Get a metal donut stretcher with an alan key lock. Don't buy magnetic
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B076MPP3PT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_zzEyFbSH6QPRE
^ These are good mass produced ones that you can get on Amazon (or a Chinese eBay alternative if they run out)
You can wear them during the day under your clothes and after a few hours you don't even realize it's there. If you don't want to use it during the day because you feel wrong it helped me to think of it as jewelery. It's up to you but it will feel right pretty quick
Once you get used to walking/the sensation you can have them on all day even when you sleep. It's up to you (and what turns you on) if you take them off in the shower but that's what most people here do at least once daily.
With those donut rings you may want another depending on how close your sack is, you want it to hang down your crack(to some extent).It takes one ring to get enough distance from your dick so that it can hang and an extra ring to make it hang
Don't push yourself though. Slow and steady is the key, you don't want go ham, bruise something and be forced to take a break
Also, undies are pointless
3d printed adjustable ballstretcher designed by me.
https://cults3d.com/en/3d-model/naughties/adjustable-ballstretcher-marcellus
Amazon actually! Look up “men’s leather wristband” they’re a hell of a lot cheaper than adult store stretchers. Better quality too. GelConnie Leather Cuff Bracelet Punk Braided Bracelets Rock Leather Wristbands Gothic Adjustable Wrap Bracelet for Men, Women https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077TQHTB6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_V5YJ2C8VSFHJBQX18CMP
I wasn't expecting it at all, but now I can't wait for it to happen again. I assume it'll only happen when unexpected, so I'm trying to lower my expectations. I really like the leaking feeling too, so I'm happy with that if that is all I get going forward.
I've got a couple of different stretchers. They're all steel, since I like the weight. I've played with them for about ten years, but went 24/7 a couple of weeks ago.
The ones I'm wearing lately (and in all my pics here) are from Amazon. The style takes some getting used to, but I like that they can't fall off and they're easy to put on and remove (no tools). With a little lotion, I can put it on in about five seconds. And they also push the balls forward, so they do nice things for my bulge 😉 I can wear two of these without anyone noticing (except me), but three really start to show depending on what I'm wearing. I'm going to try going up to four on the weekend and see how that feels.
I don't want anything extreme in terms of length, just something looser, since my nuts are usually pulled up tight to my cock. Even one ring keeps them from moving up and gives me what I want for daily wear.
I do not recommend it though. It hurts, making it impossible to stack
I'm sold, but just not finding this same model on Amazon or Lovehoney. On the ones I'm finding, the ball divider is thinner silicone and getting bad reviews.
Another suggestion I'll add, look for at least 6mm (1/4 in) thickness, or more. Wider rings are more comfortable to wear, at least in my opinion.
Example: MarineNow Stainless Steel Round Ring 316 Marine Grade https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01K63VXLK/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_ZN265MMEP1BEXH325G05?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Up until today I have been working with disposable hand warmers lol. When the idea dawned on me the other day it was like 💡💡💡
After a few minutes of research I went with these and so far I couldn't be happier.
GRAPHENE Rechargeable Heated Socks With Portable Battery 3.7v 4000mah last 5-12 Hours https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09B3SKGRL/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_HHWHG7X4K63ZYR02EGBW?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Male Oval Ball Stretcher Weight Stainless Steel Men Penis Ring Ball Stretchering Chastity Ring (Inner Size 44x24mm, Weight 14.1OZ) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08R2NPHZQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_SAP088WSWAB08S6D1ZRJ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
It is a 34 inside diameter. Wanting to try something single and heavier. The purchase spec’s listed it as a 29id. Wearing a 30id I thought I could make it work.
Stainless Steel Heavy Locking... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071NPT8NR?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Male Oval Ball Stretcher Weight Stainless Steel Men Penis Ring Ball Stretchering Chastity Ring (Inner Size 44x24mm, Weight 14.1OZ) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08R2NPHZQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_SAP088WSWAB08S6D1ZRJ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Stainless Steel Heavy Locking Ball Testicle Scrotum Stretcher with Allen Key - (60mm Height / 2 LB Weight) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071NPT8NR/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_AE105GZ84D3JGRQXSD3V?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Male Oval Ball Stretcher Weight Stainless Steel Men Penis Ring Ball Stretchering Chastity Ring (Inner Size 44x24mm, Weight 14.1OZ) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08R2NPHZQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_VN1XKWAJVA7VSJ3CFNV5?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
You could try an alternative from amazon. I can't personally vouch for this option but it looks like it would be just as good as any other ball-weight.
