. If the door opens between 10pm and 7am it lights up and plays a door-bell type chime through the hub. The hub is plugged into our bedroom so we wake up if it goes off. It wasn’t too expensive or hard to setup.
I purchased them at Walmart but I have also seen them at Amazon.
GE Personal Security Window and Door Alarm, 4 Pack, DIY Protection, Burglar Alert, Wireless, Chime/Alarm, Easy Installation, Ideal for Home, Garage, Apartment and More, 45174 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00FGPM1SS/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_WA9A629B8QA1D1GKPA61
Oh wow. How old is your daughter? I would try something like compression gloves to prevent nail biting or individual finger covers.
Fun and Function - Chewy Gloves - Kids Compression Gloves to Help Stop Thumb Sucking and Finger Biting - Sensory Chew Thumb Guard - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07FB3CYCF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_86N18Q1EF5Q3HE7669G8
I'd also try at the same time to replace the behavior by offering her something like chewelry. something appropriate to bite on.
5 Pcs Chew Necklace for Girls Kids, Silicone Teething Necklace for Baby Chewelry for Girls, Unicorn Chewy Necklace Sensory Oral Motor Aids with Autism, ADHD, Teething, Oral Motor Special Needs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09CTM6F5Y/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_TE9042X7NNSEMTEKP2Z7?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
We have achildproof lock on our front door in case of that since our deadbolt is very easy to open.
There's this spinner stacking toy that both my NT and ND kid go crazy for. Fat Brain Toys SpinAgain Kids Stacking Toy https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B016F5QJQW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_FXJEGNX3GNPCARYVQ8KF?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
At 2 my son loved any cause and effect toy. The best toy my son got at that age was this
https://www.amazon.com/LeapFrog-Fridge-Phonics-Magnetic-Letter/dp/B00JLHVX36
I credit it for helping my son learn his alphabet quickly
You may have seen them but they make these swim short contraptions, I guess they’re called jammers. My daughter’s swim school recommended them to me before she was potty trained.
Splash About Toddler Jammers, Shark Orange 3-4 Years https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071942WK8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_0E8ASYHF18JN3K7R4ZPN?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
My little guy got into letters at 2.5 and still is. These are some of his favorites and they are actually a favorite toy in our house with his siblings and older kids that come over too. BleuZoo Alphabet Robots Action Figure Alpha-Bots Educational ABC Letters Preschool Learning Stem Montessori Classroom Teaching Toy for Kids Toddlers - 26 Pieces https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07L2H1N9K/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_FYGDJBGK997QFSXJQV0B?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Same, but I think there are versions with bigger balls/pieces like this one that my son is still into at age 4.5 that are safer for people with little babies or kiddos that put things in their mouths
My son is a sensory seeker as well.
He loves his vestibular system stimulated as well as touching wet or soft and things with texture.
We got him this swing for his room. He loves to reset in it with his favorite blankets and then sometimes just pushing himself off his wall.
We do sink time for water. Shaving cream, walmart brand is cheap and well put it either in sink or on a cookie sheet for him to smear around.
He loves rice or beans.
We also bought a cheap tent on amazon and filled it with sand. So a contained sandbox which also gives him a little escape if he needs it. But mainly just loves playing in it.
Not much but he used to like to smoosh on a yoga ball. The big inflatable kind.
Looks like people added some great links. Im going to check them out. But if your son may have tough moments a sensory activity can snap mine right back.
TURFEE 40" Rainbow Saucer Tree Swing for Kids, Waterproof Swing Seat with 2 Tree Hanging Straps for Playground Backyard Outdoor Activity https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08XKBK5KF/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_MFBK8BVNXAYB2BNDXBTA?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I am seriously thinking on this one that I saw on tiktok for his birthday 🎂
My son loves chalk, bubbles, legos and other stacking toys. He also loves this: https://www.amazon.com/Toddlers-Stacking-Developmental-Learning-Montessori/dp/B08ZNW6R92/ref=mp_s_a_1_2_sspa?crid=15QI7Y3FZV7Y&keywords=ball+hammer+toy&qid=1650221318&sprefix=ball+hammer+%2Caps%2C134&sr=8-2-spons&psc=1&spLa....
roll on sunscreen was a hit with my little one. I combined this with spf cloths and hats.
