Humans are sexual beings so it’s natural to want to do that, however satan is trying to get you to sin by tempting you with her. My advice is to avoid doing things that lead to that temptation. For example, if you kiss make sure it’s not in a private place like in a car or in a room because that will lead to sex. Don’t vacation together unless it’s with other people like family and make sure to book separate rooms. Try to plan dates early such as in the afternoon and end them in the evening. Don’t go into her home unless it’s to meet her family. This is how you flee sin.
Another point is that satan can only tempt you but he can’t make you do anything, the decision is always yours.
There is a book available on Amazon and apple books called BulletProof Dating, it’s a very good book about christian dating that will help you. Here is the link:
Bulletproof Dating: Shield your relationship against heartbreak https://www.amazon.com/dp/B089KWKCBT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_ZP52J5X5RYZB2JABNAXW
I'm sorry you're hurting. I know how much it can feel like the entire world isn't working right when we're heartbroken, and I pray that God will comfort you in this difficulty. Here are a few things to consider as well.
First, I would encourage you to read a book by C.S. Lewis called "The Problem of Pain". I read this after my dad passed away, and while it didn't make the pain go away, it did help to give me a different perspective on pain. It was really helpful, and I think it could be for you too. To (very briefly) sum it up, pain is a guardrail, it tells us where the boundaries in life are, and while it's unpleasant, it's often a sign that God is trying to keep us from the really bad things. You can learn from pain, if you can wrap your mind around a different perspective.
Second, if God didn't allow pain, then we would have no free will. Pain is the result of choices - ours or those made by others - that diverge from His will. But if He only ever allowed us to choose things that were in His will - and as a result, avoid pain - then we wouldn't really be free, would we?
Third, Scripture does not say that God will not give us more than we can handle. 1 Corinthians 10:13 is the often-cited justification for this belief, but it's also misquoted. It says that God will not allow us to be tempted beyond our ability, but also that He will give us a way of escape. This doesn't mean we'll never get more than we can handle, it means that when we're overwhelmed God will provide a way out. And the usual way? Relying on Him.
Again, I hope that God will help to mend your wounded heart and help you to rely on Him through this time.
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Yeah nope. I like good old fashioned DM and e-mail over that.