I just read NMMNG. I posted to reddit about a possible divorce and reddit responded with askMRP which led to NMMNG.
I am for the first time in my life learning to love myself. NMMNG said to find friends or groups to share with.
A month ago I wouldn't be caught dead with a mens counseling group.
Last week I went to a men's co-dependency 12 step group. I met some wierdos as well as some normal dudes and felt better after that meeting. One of the men asked me to go to an Al-Anon group the following day, I went.
I felt better after that meeting. Now I'm looking forward to going to the next meeting and sharing/completing some of the breaking free activities.
My point is that I would've never thought these meetings would make me feel better.
I found them on meetup.com.
Hope that helps.
I’ll take the counterpoint. Rollo Tomasi’s writing is confusing, contradicting and largely mental masturbation. I’ve never been able to get through any significant passage in his writing without screaming for a good editor to come in and fix his manuscripts.
As for hypergamy and AWALT, those are deeply cynical and simplistic beliefs that keep guys stuck in their own self-limiting beliefs.
Finally, popularity is not a good indicator of quality. Just because Tomasi might be more popular, doesn’t mean his points of view will be valuable to you.
So take Tomasi’s work with a grain of salt. Remember, Red Pill Philosophy is a praxeology, not science. Take from it what you can use, discard the rest. Think critically. Do the work. Stop seeking that new book that will instantly fix you.
Want to do some work? Check out Dr. Pariser’s new book here: