No. It's a cheapo off Amazon until my custom arrives in a few weeks. It's very similarly sized, but the bonus is that it's actually pretty neat. YiFeng Stainless Steel Male Chastity Cage Device Belt (36mm Ring) 197 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0759M3JRS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_rd22Cb3NB1NYP
TERNENCE Metal Male Chastity Device Small 304 Steel Stainless Comfortable Cock Cage Adult Game Sex Toy D250 (1.97 inch / 50mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F7X358F/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_9251XN9BG22YRB8MP9N1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 I have this one. In my defense, the one I bought might be a little too large for me (I thought I did the measurements right) , and I’m still kinda new at this whole thing.
It's actually a cheap cage from Amazon. It's either this one, or one very similar to this one: https://www.amazon.com/YiFeng-Electro-Chastity-Device-Bondage/dp/B01GCOQ1TQ
For as cheap as it is, it's very comfortable, and she has the option to install the e-stim pads for extra torture, which is always fun. :P
If you’re open to suggestions, try out this copycat Njoy prostate massager. It’s the only device I’ve been able to have a hands-free release from (and believe, I tried many things). And I frequently see it used on other chastity posts when guys want to stay locked but also get some relief.
It might be a happy medium for you if you want to stay locked this month.
Here from another site.
I only found the smaller model on Amazon.
Damn. Is silicone better? Like this one?
Should this one be avoided? https://imgur.com/RbX1SKx.jpg
I found it on amazon
I find XD rings more comfortable for long term wear. Also I use baby oil. This coconut and shea butter version works wonders for my skin.
You definitely need a smaller cage. I would recommend the one below. I've been using it for over a year and it is great.
TERNENCE Stainless Steel Small Male Chastity Device Ergonomic Design Stealth Lock for Adults Solitary Extreme Confinement Cage S050 (1.97 inch / 50mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GLB124Z/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_VFW8TC82EB03VA9VBAV8?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
A penis is never too small or too big for a cage.
Btw, I LOVE that small thing 😍. A cage like this would be perfect for you!
Well the first attempt was a major screw up on my part. I was too pushy with it and turned her off from it for several years. Eventually this book came out and we read it together and discussed it, which eventually she opened back up to the idea of it and we have been taking it slow since:
Chastity: A Guide for Vanilla Wives https://www.amazon.com/dp/B094D1CQKN/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_MBPYV3DGMXZBHSGV2YGA
First few rounds since we read that book, she's slowly taking a liking to it. I feel that this round, with it being focused on her needs and desires, makes her like it even more. That guide was really an eye opener to both of us and what we wanted.
Right now, I am looking forward to massaging her back and cuddling. She knows she's control of when we have sex, so it eliminates the expectation of sex. It's been a pretty good start. I have been taking notes on what her desires are and what she wants and have been working on that for the lock up period. It also makes it fun.
get a cheap standard or maxi sized resin cage that comes with multiple size rings because when you're first trying out it's going to take some trial and error even when doing all the measurements well.
i found this one comfortable in small, but had trained to get there. root around and find a maxi size if you thin theyre at all above average.
FYJENNICC V3 Chastity Device Cage Male Briefs Medical Grade Resin Breathable Men's Underwear(Purple,Stand) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B087QGW9MX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_Z0YSJ0FP4RN2NC3647C5?psc=1
It looks like the Oxballs Sackjack. Funnily enough I was just looking at their site this evening and recognised it!
Kinks, much like life flows like a river. You may or may not be into chastity forever--and that's okay.
As for the other guy, let him go. I highly recommend the book "Attached" about attachment theory.
Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love https://smile.amazon.com/dp/1529032172/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_H8F4RMPFA2YZCPKHY3W3
The blog link below gets into a 4th type, but people fall mostly into three relationship attachment types:
1. Anxious (about 25%)
2. Secure (about 50%)
3. Avoidant (about 25%)
And in the infinite chaos of human evolution, Anxious types and Avoidant types attempt relationships together at a far higher rate than what would seem responsible. It results in early conflict and the self-fulfilling prophecy that the anxious person is overly "needy" (for both the anxious and avoidant partner).