Here is the link if you are interested:
Project Sunscreen Roll-On SPF 50 Sun Protection for Babies - Natural Mineral Based and Water Resistant Formula For Sensitive Skin - 3 Ounce, Handprint https://www.amazon.com/dp/B082XFKPG8/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_ZXQQG7BVPZPNB0G63BAM
My son is also 4 and he is obsessed with marble runs currently (like this one: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B08CWCMSHM) and anything marble like, such as water beads.
my son (also 4) is obsessed with slime right now. We bought slime (link below) a few months ago and every week we open up a new container of it. The stuff dries out pretty quickly https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01N4VBAXM/
How about a hanging chair or swing? We have this one https://www.amazon.com/Y-STOP-Hammock-Inflatable-Hanging/dp/B08PBMN2MH/ but others do a better job of "hugging"
Essentially - see if they can get a hug or pressure from something else.
I live with my 4 year old who has autism and a 70 year old man with Parkinson's disease and they have worked WONDERFULLY.
I bought the little canister that you can keep them in as well. And it’s on my key chain. Which comes in handy when he starts screaming in the car while I’m driving.
Vibes Keychain Carrying Case for Earplugs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Z6MH17M/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_5C50TAD3NR110S1189X8?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
They were sold out on the site but on Amazon they have both together.
Vibes High-Fidelity Earplugs - Invisible Ear Plugs for Concerts, Musicians, Motorcycles, Airplanes, Raves, Work Noise Reduction, Hearing Protection - Fits Small Medium Large - As Seen On Shark Tank https://www.amazon.com/dp/B018WPOQSG/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_HDJV7M4KYW2T67K77T75
We use a straw cup (the take-and-toss) with these silicone straws. They hold up pretty well, but maybe not with a super-aggressive chewer. We also have some metal straws we use when he's chewing too much. My son really never got the hang of the 360, but straw cups he took to quickly.
Skip the sippy cup. Our Speech therapist recomend we used 2 Pack Honey Bear Straw Cups it is better for speech development. The straws are very resistant, my son had similar chewing habits as your kid. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07X9S4973/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_GRME2EPY6V60067GYW33
My toddler hates change but we make it fun by shooting water let him squeeze it and he was super happy. Messy but efective.
Skip the sippy cup. Our Speech therapist recomend we used 2 Pack Honey Bear Straw Cups it is better for speech development. The straws are very resistant, my son had similar chewing habits as your kid. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07X9S4973/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_GRME2EPY6V60067GYW33
mMy toddler hates change but we make it fun by shooting water let him squeeze it and he was super happy. Messy but efective.
This is a short-term solution, but what about a couple packs of word magnets? Being able to pick up and manipulate the words without having to write them could be really fun for him, and help him play with things like sentence structure and phrasing.
Is this the book? I found it on Amazon for 5.33. just wanted to double check first.
The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children https://smile.amazon.com/dp/0060931027/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_VT3HKNK0M9K6PE9BM18Z
My son was terrified of bathing and it took a lot of painful forced bathing before we gave up on it and only dunked him once every week or two. He eventually became curious of the shower, but was afraid of the water spray and would run away if we tried to shower him. The basin of the shower is only a couple inches deep, so I got a handheld shower head and a big flat sink stopper (idk the real name) and got down on the floor and started filling the basin up. He got curious about what I was doing, so I showed him how I controlled the water and got a spare shower holder so I could have it act as a shower at his height, not way up at the top like the adults need it. I turned the shower off and splashed the water in the basin. The water didn’t go near him, just me sitting on the floor outside the shower splashing water. I asked if he wanted to splash, and he slowly touched the water and pulled his hand back. The next time he put his whole hand in the water. I showed him how he can put a wash rag in the water and pick it up so the water falls back into the basin. I let him do it. Eventually he put a foot in. It took a long time and small baby steps, but he now asks to plug up the basin of the shower and play in the water. The bathtub was too big and too deep, and the big shower was too scary, but he will finally bathe without a fight in an inch of water in the basin of the shower. It took months and a lot of crying (me, mostly) but letting go of how bathing was supposed to be done helped to figure out how it can be done.
This is the shower thingy that helped move the shower head/hose down to kid height.
And try not to feel like a bad or mean parent. It’s hard finding what works for neurodivergent kids. It’s even harder in some ways as a neurodivergent adult.
We got this for our kid. He LOVES it. It beeps and goes around when you hit start. I put a newborn onesie in it. You could also put marbles or puffs or whatever.
My kid likes most spinning things, including toddler fidget spinners. He also loves timers, things that count down.
We had cats when my daughter was born, so I can't speak to that part of the question, but as for how it went...
When she was a baby she was OBSESSED with them. A cat would walk through the room and her eyes would get big, her mouth would open wide, arms out - just sheer "excited baby." It was adorable. My old man cat would flop down near her and tolerate it while she grabbed at his tail and tried to get it into her mouth, while the younger cats steered clear of her.