Hamineler 20 PCS Smooth Welded 304 Stainless Steel O-Ring Welded Round Rings for Camping Belt, Dog Leashes, Luggage Accessories (4mm×35mm ID) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B095HW9X15/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_DRJ6JP5D0KM0QVGNGP2B?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I got em on Amazon. And yeah, I will when I have time. In the meantime here’s the link
Hamineler 20 PCS Smooth Welded 304 Stainless Steel O-Ring Welded Round Rings for Camping Belt, Dog Leashes, Luggage Accessories (4mm×35mm ID) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B095HW9X15/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_DRJ6JP5D0KM0QVGNGP2B?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Climax Part 2C-150, Mild Steel, Black Oxide Plating, Clamping Collar, 1 1/2 inch bore, 2 3/8 inch OD, 9/16 inch Width, 1/4-28 x 3/4" Clamp Screw https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00207ULIC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_2FRVCTM0EF1NR572TGF1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00CHOGMI6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glc_fabc_NJ19WEV7DMYEZKC8P75Y
This is what I'm using. It's 7$ less than 2 of the shea butter, and double the amount too.
But do you and we'll both have healthy, stretched balls
Try this out below your hardware. I use them and they work well to increase comfort.
These are similar to what I got. Just pulled off the clips. They seemed too small/tight, but with some cocoa butter, warm temps, and patience I got the first one on. Add the lubricant then pull one side of your scrotal skin through the ring then orient and push through the first testicle. Getting the second one through can be pretty difficult, but pull more skin through and orient the testicle to fit and push it through. Once you get the first ring on, it gets easier to put through the next. I just kept going, adding more cocoa butter to each ring, slowly adding them. I stopped when it felt like my skin was getting a bit too tight - don't want to get into a position that I can't remove them. But when they do come off, it will be the same, but reverse - one testicle at a time. Let me know if you have any more questions.
Get a metal donut stretcher with an alan key lock. Don't buy magnetic
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B076MPP3PT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_zzEyFbSH6QPRE
^ These are good mass produced ones that you can get on Amazon (or a Chinese eBay alternative if they run out) there are a lot of others if you search for "metal ball stretcher".
You can wear them during the day under your clothes and after a few hours you don't even realize it's there. If you don't want to use it during the day because you feel wrong it helped me to think of it as jewelery. It's up to you but it will feel right pretty quick
Once you get used to walking/the sensation you can have them on all day even when you sleep. It's up to you (and what turns you on) if you take them off in the shower but that's what most people here do at least once daily.
With those donut rings you may want another depending on how close your sack is, you want it to hang down your crack(to some extent).It takes one ring to get enough distance from your dick so that it can hang and an extra ring to make it hang
Don't push yourself though. Slow and steady is the key, you don't want go ham, bruise something and be forced to take a break
Also, undies are pointless. Unless they have started to rip in the middle enough for your sack. Even then it's not as good as just wearing a single sock around your whole stack for drip collection
Just starting on my ball stretching journey . But I was in the same position as you as to I didn’t want anybody finding my package and opening it . Well I found a very nice item on amazon with is a metal collar of some sort and it work perfectly . Maybe they sell them in local hardware stores ? Or if you have amazon it’s possible to get it delivered to a Dropbox and a near by location and that way it doesn’t go directly to your house. That’s what I did for my self. Here’s the link .... Climax Part 2C-150, Mild Steel,... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00207ULIC?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
They’re solid 1.75” cock rings from Amazon. Very smooth and highly polished for under $12 each.
FST Stainless Steel Cock Ring Male Delaying Ejaculation Penis Ring, 1.75'' https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MY80QPK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_JfTcEbBD4J8NZ
They’re a bitch to get on, but they’re a lot more comfortable for extended wear than any of the split rings I’ve tried. Same for silicone rings, which have all been too small for my fat sack! LOL
Metal weights stretch at like 3x the speed. Keep up the work man
Also this is what I suggested putting at the bottom
I'm so tempted to get a PA. Just so I can chain it to my bottom weight, thinking about it it would probably end up messing something up or tearing a pearcing but a man can dream
You should get some weights instead of stretchers. You have no idea yet man, can even sleep in em. Here's some cheap Amazon ones, find them on eBay too
Keep it up
You can get good weights for $17 on Amazon btw
This subreddit is pretty inactive but maybe r/balls can help
I started about three weeks ago with an Oxballs Squeeze - soft, flexible and a tight enough grip to give a nice stretch. I’m now using some stainless steel stretchers and weights... a bit more awkward to get on initially but the feel of the weight is just so good! A combination of both the metal and Oxballs works well too ��