If you want to keep going with chastity, great! But it would be helpful to recognize a potential partner/keyholder with a secure attachment type.
ChicLSQ Belüftung Peniskäfig Keuschheitsgürtel Set mit 4 Cockringe Klein Keuschheit Keuschheitskäfig Mann Bondage Extrem für Männer Keuschheit Penis Käfig Schwarz (Gebogener Ring-S) https://www.amazon.de/dp/B08XJYLK8V/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_DK9SVNT2R393D4KMK2AG?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Much nicer than a string. It's perfect for keeping your cage snug to your body. It's so comfortable you forget it's there.
Aussiebum makes good jocks and jock briefs; sadly idk if you can still buy the thongs I wear but this is an option. IKINGSKY Men's Thong Underwear Soft Stretch T-Back Mens Underwear https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07TDXQ6MW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VG5EW6WVSQS5MMAKPSJZ
Mĕň's Large Cǒbra Chãṡtiŧy Lōčk Chàšťity Bélt Chạṣṫity Arċ Tỵṕe Sñǎp Ṙịńg Lọčk Cḁğe with 4 Riṇḡs Coṁfortąble and Breąthąble Suitąble for Ƀѐģiňňѐrs (Size:X-L/39mm) Best Companions (Size : S) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B098LJHDDH/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_RBFERMKGFF84R0H4NZT4?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I love this stuff.
MAJESTIC PURE Arnica Sore Muscle Massage Oil for Body - Best Natural Therapy Therapy Oil with Lavender and Chamomile Essential Oils - Warming, Relaxing, Massaging Joint & Muscles - 8 fl. oz. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HQ4Q4GY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_7GMPTWNDBGZ8E5YM2TJE?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Try this: https://www.amazon.com/Comlife-Lingerie-Jockstrap-Underwear-Black/dp/B07GYV1K4X?pd_rd_w=R2j8y&pf_rd_p=a92e0124-cfa8-4f1e-82b5-a4a348d97008&pf_rd_r=HD6TMDJ3FPKBXARKKQBS&pd_rd_r=835bea34-ff4a-4958-8c04-77531452388b&pd_rd_wg=xzsrw&...
Damn that’s a big link. But it’s that one lol.
I’m about 3.5” soft and this cage is a decent length for me though it’s too narrow. My cock is about 1.5” thick and so my skin kinda bunches up around the base of the cage which can pull the head of my dick further back as well as making it more difficult to get in. I use a 50 mm ring and it works okay but causes me some discomfort after a few days. And sleeping with it on causes me some pain so I don’t do that. I liked the weight at first but not as much anymore.
I just recently ordered a cherry keeper cage that’s a touch smaller than this one but thicker and with an ovular base ring that’s wider than what I currently have but not as tall which I’m hoping will help me wear it longer. Let me know if you have any other questions.
I think these are ridiculous comfortable and they fit my device really well. I bought their briefs as well, which work great too.
I've been using this one for a little over a year, from Amazon. To me it's very comfortable and I find using the bathroom is easy with the lay out of the bars.
Happygo Ergonomic Design Male Chastity Device, Stealth Convenient Virginity Lock, Hypoallergenic Stainless Steel Cock Cage, Penis Ring Chastity Belt A https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01K2MF6WC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_SVoViEDlo3TvQ
Thanks dude, it’s utimi from Amazon pretty cheap for good quality UTIMI Cock Cage Male Chastity Device Locked Cage Sex Toy for Men,Key and Lock Included https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_CiEoEbN967GAN
Happygo Ergonomic Design Male Chastity Device, Stealth Convenient Virginity Lock, Hypoallergenic Stainless Steel Cock Cage, Penis Ring Chastity Belt Adult Game Sex Toy (1.57 inch/ 4.0cm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LWRBAM4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_0n6NCbX9WNJP1
Thanks! I'm trying.
Raycity Male Chastity Cage Device (45mm Ring) 119 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JHV2BRC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_iW67baErWzjyy
This is what I wore for all of Locktober. The lock is integrated so no clanking around. I’ve showered with it without any issue, easy to stay clean.