Now that she's older, it's pretty clear that animals are her special interest. She wants to be pet the cats and be their friend (sometimes chasing them down, which is counterproductive) but she also wants to boss them around and chase them out of places, and so the cats continue to steer clear of her. They've never lashed out at her, though. My old man cat passed on two years ago at age 20; she deals with his passing by giving him a very adventurous ghost cat afterlife. At one point he'd dyed his ghost fur purple and adopted a flamingo.
If you manage your kid's expectations, teach them good pet manners - pet them gently, don't chase the cat or get up in its face, etc. - and prepare them, I'd think it'd go well. I mean, all cats are on the autism spectrum; the cat's needs for space and socializing on their own terms ought to be relatable, though not all five-year-olds are going to get it.
Our toddler is 2.5, and when we switched out of the crib we didn't want him just getting up and down all night. We bought this play pen and put a queen size mattress in it. It kept him contained, but had more space.
I'd go back to the crib, honestly. My daughter's sleep habits took a giant nosedive when we moved her to a big kid bed, mostly because she realized she could follow us and make us stay with her until she was actually unconscious. If we tried to leave when she was drowsy she'd pop up, bail out of the bed, cling to your leg, the works. She went from falling asleep on her own in the crib by like 8:00 to insisting a parent stay with her until she was fully asleep, at 8:30, 9:00.... we're lucky if she's asleep by 10:30 these days.
Setting that aside, we did take off the side of her crib and then a few months later move her into a twin - because SHE had requested a "cool bed," thanks to the Cocomelon video about the youngest moving into a new bed, and the book Big Kid Bed. We did also put an Ikea tent thing over it so has her own little space, which might have helped, but I think the books and song were the biggest factor.
Poor guy! My kids are awful with taking medicine. They’re super strong and stubborn. There is no way to force them. They are hyper aware and can taste the meds in nearly anything.
The only thing that works is getting the most artificially colored/flavored juice we can find and pair it with a similar flavor/color of medicine. We use V8 Splash or Tampico tropical punch. Mix the fruity medicine with 4 oz of juice and stick a straw in it. They slurp it down fast! I never buy those sugary drinks, so they have no idea that anything has been added.
We just did amoxicillin with two of the kiddos. The V8 Splash Berry Blend did a great job masking the taste. My kids were eager to get their medicine juice cocktail. It was a treat for them.
Ear infections are really tricky. My kiddos have a high pain tolerance, they can’t communicate that their ear hurts, and they never show the typical signs (ear pulling). I got a scope from Amazon so I can check their ears when they’re sick and take them in as soon as we see signs of infection. It’s been a lifesaver to be able to gauge how sick they are and how soon they need to get in.
Dr. Mom Otoscopes- 4th Generation LED POCKET Dr. Mom Otoscopes and both Adult and Pediatric Disposable Specula Tips and Protective Hard Plastic Case https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AJDZJCW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_751H49GRX2CMVRW5W071?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I hope he feels better soon!
Poor guy! We just did amoxicillin with two of the kiddos. The V8 Splash Berry Blend did a great job masking the taste. My kids were eager to get their medicine juice cocktail. It was a treat for them.
Ear infections are really tricky. My kiddos have a high pain tolerance, they can’t communicate that their ear hurts, and they never show the typical signs (ear pulling). I got a scope from Amazon so I can check their ears when they’re sick and take them in as soon as we see signs of infection. It’s been a lifesaver to be able to gauge how sick they are and how soon they need to get in.
Dr. Mom Otoscopes- 4th Generation LED POCKET Dr. Mom Otoscopes and both Adult and Pediatric Disposable Specula Tips and Protective Hard Plastic Case https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00AJDZJCW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_751H49GRX2CMVRW5W071?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
We've been doing ESDM with our son at home and it has helped tremendously. The books that we have read and found helpful:
Of course!
YUCAN Hammock Chair Stand with Hanging Swing Chair Included,Weather Resistant and Saving Space Stand Max 450 Lbs, Quality Cotton Weave Wrap Whole Body https://www.amazon.com/dp/B092J129S1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_qoqXfUWeQifRA
My son unscrewed the nuts pretty quickly so my husband bought lock nuts which can only be unscrewed with a wrench. Also, the swing hung a little high, so we bought hardware to make it hang a few inches lower.
Yes, I bought this one: https://www.amazon.com/Melissa-Doug-Mickey-Wooden-Skills/dp/B00P2SLC3O. That button is hard, too! Maybe this week we will actually try totally taking the zipper completely apart, the sky is the limit :).
Please look into Biomedical. Don't listen to other who have not tried it and simply say neurodiversity.
