I’ve had this little guy for 6 plus years and it works just as good as when I first got it. Holds charge for a long time and has a bunch of different settings. Best part is how quiet it is. I use it next to my sleeping fiancé without worry of waking him up. Everything else I’ve bought previously didn’t compare. Side note: I only use it externally so I can only speak for that.
Owning a vibrator does not make it hard to come. Haha whaaaaat.
I would recommend trying this super affordable combination of retinol, vitamin c and hyaluronic acid. I apply the vitamin c in the morning, wait 30 min, and apply the hyaluronic acid. Once every other night, I put on the retinol, wait 30 min and then put on the hyaluronic. Don’t add the vitamin c and retinol together Bc they have different ph levels. I love this brand of hyaluronic acid—soooo moisturizing.
Try to stay out of the sun, use sunscreen, sleep well, exercise. I’m in mid-30s and people always say I look like I’m a teenager. Prob Bc of genes but also staying out of the sun.
You're welcome!! I guess they're both strips!! Here's for behind the TV! https://www.amazon.com/Led-Strip-Lights-PANGTON-VILLA/dp/B072QWJRBS/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=set+of+lights+for+behind+tv&qid=1613079593&sr=8-3
Your hair looks great! I got a similar one for Christmas. I absolutely love it! It's got different attachments. Link in case anyone is looking for one. Hair Dryer Brush Set, INGLAM 4 in 1 Blowout Brush, Negative Ion Detachable Hair Dryer & Styler Volumizer Hot Air Hair Dryer Brush with 2 Styling Brush Heads https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086YGBB3G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_LDIbGb5P444FZ
Thank you 😭 It’s this guy! And there’s a $10 off coupon right now - Revlon One Step
Hey! Just to second airportshirt, you should definitely get checked out for vaginismus or differences in your hymen (septate hymen, microperforate hymen, etc.) by a gynecologist or your primary care doctor. If the reason why you’re having trouble inserting things is less of a “physical” block and more of a searing pain sensation, you might also want to be checked out for vulvodynia. I’ve struggled with many of these things myself, and there are many prescription and non-prescription treatments available to help you. If you want to be proactive with treatment even before seeing your doctor, you could get a set of vaginal dilators + lube and/or some topical lidocaine. If you have any questions or just want to rant to someone who has been in a similar situation, please feel free to message me! You are not alone :)
VeDO BAM Rechargeable Bullet, Tease Me Turquoise https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01I2D3576/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_N8YMZRBN78R5YRBRA1NW?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
i love this one sm i have bought two. it is pretty powerful for how small it is and it’s more manageable during sex because it’s not bulky
Get these: Cuttte 500 PCS Disposable Microbrush Applicators Microfiber Wands for Eyelashes Extensions and Makeup Application (Head Diameter: 2.0mm) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GVBMLWL/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_VF4SQ1D23DMJV087TA3M
Just search “latisse brushes” on Amazon and different ones come up. The applicators they give are so stupid! They’re huge. I think it’s to intentionally waste product.
I also use one for both eyes. I usually wash my face before so it’s not like I’m spreading so much bacteria from one eye to the next. Worked so much better
A numbing lube for anal is AMAZING!!! I personally use this one from amazon and it does wonders verse normal lube and it’s affordable. Also some drinks so you relaxxxx if you drink. And my favorite way to lead into anal is to be laying on your stomach, have your guy give you a back/butt massage so you relax more and slide it in basically a tiny bit at a time and stop at each inch for a 15 seconds or so and let your asshole continue to stretch out. Usually kissing your neck and shoulders during this helps. And for the love of god slow strokes only! Idk how girls can handle fast strokes with anal. At least I know I can’t. 😂 Lube for Anal
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Absolutely - that is why I just don't do it. Also, I find dating super repetitive and boring.
I think where we differ is that I do not get super attached for months, even after having sex. And I generally find sex boring. When a guy leaves, I am usually sad for like 2-3 weeks and then its meh.
You need to identify why you are anxious and obsessive first. Yes - sex bonds us to another really well but why is it hard to let go for you?
On the perfection and having problems thing - my shit stinks, so his is going to as well. Understanding that you're two imperfect people will totally help you to have compassion and navigate difficult communication. Its gonna happen but unless its abusive, do not stress.
Lastly, therapy can help! You don't have to go forever and ever, but even going for a while can help you work through these things. It has for me.
