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https://www.powerthesaurus.org/fuck/sound_like
Add an accent and tada! Do it for all the curses and really bring out the inner sailor. But I'm also a masochist 😅
If you're not trying to creatively push buttons and just trying to find loop holes go with other gross words like moist! Make him wish you still used boring curse words 😈
It's called Obedience! I know it's on the Google play store for Android phones, if you're looking for iPhones Idk if its there myself for certain (I'd think it is?) but search Obedience Habit Tracker
It's really fun + useful, one of my main tasks is my daily meds so it's so helpful for that. Heads up that both you + a partner need the app on each of your phones! Can also have multiple partners on the app.
Nope, that's probably 12 cups and/or one pot. But... As long as Daddy ain't giving directions in ounces or milliliters, you can always find a bigger coffee cup to drink out of. Lol.
For instance... Here's one that is 11x9 inches. :)
Lmao NOPE! They’re the black clover nipple clamps, basically LETHAL
Black Japanese Clover Clamps https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002FKLGW4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_DF255HDSGG1BZJVQ8Z2F
Here’s a link to them there is no loosening mechanism
sounds like your smile is just lopsided and you look like you're smirking but you're really not. They should understand that and try to help you out instead of punishing you. Obviously the best help they can offer is to work with you to make your smile not lopsided any more, to avoid future confusion. Practicing with one of these should help. Maybe start at half an hour a day and increase time until the issue is fixed.
You can read The Brat Diaries from one of our very own members here, Letti Lustcraft. https://www.amazon.com/Brat-Diaries-Letti-Lustcraft-ebook/dp/B09VZSDN7D I would tag her but I can't remember her exact tag off the top of my head. She is an excellent writer and includes essays from both her perspective as the brat and her Dom's perspective.
I have written some erotica posted on Reddit from the brat's perspective. You should be able to find that from my past posts. I'm also working on completing a non-fiction brat taming guidebook that I'll publish on Kindle (this has taken me way longer than planned due to a major injury last year but I AM still working on it) and am working on a new erotic romance series told from the perspectives of both Doms and brats. Those will also be on Kindle. I'm hoping to publish the first one of that series in the next couple months.
And I think that's awesome that you're putting in the work and research. I hope you and your brat have all the kinky fun! =)
I think asking for ideas is a great sign.
I highly recommend this book. I'm not a top, but I learned a lot from it. Anton makes consent sexy, and gives great beginner tips.
https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Dominance-practicing-consensual-dominance-ebook/dp/B01F8C7L2Y
I'd also recommend talking with brats who are willing to talk with you, who aren't your brats. Don't make them feel like they are under a microscope, but talk to them about what they like and don't like and it'll help you figure out what you do and don't like. Go to a munch or a club and observe brat/tamer dynamic.
I self identify as a brat but some of the things people do here horrify me because I'm not that kind of brat (specifically: glitter) - and any dynamic has at least two people in it. So what you like may end up being informed by what your partners like. Some of what we like is deeply set. Some of what we like can be changed by who we are with.
I do think it's better to start small. Brats love loopholes, and follow-through, so if you list 100 rules, that's too much work for you. When you meet someone to play with start with just a single rule and see how it goes and build on that. And maybe you'll find someone who wants to be a brat for a day, or an hour, and you can try it all on for size.
Don't be too hard on yourself for your low self esteem. Most people have low self esteem, for at least part of their lives, and they just act on it in different ways.
Not necessarily a BDSM app, but you can be logged into on multiple devices and it updates within a few minutes of revision. I believe it's on Android, Apple, and Windows but I'm not 100%.
You can have different notebooks for different things and have cute/sexy covers for each notebook.
Also you can add a specific notebook to say your feelings about each punishment, reward, and session for your partner to read. Write down what you liked, and what you didn't like, and maybe go back to it later.
Example:
Punishment: Spanking (paddle) 09/01/22
I liked the sound it made on impact, however I feel like it wasn't that intense. I would prefer a more intense/harder approach with this punishment.
09/07/22: this time was perfect. I feel like it wasn't too hard, or too soft. I appreciate that my partner took the time to read, and adjust.
I personally like to keep a journal of things, but it's not everyone's cup of tea.
There are a couple of topics here, so I’ll give my hot take on them separately.
First, I think my good girl would be very upset if I didn’t choke her and bruise her regularly. I rarely feel any guilt because I trust her to signal safe if need be. Assuming you’re also using safe signals, my advice is to trust her. Without that trust, how can you really feel free and creative in your sadism? She will let you know if you need to stop - and as long as you do, you shouldn’t feel guilty. Nobody should ever feel bad for calling red.
Your aftercare game is strong. Good work.
On stealth punishments - you’re spot on with self-improvement. Anything that models healthy behavior is great. I’ve been thinking of buying one of these to use for device timeouts for u/BratShitCrazy: https://www.amazon.com/Kitchen-Safe-Locking-Container-Height/dp/B00E9J3MLM/
I feel like sneaky brating is the way to go so the sweetness doesn’t leave you stunned. So pranks n pranks n pranks.
DECORA 800 Pieces Wiggle Googly Eyes with Self-adhesive
If he uses bar soap instead of liquid then coat it heavily in clear nail polish. He won’t be able to get it to lather up and it’ll drive him crazy trying to figure out why.
Get a hold of his phone and change the settings in text replacement, take a word that he regularly uses for you when you’re being bad and change it to something that praises you in a completely over the top way. Like “whore” turns to “my exalted and infallible goddess”.