Read the book, "I know you're in there" Find a good MAPS doctor and start the good fight.
https://www.amazon.com/Know-Youre-There-Winning-Against/dp/1510748253
It sounds like maybe a challenge with transitions. Have a daily schedule with set times where a choice to play on the iPad can be made. My five year old now organizes his own schedule. We give multiple timers and sometimes extra reminders are needed.
You may also want to consider a few different games - like Fortnite could be an option but so can Khan Academy or something else also educational (I am reading a lot about how Minecraft actually builds coding and creative skills).
You may also want to consider brainstorming with child and asking them, “I noticed when you are playing and it’s time to end it’s a hard time. What’s going on?” You may find some answers that are helpful like a tough day at school, not enough feee time (from their ping of view) or curiosity of how games work. From there maybe brainstorm with child on how to transition better.
Here is an example of a daily schedule tool:
SchKIDules Visual Schedule For Kids 153 Pc Deluxe Magnet Collection Box Set 132 Magnetic Activity Icons & 21 Headings For Home, School, Preschool, Special Needs (Great for Toddlers, Children & Autism) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01B3GQNP0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_RA2S5ZVKS82SE6SHNK59
It's $150 but it's worth it! My wife used to use regular nail clippers at night to trim my son's nails now we use this thing, Pros : it's quiet, rechargeable, you can't cut anything but nail so that's great for safety. Cons: price and size (light but ob the bigger side)
ClipDifferent Pro - Electric Automatic Fingernail Clipper - Safe, Adaptive, Mess-Free, Lifetime Solution - Simple to Operate, Great for Caregivers, Veterans, Children, Medical and Care Communities https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07H5RSJFK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_HGEN3C2Z0E5ZZK8CJ15T?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I would rather have him wear a shirt that's kind of like this https://www.amazon.com/Flappy-Happy-Funny-Autism-T-Shirt/dp/B079RH7TX4
Doesn't directly say his condition, those who are well informed will get it, those who aren't would kind of understand? TBH, I think those shirts you posted are really cheesy.
You gotta learn to take it easy. A lot of people are ignorant. It's life. If someone says something along the lines of "you should spank him, learn how to control him" either ignore it or tell them to mind their own business. Enjoy your time with your family also, your son is going to hear comments no matter what, it's inevitable, you can't shelter him his whole life. You have to teach him how to get through it.
I recommend you the Samsung Galaxy Tab A7 10.4'' (not the lite one), and its veryyy important to buy a very good case, this is the one that I use https://www.amazon.es/dp/B08JLDPYJT/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_JSTFN5VR2PTBEXQ8JGMX
Look at pre-school aged toys. Toys that have any kind of guided play is helpful. Like this button art has templates to follow.
Alex Discover Button Art Activity Set Kids Art and Craft Activity https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003AP4JPE/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_CSFBPE2CVGE4FZ5MPSG4?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I keep a whole list on Amazon of my favorite educational toys:
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/DHGPRGUGCAWP?ref_=wl_share
They sell a sort of cling film that covers the windows. We got some off amazon and walmart sells it too. You could try that? You might have to put it on the otherside of the window if he peels it off though.
How about this?
Also maybe ask the front desk if an alarm is okay? Maybe mention him having special needs a bit and needing to be accommodated. They also could have a suggestion?
Yep my son figured those ones out to. The only luck I've had is with the top frame locks, but those have to be screwed in. Is there not a safety latch on the hotel door?
Maybe a portable safety latch?
Limited-time deal: Portable Door Lock Home Security Door Locker Travel Lockdown Locks for Additional Safety and Privacy Perfect for Traveling Hotel Home Apartment College https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08L7DNXT9/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_dl_JXT87GT39P6SCGFBF7N9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I know how you feel! Yes, it’s the worse feeling ever! alarm This is a very easy to use alarm and my child HATES the sound of it. I used in hotels and I could finally sleep well. Order those for extra safety! He will probably outgrow mama!
I've heard the 'travel door alarms' work well for this. I know how you feel. The one time we took our older kid on a trip, I did not sleep well at all. She has no diagnosis but she was an eloper too. I wish I'd had one of these:
https://smile.amazon.com/Prime-Line-4180-Door-Lock-Out-Device/dp/B00BOZBDK6?ref_=ast_sto_dp
You may be able to get delivery overnight, mine was showing I could.
Also as a side note I got a waffle maker that makes 4 square waffles at a time because my son won't eat the rounded corner parts so it kills two birds with one stone. The waffle maker: Hamilton Beach 26020C 4-Slice Belgian Waffle Maker, Black and Stainless Steel https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B005F4YP9I/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_TV19J6JCRHDE1REWFEQD?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
The hand mixer:
Oster Detachable Hand Blender with Blending Cup, White - 2611-33 https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0048BPWLO/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_85J4CEVKBDTTZ849EW39