Also, reading this book has changed all of my romantic relationships and views on them: https://www.amazon.ca/Youre-Office-Its-Already-Late/dp/1250130778
You can delete the apps and try and meet people in person. Its up to you! You just need to learn to kinda view dates as "interviews" but don't act like a Manager on a Panel. Don't attach anything to it and just get to know them!
I hope this helps!
Dated a dude in the military (through bootcamp, getting sent to another base, and then deploying). I bought a bulk thing of postcards https://www.amazon.com/Art-Pixar-100-Collectible-Postcards/dp/0811849554/ref=sr_1_8?crid=3MVFMIV9CGIK6&keywords=bulk+postcards&qid=1645684915&sprefix=bulk+postcard%2Caps%2C148&sr=8-8 and whenever I missed him more or just wanted to, I'd send him a note on a postcard. Cheaper than a letter, cute and a great way to remind him that you're thinking of him and he liked them too. Of course we talked via text/facetime/etc. but the postcards seemed to be extra special.
The castor oil helped grow old hairs back but I also found it helped strengthen my hair follicles and I feel like I def grew new hair around one of my eyebrows. I used a lil brush to lather the castor oil on my brows before bed which I think helped the direction some of the hairs were growing. I bought mine for $5 at Walmart vs $10 at Ulta! It’s by sheamoisture.
Dressing your “vibe” is basically best, but ultimately I think guys always look really good wearing basics of whatever that is. There’s a time and a place, but a graphic tees, sports jerseys, etc can look a lot younger and less put together. A simple plain grey grey hoodie that fits well can look SO GOOD with a pair of well fitting pants and white sneakers, it’s not complicated.
I think a biggest no is badly fitting pants. No matter what you wear, if you’re wearing gross old jeans it looks like your mom picked up somewhere four years ago, it doesn’t matter what else you wear.
Last element is how you wear the clothes you have, doing things like rolling your plain white tshirt sleeves twice, cuffing your pants etc can make your outfit look a lot more intentional if you’re trying to be stylish and elevate your look
Simple accessories to elevate: If your a chain kind of guy that can be hot
I second the comment about watches - a simple minimalist one can really elevate an outfit https://www.amazon.ca/Minimalist-Fashion-Simple-Analog-Leather/dp/B08DHZNWK7/ref=mp_s_a_1_11?crid=35SMW6ZN73PMO&dchild=1&keywords=mens+watches&qid=1634652226&sprefix=mens+wa&sr=8-11
Hats too, if you go simple it’s going to look good! Girls probably aren’t into some neon orange and blue sports team hat, but something understated can look hot (esp backwards)
Retro Pilot Sunglasses Square Metal Frame for Men Women Sunglasses Classic Downey Tony Stark Gradient Lens https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07855XDX9/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_9Y91Q409CCFQ5K7C9N0H?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm being an angel! I got a really pretty flowy white gauze dress, white feather wings, and a gold head piece like this I'm really excited for it. all the parts haven't arrived yet but I think it'll be cool and comfortable
Amazon! Link :)
I wear the bottom straps a little bit lower on my hips so it's not as much of the "loincloth" look haha
Schick Hydro Silk Touch-Up Multipurpose Exfoliating Dermaplaning Tool, Eyebrow Razor, and Facial Razor with Precision Cover, 3 Count (Packaging May Vary) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0787GLBMV/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_WF6WCHKEX1DN0ABH7YZ8
I’ve got hella peach fuzz and I swear by these
I have this band and I love it! https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07W75DKLR/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
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I have a band like this that I love! I also wear my Apple watch 24/7 I could care less if people think it looks bad 😂
I wouldn't wear mine to a formal event, but I think they look fine for everyday. I did buy a replacement band for mine so it went better with the outfits I was wearing to my business casual office job pre-COVID, but it was pretty cheap. I can't find the exact one I have, but it's a gold metal one with a magnetic closure so it's adjustable, super close to this one.
Here ya go!! I went with the hard one because the reviews said that was better for the underarm and nether regions. Also I you dont have to use that much so this tub will last a whileeee
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i used to have this issue of feeling "too intense" as well. i had a vibrator all throughout college but never really used it. but now i use it like everyday (lol) i have this one and use it on the lowest setting. i would suggest trying your vibrator on your clit with underwear/pants still on - i know this sounds weird AF but it really helps with the over stimulation. lana rhodes actually talked about how she does this recently on her podcast as well!