Amazon! I still don't know how this randomly showed up on my Amazon searches, but I'm not disappointed :).
if you're willing to read, I found this book very helpful. He's on FetLife and is a feminist and a top and I admire that combination a lot
https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Dominance-practicing-consensual-dominance-ebook/dp/B01F8C7L2Y/
Bondage Coloring Book: 55 Beautiful BDSM Scenes for Adult Coloring
I bought it on Amazon. We’re in the UK, so here’s the UK Amazon link.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Bondage-Coloring-Book-Beautiful-Scenes/dp/1795423323
u/OuttaMyMynd has linked the US Amazon link above.
I bought it on Amazon. We’re in the UK, so here’s the UK Amazon link.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Bondage-Coloring-Book-Beautiful-Scenes/dp/1795423323
u/OuttaMyMynd has linked the US Amazon link above.
Oof that’s a hard one… you’re not allowed to “talk to each other”
Ok I got one maybe it falls in between the lines… can you send him like a leaf or something stupid through the mail… lmao… do you have their address.. or like send something stupid off Amazon lol.
Like something like this https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06X3WTF3S/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_V71D88RT1M83FPP7EKEZ
Either that or do you have someone who can text back for you.. idk just something that you’re not directly responding/talking to him lmao
If I think of something better I’ll respond again 😂
Here's the link for it on Amazon. POPDOTS Confetti Pop Up Card Bomb, Surprise Prank Card for Birthday, Anniversary, Party, Graduation, White Elephant. Pop dots (Thank You), 3.4''x5.5''x0.4'' https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09HTP2DKV/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_HFHX2D28GFPT6CQE76S2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I also bought this! 😂 POPDOTS Confetti Pop Up Card Bomb, Surprise Prank Card for Birthday, Anniversary, Party, Graduation, White Elephant. Pop dots (Thank You), 3.4''x5.5''x0.4'' https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09HTP2DKV/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_8PC5ZJMVGV7YJF958QVN?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Stick a pacifier in your sub’s mouth. This way he can’t argue or fight for control; with an added humiliation factor.
https://www.amazon.com/CHICTRY-Novelty-Pacifier-Bachelorette-Single/dp/B07PYVG6BV
If you want to write a strongly worded letter with glitter, this may help you 😁
We have used Auto Flogger Whip Attachment for Drills which can also be hand made at home or attached to fucking machines (on stands) so if your sub is tied up and restrained, its a hands free flogging.
I like it but you get around 30 minutes before the power level decreases and it will start cutting off around 45 minutes in. It's wicked powerful though!
Every Dom is required to get a manual (not that some Doms read them). In it, after all the important safety chapters, is a chapter on The Voice™. If you're interested you can pick it up on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B079Y1J6J2/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_RQD77JG9NNFMWEZEJDQE
I have this app from the Google Play store. The app lets you take any image and turn it into a sticker. Then you can add it to Whatsapp as a custom sticker pack. 🥰💞
That can be easily arranged.
Using all the Big Bray Energy and a little DIY.
step 1: buy a generic drill from Home Depot or similar place.
step 2: Either buy an "Auto flogger from amazon" or make a DIY version (be careful)
step 3: Profit? or get spanked!
For more intricate/homemade solutions, ask r /BdsmDiy
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Depending on your relationship status (if partnered, but long distance) or (un-partnered, and long distance) it could be rigged to be controlled remotely via an app or just on a video call with anyone you wish to tell you how to administer the flogging.
Strap this to his inner thigh. It will take the wind out of his sails for sure. Just be sure to test it on yourself first so you know what you’re hitting him with.
I present to you... The ancient art of tying up a moving target.
https://etsy.me/34xTauz the necklace
Heart Shape Padlock, 2 Pcs Silver Mini Heart-Shaped Padlock Key Metal Lock for Luggage Diary Book Jewelry Box https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GXFP379/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_5DBXM7X7JHM1P48ZF4ER heart lock
World's Smallest Piggy Bank Squishy Soft Novelty Party Vending Toys - 100 Pieces https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FCR3JDX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_94DW4TR4EGKNZZS9FC5F
Get these and slowly place them in places it will take him a while to find! See how long it takes him to notice and how many you can plant until 1) he notices and 2) until he tells you to stop. If you run out of the 100, get more! They are small enough you can hide them anywhere and everywhere.
I'll just leave this here.... https://www.amazon.com/BIC-BodyMark-Temporary-Assorted-8-Count/dp/B07MMZ8Y1V (I'm sure he wouldn't mind an Owned tattoo) 😁
I have this filled with lube on my nightstand and it's a game changer Zipu Automatic Soap Dispenser,Touchless Soap Dispenser On/Off Switch Adjustable Electric Hand Sanitizer Dispenser,Suit for Home Kitchen Bathroom Hotel https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07W66JMSP/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_W3C0J1J8AC16PRX3Q39T?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Various, from my favorite paddle to a chain of large carabiners linked together... Not sure where those were from but we've gotten similar results from a chain he made...all skillfully applied, of course!
Uhmmm various, from my favorite paddle to a chain of large carabiners linked together... Not sure where those were from but we've gotten similar results from a chain he made
...or at least that wass my favorite until a new one he made from scratch that I don't have a pic of!
I mean there’s books about this:
https://www.amazon.de/dp/B08DRP6N2P/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_rJMjFbQCC31KF
But really it depends on what you guys are actually into. Need more information to give better suggestions.