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Remember the book I suggested for you? There is the link again...

That some/a lot/any women follow this content is a weak defense of the content. I'd argue many of the others referenced are different points on the same slope for their perpetuation of views.

Try to go deeper in understanding this stuff if you want to get out of your cycles. Don't let what's popular by any third party -- including any of us -- dictate your own assessments. But actually make your own assessments. Don't play ostrich and be passive. You can't.

It is 100% okay to enjoy lower brow, high brow, black, blue -- pretty much any -- humor.

Where lines gets drawn, however, is if something passes your own personal inbounds/out-of-bounds limits. Where are your thresholds? Did you set them yourself? Or were they assigned to you and you went along with it? How aware of them are you?

You gotta not be passive in your life if you want to grow.

That's what UnPleasantStuff is asking is:

> "Steven...are you saying this [A New Untold Story] quote is inbounds for you? And if inbounds, why do you think it is healthy for you or not?"

That's the question on the table: What's your take on A New Untold Story's editorial policies? And how do you think those policies support or hinder you?

For anyone scrolling, a terrific read which articulates the ins-and-outs of this idea, and how certain groups are incentivized to behave (or not behave) a particular way:

https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084

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And if you really want to do some work on yourself, pick up a copy of Dale Carnegie's "How To Win Friends And Influence People". This was never a flippant suggestion. Your rejection of proven resources holds you back.

And unlike people, you can't insult a book. You can read and re-read it anytime.

This is a classic for good reason. I first read it in high school, when I was awkward and didn't have anyone to talk to, or rather didn't know how to talk to them. A trusted teacher suggested it. I wonder what your high school experience would have been like had you done the same.

Books give you access to influences beyond whatever your immediate environment is.

I'm going to do my best to step away for a bit. You've getting lots of good guidance from others. The next step is for you to actually take some of it.

Building credit and having a job are different.

If you're curious about building a credit history, just start a post, be willing to take coaching, and I can walk you through the steps.

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As for "what companies want"...companies are always looking for good sales people. And a good sales person can sell anything.

Someone who is commission only for 7 year and has great metrics, they can transition fairly easily after reading up on the next product they need to sell. Some products require more specialize knowledge.

But if you can't sell yourself to a company without a degree, you won't be able to sell yourself with a degree.

What makes a good sales person?

1. They thoroughly understand the deal and value proposition from all sides.
2. Empathy and charisma.

Have you picked up a copy of this yet? A used copy costs less than a pint at the bar. I still think it will help you.

>How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Get someone more knowledgeable than me, but I do know "not all fruits are equal" when it comes to managing blood sugar and/or considering weight loss.

Has to do with how the body processes sugar and fiber.

The Inspector is dead-on when it comes to juices and sodas.

Here is movie that helped change the way I look at sugar in general. You can probably find it somewhere online if you don't have Amazon Prime. https://www.amazon.com/That-Sugar-Film/dp/B010I4O6ZW